8 gestos censurables que algunos consideran románticos

De vez en cuando hay que sorprender a la otra persona con gestos románticos.

That’s how you keep the romance alive, which is very important for a relationship. Every person likes to be surprised with some sweet gesture.

Nos produce una sensación especial y esas mariposas instantáneas en el estómago.

Those gestures – little love affections – help you to show your loved one how much you care for them.

But sometimes, some people exaggerate and come up with a gesture that’s maybe romantic for them, but their significant other finds it creepy and downright cringy.

You should be careful with those gestures – you don’t want to drive your partner away.

I want to help you here, so let’s get into some of the most common cringeworthy gestures to avoid.

1. Compartir demasiado en las redes sociales

It’s great that you are proud of your partner and want everyone to know how much you love them, but you don’t need to post each photo de vosotros dos en vuestras redes sociales con alguna cita cariñosa.

Your partner might not like it at all because they might think that you only want to brag about your relationship or want other people to be jealous of your “perfect relationship.”

2. Exagerar con los cumplidos

Algunas personas son tímidas y si llénalos de cumplidos, they don’t know what to do.  They feel uncomfortable because they don’t know how to respond.

If you pay your partner too many compliments, it won’t bring you anything good – just the opposite.

Si exagera con los cumplidos, su pareja puede pensar que no está siendo sincero con ella.

Haga a su pareja sólo cumplidos sinceros y verdaderos.

3. Visitas inesperadas

Even if you are in a relationship, you must have respect for your partner’s privacy.

Esto es especialmente importante si aún viven con sus padres.

Tal vez estén en medio de una cena familiar o entreteniendo a unos invitados.

That’s why if you come unannounced to your partner’s house, their parents might consider you a complete freak.

4. Escribir una canción para tu SO

If you think that it’s super romantic to write a song for your partner and then invite them on a picnic where you’ll play it to them, I have to disappoint you. It’s not.

Maybe it’s romantic in the movies, but in reality, it really isn’t. Your partner won’t say that they didn’t like it, but trust me, they’ll feel awkward.

They won’t know how to respond to your gesture, because they don’t want to hurt your feelings.

5. Jewelry isn’t always the perfect gift

It’s clear to everyone that women like jewelry, but you don’t have to give them jewelry for every Valentine’s Day.

A las mujeres les gusta que las sorprendan con un regalo y regalarles siempre lo mismo resulta aburrido.

Gift them something different the next time, something you made yourself, and you’ll see that they’ll like it more than jewelry.

6. Contratar un avión para escribir algo en el cielo

You might think that this is the most romantic thing someone can do for their loved one. It’s not.

It’s too much and too expensive. You can give your SO a much better gift that costs a lot less than that.

If you love a person and that person loves you, trust me, you won’t even have to say it.

You’ll both know. Your actions are the only way to show your partner how much you honestly love them.

7. Sorprender a tu pareja con una mascota

If your partner didn’t mention to you that he/she would like to have a pet, never buy it for them, no matter how much they like animals.

Las mascotas son una gran responsabilidad y es posible que tu pareja no tenga tiempo para ocuparse de ellas o que simplemente no esté preparada para asumir una obligación tan grande.

8. Getting a tattoo with your partner’s name

Tengo que ser sincero y decir que este es el peor gesto de todos. Quieres demostrarle a tu pareja que estás preparado para un compromiso más serio y tomas la decisión (equivocada) de hacerte un tatuaje con su nombre.

By getting a tattoo, you won’t prove anything to them and you’ll just regret the decision afterwards.

Life can be so unpredictable – you never know if you are going to spend your life with that person.

Si alguna vez rompéis, ese tatuaje sólo será un recordatorio de tu amor pasado y seguro que molestará a tu próxima pareja.

Además, cuando se trata de ideas para tatuajespuedes ser mucho más imaginativo.

Recuerda siempre que el mejor regalo que puedes hacer a alguien es tu tiempo.

Y el mejor gesto para tu pareja siempre será apreciarla y agradecerle todo lo que hace por ti.

No hace falta exagerar. El amor se basa en las pequeñas cosas y la gente aprecia de verdad los pequeños gestos.