Las 7 cosas que los hombres hacen para destruir su matrimonio
“Great marriages don’t happen by luck or by accident. They are the result of a consistent investment of time, thoughtfulness, forgiveness, affection, prayer, mutual respect and rock-solid commitment between a husband and wife.”
En resumen, el matrimonio es una hermosa montaña rusa en la que dos personas luchan constantemente por mantener viva su llama.
You never know what will happen next and that’s the beauty of it and at the same time, it’s a curse (especially if your partner is not as committed to maintaining your love as you are).
Hablando de eso, hay algunas cosas que son las principales culpables de destruir un matrimonio y los hombres son en su mayoría los culpables de ello.
Hay algunas cosas que hace un hombre que destruye su matrimonio sin remedio porque olvida que había elegido estar ahí para su pareja en lo bueno y en lo malo.
He destroys his marriage by forgetting to make sacrifices and putting his woman’s happiness before his own.
Sigue centrándose en sí mismo, olvidando así que la clave de todo matrimonio exitoso está en dar y recibir mutuamente.
Las 7 cosas que los hombres hacen para destruir su matrimonio
Not caring about your woman’s feelings
Las mujeres son, por naturaleza, más emocionales y su mente es más compleja, por eso siempre se fijarán hasta en el más mínimo detalle.
If you’re constantly looking at other women, they will notice it but in most cases, they will not tell you that they saw you looking, which doesn’t mean that they are not hurt inside.
Por lo tanto, hacer constantemente cosas que hacen que su mujer se sienta incómoda es el destructor número uno del matrimonio.
No preocuparse por cómo se siente tu mujer equivale a no preocuparse por ella en absoluto.
No hacer un esfuerzo para que tu mujer se sienta especial
Los gestos sencillos significan mucho para cualquier mujer, sobre todo en el matrimonio.
If you’re constantly neglecting her happiness by not giving her enough attention, you are deliberately destroying your marriage.
If you’re not showing your affection with simple gestures like making coffee or tea for her, taking her flowers, or texting her ‘ Te quiero ’, you are deliberately extinguishing the flame of your love by not making an effort to make her feel special.
If you’re never there when she needs you, you are letting her know that you don’t care if she feels lonely.
And if you never ask yourself if you’re doing something wrong, you are not giving a damn about your marriage.
No dejarla formar parte de tu vida
If your woman asks you where you have been or about your new hobby, don’t just say to her, “I don’t have time for this now,” porque la hará sentir triste y no deseada.
No dejarla formar parte de tu vida acabará destruyendo tu matrimonio.
If she asks you what is bothering you or why you are pissed off, don’t just stay silent because your woman wants to help you and be there for you.
Not giving her an opportunity to show you how much she cares will make her feel alone in the marriage and it will destroy everything you’ve built so far.
No asumir la responsabilidad de tus actos ni ser un hombre de verdad
Como ya se ha dicho, en el matrimonio hay altibajos, peleas constantes, alegrías y tristezas, dar, recibir y perdonar.
You will always make mistakes (minor or major ones) which is totally normal when you’re married but not taking responsibility for them is not normal.
Los hombres cometen un gran error cuando deciden que no les importan sus actos ni sus consecuencias.
Los hombres destruyen su matrimonio por no ser hombres de verdad who will admit that they made a mistake and they won’t try hard to make it right.
Dándole el tratamiento del silencio
The worst thing you can do after a fight is to stay distant and give your partner the silent treatment and that’s exactly what many men out there are doing.
No ser maduro emocionalmente es la mayor predisposición para destruir tu matrimonio.
Ambos miembros de la pareja deben estar siempre dispuestos a hablar entre sí y a comentar todos y cada uno de los problemas a los que puedan enfrentarse.
Lo último que deberías hacer es ignorar a tu pareja, porque ignorarla es el asesino silencioso de todo matrimonio.
Taking away your woman’s freedom by being pushy and judgmental
Women are, by nature, sensitive and fragile beings and if they sense that someone is taking away their freedom, they will feel entrapped and there’s no worse feeling than that.
Most men forget that their woman is able to make choices for herself and she doesn’t need to constantly be directed.
Taking away your woman’s freedom by being pushy and judgmental will destroy your marriage and your woman’s security.
No disculparse nunca
Apologizing means saying that you’re sorry for what you’ve done to your woman and that you will never repeat that again, whereas not apologizing means not giving a damn about what she will think.
Esos hombres que nunca se disculpan por sus gilipolleces hacen que su mujer se sienta menos digna.
Esos hombres que nunca se disculpan por sus gilipolleces están destruyendo su matrimonio voluntariamente.
If you want to preserve the love and save your marriage, don’t treat your woman like something replaceable.
Treat her like the delicate flower she is, shower her with affection and don’t forget to remind her of her true beauty.
