Lo que ella necesita es un hombre de acción, no un hombre de palabras.

Por muy bonito que sea escuchar esas tres palabras mágicas y codiciadas de tu hombre, ¡lo que es aún más bonito es ver cómo las demuestra con sus actos!

Saying “Te quiero“ doesn’t cut it if he’s going to be aloof, uninterested, and half present.

It’s not a joke when they say that actions speak louder than words, it’s a universal truth.

Puedes hablar todo lo que quieras, pero si sabes hablar, ¡seguro que sabes andar!

And she damn well deserves a man who can take the initiative and show her that he’s not all about empty words and zero action.

Quiere verle esforzarse y hacerle ver que no todos los hombres son iguales.

She needs to know that when she hears him say those three words, it’s not lip service or with ulterior motive, but rather an honest, genuine sentiment that will translate into his future actions.  

And she’s really not asking for that much.

She needs a man who will not only tell her that she’s a huge part of his world, but prove it by including her in his life and his dreams.

It’s not enough just to say that she means the world to you and you couldn’t imagine living without her.

Enséñala Llévala ante tus amigos y familiares y hacer un esfuerzo para que se sintiera querida y bienvenida allí.

She won’t believe that you’re serious about her unless you show her with your actions.

Las palabras significan poco cuando no haces nada para que cobren vida.

So, don’t say something unless you mean to stick to it. She no longer cares for that.

Necesita un hombre que no sólo le diga que sus sentimientos son importantes, sino que se lo demuestre escuchándola y prestándole atención.

Look, it’s easy saying that what she feels matters to you and that you’ve got her back no matter what.

But what’s tricky is actually making the time to listen to her vent when she’s having a tough time and paying attention because you genuinely care.

She doesn’t need you to say that you care and then listen to her with one ear while watching a basketball game intently at the same time.

Apaga la tele, olvídate de los videojuegos y los deportes, y presta atención a tu mujer.

She’s the one who does the exact same for you! If you can’t reciprocate, she’ll find someone who can.

She needs a man who will not only tell her he’ll call her back, but actually do it as soon as he’s off work.

When you’re too busy to pick up the phone, ser un hombre and tell her you’ll call her back as soon as you can – and follow through! She needs to know she’s that important to you.

If you keep making excuses by letting shit get in the way, soon, you’re going to be without your girl.

Así que mantén tus prioridades bajo control porque this girl won’t wait for too long.

She’s going to give you the benefit of the doubt a few times. But if you keep proving her wrong, she’s going to prove to you just how sorry you’ll be if you gamble her away.

She needs a man who will not only tell her she’s his favourite thing in the world, but prove it by making the time to be with her.

She’s harto de zalamerías y gestos vacíos.

There’s only so many times she can hear the sweetest words and then see them vanish into thin air as soon as push comes to shove.

If you truly love her, you’ll make time to be with her. We’ve all got jobs, hobbies, friends, and passions.

And guess what? It’s totally possible to juggle it all if you REALLY care!

Anything else is just a poor excuse to get out of something you’re really not into.

She’d much rather you tell her how it is to her face, then waste her time and never show up.

Planifique una cita nocturna y sorpréndala. Reserva una escapada romántica un fin de semana y deja los móviles en casa.

Preséntate en su trabajo de improviso durante su pausa para comer y dedica esa hora a quererla.

It’s that easy! You just need to be there. She knows you’ve got shit to do. She does too!

But when you’re really invested, you make the time, because you can’t imagine it otherwise.

Así que si te importa, demuéstraselo. Si la quieres, díselo. Asegúrate de demostrárselo de vez en cuando.

It’s not about grand gestures and outdoing your last big thing. Just give her your time and she’ll be the happiest girl in the universe.