7 cosas con las que sólo una mujer autosuficiente puede sentirse identificada
At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve really got! Nobody will come to save you unless you learn to do it yourself, and that’s the rule she lives by.
She counts on herself, and whatever inner demons plague her, she isn’t waiting on anyone else to come wave a magic wand and make them disappear.
This way, it’s easier for her to live her life the way she’s used to. She is never disappointed because she doesn’t expect much from people.
La única manera de que nunca te defrauden es no dar a la gente la oportunidad de hacerlo.
Nada supera su libertad emocional y financiera
Knowing that nobody can take anything away from her because she has worked for everything she’s got is priceless. Every dime she has, she earned herself.
Saber que nadie puede retener nada sobre su cabeza le da tranquilidad emocional.
This is not something that just happens—it’s something you work for.
Y ha trabajado duro e incansablemente para llegar a donde está.
Ninguna cantidad de dinero puede comprar la tranquilidad que ella tiene gracias a su libertad emocional y financiera.
After everything she’s pasado por...valora esto por encima de cualquier otra cosa en su vida, y nunca va a disculparse por ello.
She appreciates what she’s got more than others because nothing was ever put in her lap
Como le enseñaron a depender de sí misma para todo lo que quisiera y necesitara, lo valora más profundamente de lo que quizá lo haría cualquier otra persona.
She wasn’t showered with love, and good things didn’t just appear at her doorstep, so when she succeeds in something, it means that much more to her.
But the things she was never given in life are the things which make her who she is today: a self-sufficient, resilient, and kind-hearted woman, with a good moral compass, and the ability to achieve whatever she sets her mind to…which is what she’s been doing her whole life.
Being a self-sufficient woman isn’t always a matter of choice
A veces, la vida no te da otra opción que aprender a depender únicamente de ti mismo.
Es una cualidad admirable, pero a veces desearías tener a alguien en quien confiar tanto como en ti mismo.
For some women, this is a matter of survival, and if this woman wasn’t as independent and self-sufficient as she is, life would be significantly harder.
La vida le enseñó a vivir así y se adaptó. Ella puede ser perfectamente feliz por su cuenta, but that doesn’t mean she is always pleased about it.
She has her priorities straight and knows what’s not worth stressing over
She had to learn to live this way and for that reason, she didn’t have time for bullshit and trivial things to preoccupy her.
She learned really fast what mattered in life and what didn’t, so she never took things por sentado. Necesitara lo que necesitara, tenía que arreglárselas sola.
Nunca hubo otra persona que la ayudara con nada, así que aprendió a hacerlo todo sola.
This helps her stay grounded. If she has a problem, she finds a way to fix it. She doesn’t stress about stuff like clothes and shopping because she knows there’s so much more to life than that.
If she has a roof over her head and a few good people around, she’s good.
She knows it’s not selfish to put herself first
She isn’t ashamed to put her own needs first.
She knows that she is her number one priority, and if she doesn’t take care of herself, nobody else will.
In order to lead a happy and fulfilling life, she needs to be at peace with herself, and that’s exactly what she is.
Sus intenciones son siempre puras y es amable con la gente que la rodea.
Just because she puts herself first doesn’t mean she doesn’t value other people’s needs. All it means is that she’s picky with who she lets in.
It’s hard for her to find a partner who can appreciate and handle her independence
She has learned that men don’t typically choose women who are capable of taking care of themselves.
But she has no interest in playing the ‘’damsel in distress’’ for anyone either.
It’s a struggle letting a guy get close to her because she is so used to being on her own.
The idea of being let down—or even worse hurt—by a man seems like too much of a risk.
But she’s willing to take that risk for the right man—one who can handle her exactly for the mujer fuerte que ella es.
Alguien que la haga brillar y que la fortalezca en lugar de derribarla.
No espera que nadie la salve
At the end of the day, you’re all you’ve really got! Nobody will come to save you unless you learn to do it yourself, and that’s the rule she lives by.
She counts on herself, and whatever inner demons plague her, she isn’t waiting on anyone else to come wave a magic wand and make them disappear.
This way, it’s easier for her to live her life the way she’s used to. She is never disappointed because she doesn’t expect much from people.
La única manera de que nunca te defrauden es no dar a la gente la oportunidad de hacerlo.
Nada supera su libertad emocional y financiera
Knowing that nobody can take anything away from her because she has worked for everything she’s got is priceless. Every dime she has, she earned herself.
Saber que nadie puede retener nada sobre su cabeza le da tranquilidad emocional.
This is not something that just happens—it’s something you work for.
Y ha trabajado duro e incansablemente para llegar a donde está.
Ninguna cantidad de dinero puede comprar la tranquilidad que ella tiene gracias a su libertad emocional y financiera.
After everything she’s pasado por...valora esto por encima de cualquier otra cosa en su vida, y nunca va a disculparse por ello.
She appreciates what she’s got more than others because nothing was ever put in her lap
Como le enseñaron a depender de sí misma para todo lo que quisiera y necesitara, lo valora más profundamente de lo que quizá lo haría cualquier otra persona.
She wasn’t showered with love, and good things didn’t just appear at her doorstep, so when she succeeds in something, it means that much more to her.
But the things she was never given in life are the things which make her who she is today: a self-sufficient, resilient, and kind-hearted woman, with a good moral compass, and the ability to achieve whatever she sets her mind to…which is what she’s been doing her whole life.
