Si alguien hace estas 8 cosas por ti, es "tu persona

Detente un momento y mira a tu alrededor. Hay tantas cosas que das por sentadas, tantas a las que no das un significado especial, y deberías hacerlo.

You should be grateful for and appreciate people in your life who draw a smile on your face or are there for you in the moments when you need them the most. Be blessed to have someone in your life who you can call ‘your person’.

Esta persona puede ser tu mejor amigo, tu familiar o tu pareja sentimental. La cuestión es que esta persona te entenderá como nadie.

Your communication and the connection between the two of you are so ridiculous you almost don’t believe they’re real.

No habrá ningún momento en vuestra vida en el que os superéis el uno al otro y toméis caminos separados. Tu persona es alguien que estará en tu vida para siempre.

They will always love you for who you are. They will never try to change you because then, you wouldn’t be you.

When you realize you have a person like that by your side, you know that they’re in it for life. It’s something nothing and no one will ever change. Your person is always going to be your person.

Here is how to know you’ve found them:

1. Te demuestran amor incondicional

Maybe that person is not around anymore. Maybe they had to leave for a while, but that doesn’t change anything. Even if you are miles apart, you still feel the unconditional love.

Sabéis que ninguna distancia entre vosotros puede romper el amor que sentís el uno por el otro.

Su amor te ha hecho mejor persona, y eres consciente de ello. Tu persona siente exactamente lo mismo.

2. You can’t hide anything from them

Puedes parecer completamente normal a los ojos de todos los que te rodean, pero si algo te preocupa, esa persona se dará cuenta.

The slightest change in your expression or your behavior won’t go unnoticed. You can try to act normally, but your person will see right through you.

3. Creen en ti

Esa persona siempre te cubre las espaldas. A veces la vida se pone dura y cometes errores. Caes bajo presión o tomas el camino fácil. En cualquier caso, el tiro sale por la culata.

And in those moments when you feel you’re all alone in the world, you have your person to comfort you and hold your hand.

Esa persona cree en ti. Sabe que tienes la fuerza necesaria para salir de cualquier situación y resolver cualquier problema. Son los que te hacen seguir adelante y no rendirte nunca.

4. Respetan su intimidad

Privacy doesn’t only mean you’re keeping secrets from someone. It’s usually about having personal space to deal with things that are troubling you, so when you share your problem, you know how to share it and what to say.

Your person knows that, and they will never force you to tell them something if you’re not ready. When you have thought about your problem and when you’re ready, you’ll open up, and there will be your person, patiently listening what you have to say.

5. Te desafían

Son los que te dicen que puedes hacerlo. Son los que que te inspiran para hacer algo más grande con tu vida.

When you hit a bump on the road, they are the ones who tell you it’s easy to cross it—you just have to try harder.

They show you the way you should take, and they walk it with you. You’re never alone when you have your person by your side.

6. Cuando te pasa algo, son los primeros en saberlo

The longest period of your life is the one between something happening and telling that to your person. No matter how embarrassing something is, you’ll tell it to your person. Then, you’ll cry and laugh about it.

Pero nada es real hasta que lo compartes con tu persona.

7. Siempre están de tu lado

You don’t have to be right, but your person is siding with you. They won’t even ask the background of the situation; they are backing you right that moment.

Y tener a una persona así a tu lado es una verdadera bendición. It’s so much easier to confront anything when you know you have someone backing you up. No matter what.

8. They will tell you when you’re wrong

The fact they are going to side with you on everything doesn’t mean they are agreeing with you. When the situation comes, they are going to be there for you because you’re fighting for something you believe in.

But when you’re alone, they are going to tell you the truth. If you’re wrong, they are going to point it out and suggest you make things right. They love you, and they want only the best for you.

En esa relación no hay celos, no se habla por la espalda y no hay sabotaje. Sabes que puedes confiar en esa persona. Sabes que ese vínculo entre vosotros está hecho para durar para siempre.