Así es como sabes que está locamente enamorado de ti
“He loves me. He loves me not…” If you’ve ever found yourself pulling the petals of the imaginary flower while wondering about whether he’s really in love with you or not, I totally understand.
Deciphering what is going on in a man’s head has become more like deciphering quantum physics (and I’m not even exaggerating). It took me some time to realize that the famous saying “Men are from Mars, women are from Venus” realmente suena a verdad.
After a few failed romances, I’ve realized this: A las mujeres se les da muy bien pensar demasiado, y a los hombres, no saber expresar sus sentimientos. (Creo que es una gran alternativa a la hipótesis Marte-Venus).
Así pues, la razón principal por la que las mujeres se lo piensan demasiado y actúan de forma confusa cuando se trata de romances es que los hombres no son tan buenos expresando sus sentimientos o sabiendo qué es exactamente lo que quieren en ese momento.
But, when a man falls in love (assuming he’s not a commitment-phobe), you will SURELY know it because everything feels different then. There are some not-so-obvious things a man does if he’s madly in love with you and that’s what you need to pay attention to!
(To eliminate any suspicion, we’ll also check if the fear of falling in love with you is preventing him from ‘entering romance’ and expressing his feelings for you.)
¿Está locamente enamorado de ti (pero tiene miedo de sus PROFUNDOS sentimientos hacia ti)?
You probably already know the drill. You’re sitting next to your cell phone, waiting for him to text you back, but still, nothing happens.
Han pasado días e incluso semanas, y justo en ese momento, cuando te dices a ti misma que no vas a esperar más, él vuelve con alguna excusa convincente (o lo que sea) haciéndote sentir aún más confusa.
Le das una segunda oportunidad pensando que a partir de ahora las cosas serán diferentes, pero al cabo de un tiempo, repite el mismo procedimiento (o debería decir error).
It’s evident that he’s giving you mixed signals because he himself has no idea what he’s doing. One day, he showers you with the ultimate affection worthy of poetic love, and the next day, his affection shuts down and vanishes into thin air.
One of the main reasons why a man would do such a thing is because he’s afraid of his feelings for you. Besides just being men, there are many other underlying causes and factors that influence this, and it’s not that simple.
La próxima vez que te encuentres en la misma situación o en una parecida, presta atención a algunos de los aspectos más importantes signs he’s afraid to fall for you :
• Sending you a wide array of mixed signals
• Wanting to keep things light for as long as he can
• Yet, still, he’s always there when you need him
• Having difficulties opening up to you
• Thinking he doesn’t deserve you
• His past romances scarred him
• If some or all of the above things resonate with your situation, then you know he’s totally in love with you, but (for some reason) he’s afraid of showing it to you.
This is how you know for sure that he’s MADLY in love with you:
Let’s say that your guy doesn’t have a problem expressing his feelings, and he’s not afraid of falling in love with you. It sounds like a dreamland, right?
El caso es que las mujeres nos hemos acostumbrado a lidiar con situaciones complicadas en las que, incluso cuando todo va bien, seguimos pensando que debe de haber algo mal.
We still keep looking for flaws in our romance because we’re convinced that things can’t be that good and that simple.
Pero, ¿y si te digo que la mitad de tus romances mueren por pensar demasiado? A veces (y quiero decir a veces), las cosas son muy sencillas.
When a man falls in love with you (assuming he doesn’t have problems committing), his MAIN GOAL is to show it to you with his words and actions!
When a man is in love with you, he doesn’t play games, he doesn’t lie to you, and he doesn’t let you wait. Instead, he uses every opportunity to show you how much he cares about you.
Se esfuerza, te mima con todos esos dulces gestos románticos y nunca te hace dudar de su afecto por ti.
When a man is in love with you, he doesn’t make excuses. Instead, he steps up his game and decides to become the best version of himself.
Cuando un hombre se enamora, hace todo lo posible por conquistarte y hacer que te quedes en su vida.
That’s the only truth. When you wake up in the morning, read his romantic text message and think to yourself: “ This couldn’t be real.” But, know that it is real and it’s happening. It’s happening because he loves you!
When he goes out of his way to do something nice for you, know that he’s doing it because he loves you and he wants to make you feel special. He’s doing it because your happiness has suddenly become more important than his own.
That’s how you know that he’s MADLY in love with you.
Si necesitas más pruebas de que su amor por ti es real, entonces here’s how a man acts when he’s falling in love with you:
• Subtle touches have become more frequent
• He can’t help but smile at you whenever he sees you
• Deep eye contact has become more intense
• He gives you a forehead kiss – the most powerful kiss of all
• He keeps his arm around you (to show the world that you belong to him)
• His kisses tell you more about his affection than his words
• He texts you MORE often
Cuando un hombre se enamora, suceden todas estas cosas increíbles . When a man falls in love, he doesn’t waste time, but acts.
If he does these things, then you know he’s totally SMITTEN with you!
I used to think that by only observing his texting habits, I could tell whether he was into me or not. I’ll just say that this is partially true.
Hay muchas cosas que los hombres hacen cuando quieren colmarte de afecto, y en lugar de descifrar cada una de ellas, ¡tienes que fijarte en el panorama general!
La verdad es que a los hombres no se les da tan bien expresar sus sentimientos como a las mujeres, pero si te fijas los cambios significativos en la cantidad de su esfuerzo, then you know he’s totally smitten with you.
You’ll notice this ‘effort improvement’ in every single aspect of his behavior.
No sólo te enviará mensajes más a menudo y los hará más interesantes con emojis, sino que se asegurará de presentarte a sus amigos (y quizá a su familia), hará planes para el futuro contigo y te alegrará el día con todas esas pequeñas cosas que demuestran que le importas de verdad.
It’s really difficult to draw conclusions from only one pattern of his behavior (like frequent texting). That’s why you need to expand your views and pay attention to other aspects as well.
I’ve learned the hard way that the worst thing a woman could do is make excuses for a man. For example, when he lets you wait for him to show up on a date, then informs you that he won’t even come, you think to yourself: Yes, he’s probably busy at the moment and that’s why he forgot about me.
Guess what? This shouldn’t happen. It’s not normal for a man to forget about a date with a woman whom he’s supposed to court, make her feel special, and show her that he’s worthy of being with her!
Don’t get me wrong. It’s okay if such a thing happens once, but if it happens on a regular basis, then making excuses for his behavior will only make things worse.
What I’m trying to say is that if a man is TOTALLY ready to win you and he’s FALLING IN LOVE with you, he will do everything in his power to show it and prove it to you.
That’s how you know that he’s madly in love with you.
