La belleza de conocer a un buen chico tras una relación tóxica

Relaciones tóxicas son lo más malo que te puede pasar en la vida. Cuando te entregas por completo a alguien, crees que es el elegido.

Then he disappoints you and hurts you in ways you couldn’t imagine, so your faith in love get shaken a bit.

You don’t have the same outlook on love, and you think you won’t fall in love anymore. You feel used, broken and depressed, and no matter how much you want to get over the one who mistreated you, you can’t.

You hate that you still have feelings for him and you don’t know what to do with them.

You start thinking that you are guilty of all the things that happened, and you don’t see the whole picture crystal clear.

You still don’t blame him for everything between the two of you because you think you could have done something to make things work.

But the harsh truth is that you couldn’t have done anything to save the relationship that was already doomed at the beginning.

It wasn’t about you; it was about him. You are not the unlovable one; he is. You are not the bad guy in all this story. He is.

Y sé que necesitarás algún tiempo para entenderlo todo y ordenar las cosas, pero al final, verás las cosas como realmente son.

Y cuando aprende a quererte a ti mismoCuando te des una segunda oportunidad y te des cuenta de que todavía hay vida después de él, estarás lista para seguir adelante.

Once you heal properly, you will be able to start a new chapter of your life. You won’t think you are the unlovable one.

De hecho, pensarás que tú, más que nunca, mereces un amor que permanezca. Y eso es lo que buscarás siempre.

You won’t put up with any crap because you had enough of that in your last relationship.

You won’t let another man treat you as an option or play mind games with you. You will cut out everyone who tries to do that from your life.

But after all that mess, after your heartbreak, tears spilled and depressive nights when you were trying to find a way out but couldn’t find it, someone will come into your life.

Llegará un hombre que pensará que vales la pena. Conocerás a un buen tipo cuando menos te lo esperes.

You will meet him, and you won’t immediately recognize he is the one.

Pero él se esforzará por ti y tú empezarás a fijarte cada vez más en él. Un buen tipo won’t sweep you off your feet as soon as he enters the room. Instead, he will do it slowly because he doesn’t want to push anything.

Es el tipo de hombre who would give up on you if you wouldn’t be interested in him. He is a real gentleman, and he treats all women well.

Y ese es el hombre al que tienes que esperar, porque la espera merece la pena. Y una vez que entre en tu vida, verás lo que es el verdadero amor.

Verás la belleza de conocer al chico bueno después de una relación tóxica. Y con él, todos tus sueños se harán realidad.

You will finally feel special and unique. You won’t have to beg him for his attention because he will give it only to you.

With him, you won’t have to overthink if you are good enough or worthy enough.

You won’t feel any of those negative emotions you felt while you were in a toxic relationship. Instead, you will feel like the happiest woman alive, and you will project your positive energy onto the people around you.

Cuando conozcas al adecuado, todo cobrará sentido al instante. Sentirás que puedes conquistar el mundo con una mano si él te sostiene la otra.

Y arrasarás en todo lo que empieces a hacer.

With the right one, you will feel alive again—alive after so much time spent in sorrow and depression. And that will be the best feeling ever.

The right man, your good guy, will show you that love shouldn’t be hard and that you shouldn’t work your ass off to satisfy your partner. He will show you that love is as natural as breathing.

Te dará todo lo que has estado deseando durante tanto tiempo y nada será demasiado difícil para él. Te complacerá y te demostrará que todos los hombres serían muy felices si pudieran tenerte en su vida.

La persona adecuada te devolverá la fe en el amor, y con ella todo tendrá sentido. Todos los rompecabezas encajarán y sentirás la paz interior.

Él te sostendrá mientras arreglarse tras una relación tóxica...y lo que es más importante, será muy paciente al respecto.

Siempre intentará comprenderte, y hacerte daño será lo último que tenga en mente.

Te valorará porque ve que eres una mujer de gran calidad, y cada acto que haga será con mucho amor.

A guy like that would sacrifice his own happiness just so you could be happy. He is someone who will put you first even if you didn’t ask for it.

Es el hombre de tus sueños, tu mejor amigo, tu amante, tu mano salvadora, tu llamada nocturna y tu diario humano. Es tu otra mitad.

Y lo mejor es que no se va a ir a ninguna parte.

Christine is the author of ‘Mirar fijamente a los ojos de la ansiedad y la depresión’, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.