Hay una gran diferencia entre luchar por el amor y suplicarlo

Sometimes we get so consumed by this modern dating era that we simply get lost in it. Thanks to the mess going on in other people’s heads and in ours too, we tend to fail to distinguish right from wrong.

Perhaps, this is the main reason why we keep ending in toxic relationships or fighting for people who don’t actually deserve us.

Uno de los mayores errores que cometemos es que no nos damos cuenta de la diferencia entre luchar por el amor y mendigarlo.

Se podría decir que hay una delgada línea entre ambas cosas, pero no estoy de acuerdo.

When you’re fighting for love, it’s you who’s in charge. It’s you who’s taking the lead.

It’s you being confident enough to go after what you know you deserve and what you believe is worth your time.

El amor es una asociación y siempre hacen falta dos para bailar un tango. Siempre hacen falta dos personas para el amor.

Luchar por amor equivale a que dos personas trabajen juntas para superar sus diferencias y resolver todos los problemas juntos. It’s two people taking responsibility for their roles in the relationship.

It’s always two people in it. If it’s only one who’s trying, then it’s not love—it’s torture.

¿Cómo sabes si merece la pena luchar por tu relación? Muy sencillo. Los dos hacéis el trabajo duro y pesado que se necesita para estar alineados con otro ser humano.

You’re never the only one carrying the whole weight. You’re not the only one dragging the whole relationship forward. Because what’s right will never need to be forced.

When you’re begging for love, it’s a sign you’re desperate. When you’re begging for love, you’re probably going after something that was never meant to be yours to begin with.

Because if it did, you wouldn’t have to chase after it.

Suplicar por amor significa bailar solo la canción que fue creada para ser bailada en pareja.

Holding onto someone who doesn’t really want to be with you is like gripping sand. It will run through your fingers anyway.

If you have to beg for love, then the person you’re going after isn’t capable of loving you the way you deserve. If you’re chasing someone, it means they’re running away from you.

And if this is the case, then no matter what you do, you’re not going to be their priority. You’re never gonna get their attention, their time or their love.

You’ll just be bending over backwards for nothing.

Never allow your fear of losing a person commit you to someone who’s not good for you. And a person whom you have to beg for love is one of those.

If you have to beg someone for love or to stay in your life, it’s a clear sign they don’t belong there.

Always remember that when one door won’t open no matter how hard you push or pull, it’s locked for you and there isn’t anything on the other side for you.

La persona equivocada te hace mendigar atención, afecto, amor y compromiso. La persona adecuada te da estas cosas porque te quiere.

See, if someone wants you, you’ll be their primera opción without even asking for it. They’ll be the ones to fight for your love instead of making you beg for theirs.

You shouldn’t have to force someone to want to be with you—that’s not how love should work.

When someone is right, you’ll feel it. They won’t make you feel miserable and they won’t hold you at arm’s length.

Ya sabes, it’s okay to fight for someone who loves you but it’s not okay to fight for someone to love you. Conozca la diferencia.

Instead of wasting your life begging for love that isn’t meant to be yours, always have enough self-respect to know that the world is too big and you have too much to offer.

Recuerda que te mereces el amor adecuado, no el que tienes que mendigar. Que esta sea tu estrella guía cuando empieces a pensar si deberías darle otra oportunidad o alejarte.