Por favor, deja de regalar tu energía a la gente equivocada

Eres cualquier cosa menos una tonta. Eres una mujer inteligente, independiente, lista y autosuficiente. Sabes cuánto te mereces y conoces tu valía.

So, what exactly is the problem? Why do you keep letting the wrong people in and giving them your heart? Why do you keep wasting your time and energy on those who don’t deserve it?

¿Por qué permites que los demás te agoten y drenen toda tu energía positiva? ¿Por qué sigues aferrándote a alguien, cuando sabes muy bien que deberías suelta?

I know that cutting off toxic people from your life isn’t easy. That breaking all ties with someone who’s been around for years means stepping out of your comfort zone. I know you are scared of doing all of this, even when you know it is the only option you have.

But I am here to tell you that it’s time for you to elígete a ti mismo por encima de los demás. And most of all, I am here to tell you that you are strong enough to do it, even if you don’t think so.

Please, understand that it’s time for you to deja de preocuparte por los demás más de lo que ellos se preocupan por ti. Remember that someone’s efforts are the only reflection of their love for you.

If a guy acts like he doesn’t give a damn about you, it is probably the truth and you better start believing him.

And this goes for everyone else in your life as well. You are not everyone’s mother and making others feel good and rearranging their lives is not your duty.

En lugar de intentar mejorar a otra persona, céntrate en convertirte en la mejor versión posible de ti mismo. Trabaja en hacerte feliz porque esa es la única responsabilidad que tienes y es algo que te debes a ti mismo.

Deja de amar a los tipos equivocados más de lo que te amas a ti misma. En realidad, dejar de amar a nadie más de lo que amas a ti mismo.

Por último, ponte tú primero y deja de dar prioridad a quienes te tratan como a una segunda opción.

En lugar de eso, empieza a valorar tu propio tiempo y esfuerzo y todos los que te rodean te seguirán. Empieza a respetarte y a darte a ti mismo el amor que esperas de los demás.

Deja de perseguir a los hombres equivocados y deja mendigando su atención o su amor.

The moment you see that a guy is playing mind games with you and the moment you see he is trying to make you go after him, understand that he isn’t worthy of your trouble.

Porque el hombre adecuado te dará todo su amor, sin que tengas que pedírselo.

Te prestará toda su atención y nunca te hará sentir indeseada o poco querida. Y si tu chico no es así, pasa de él, por mucho que te duela.

Deja de intentar arreglar a la gente rota who don’t want to heal. You need to understand that there are some people who are incapable of loving and it is not your job to ty to save them because you’ll never succeed in doing so.

Instead, you’ll just end up being dragged into their darkness and they’ll end up damaging you.

Deja de esperar un cambio que nunca llegará. You are a big girl now and you know that sadly, sometimes your love isn’t enough for those who are incapable of loving, regardless of its magnitude or depth.

So, stop making excuses and stop justifying someone mistreating you. He doesn’t love you in his own special way and he isn’t emotionally damaged—he is a jerk who keeps on breaking your heart and it’s about time you accept this.

Deja de permitir que otros te infecten con su toxicidad y negatividad. Stop thinking about everyone else’s problems, especially when these people couldn’t care less about you.

Don’t get me wrong—I know that you are an empático who can’t stay immune to the  misfortune of others.

But you need to understand that you can’t be everyone’s shoulder to cry on and that you don’t have the ability to repair all the damage in this world.

Sé que eres fuerte, pero también eres un ser humano. No eres una supermujer que puede arreglar todo de la noche a la mañana.

Así que, por favor, guarda tu energía para ti. Porque una vez que te metes en problemas, elre won’t be anyone to give you a hand. There won’t be anyone you can count on and you’ll understand that you are on your own.

And that is when you’ll understand that you need all the inner strength you can get.

When you’ll understand that you are the one who has to pick up the broken pieces of herself and that you are the one who has to put herself back together, without anyone’s help. That is when you’ll understand that you can’t rely on anyone but yourself.