13 señales inequívocas de que quiere besarte
Buscando señales de que quiere besarte? Of course you are because, otherwise, you wouldn’t be here, right? Below you’ll find things that most men do when they want to besarteseñales que indican que te desea MUCHO y mucho más, ¡así que estate atenta!
Todos estamos de acuerdo en que las primeras citas son realmente estresantes (especialmente cuando se trata de primera cita beso). You’re trying to do your best, to look amazing, and hoping that there will be enough chemistry and connection for la segunda cita suceder.
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Pero, ¿qué pasa cuando lo tienes todo? Tu conversación va genial, no hay silencios incómodos, he’s really amazing and sounds really interesting and smart.
Pero hay una cosa que aún te ronda por la cabeza. ¿Disfrutó él de tu compañía tanto como tú de la suya? ¿Va a besarte?
Por suerte para ti (y para todas las mujeres con las que sales), hay señales de que quiere besarte, así que presta mucha atención.
Señales evidentes de que quiere besarte
Contacto visual
If he’s locking eyes with you often and for a longer period, that’s a sign that he really enjoys your company and can’t look away from you. It’s also one of the signs he wants to kiss you!
Hombres que no están interesados o están planeando escapar de una cita nunca harán directo contacto visual contigo.
Instead, they will look around, and they won’t be able to focus on anything for longer than three seconds. But if his focus is entirely on you and your face, you got him! So, you better prepare for your first kiss with him!
Toques accidentales (y no tan accidentales)
He’s suddenly clumsy and nervous and he touches you all the time. He strokes your hair, touches your arms, tickles you and basically he uses any excuse he can find to touch you.
Se te ha caído una pestaña, te aparta el pelo de la cara, te empuja suavemente mientras te cuenta un chiste.
Evidentemente, éstas son algunas de las más obvias signos físicos quiere besarte!
Los hombres más valientes te cogerán abiertamente de la mano o te rodearán con el brazo, pero en la primera cita, la mayoría de ellos todavía están probando tus límites y la forma en que reaccionas a sus caricias.
Relacionado: ¿Qué dice su beso sobre sus sentimientos hacia ti?
He’s flirting
Is he acting flirty around you? Well, if he’s flirting with you the entire time, that’s one of the signos inequívocos quiere besarte.
Presta atención a sus palabras, a cómo las dice y a sus expresiones faciales. Puede que intente ocultar sus intenciones y sentimientos, pero su lenguaje corporal te dirá todo lo que necesitas saber.
Véase también: Beso en el cuello: todo lo que debes saber sobre este sensual gesto
Distancia
Distance plays a big part when it comes to kissing. If he’s far away from you, then there won’t be a kiss.
If he’s sitting opposite you at dinner, but still seems distant and avoids touching your hand (or even accidentally touching your feet with his), there won’t be a kiss.
Pero si se acerca a ti, te toca la mano, el pelo o cualquier otra parte del cuerpo y sientes que no tienes espacio personal, prepárate para un beso.
Véase también: Beso en la frente: el significado oculto de este bonito gesto
Se queda
If he hugs you and hesitates while pulling away, or lingers at the doorway before he leaves, that’s because he’s thinking about whether you want that kiss too.
This is probably one of the cutest signs, because even if he knows that you like him and you want that kiss, he’s still giving you the chance to say no if you want to.
Llegados a este punto, bastará el más mínimo estímulo por tu parte para que finalmente se lance.
Tell him how you had a great time, touch his arm or even be brave and kiss him first. He won’t turn you down, that’s for sure.
Labios
Si sigue llamando la atención sobre sus labios, ya sea lamiéndoselos, aplicándose lápiz de labios, mordiéndose el labio inferior o tocándoselos con las manos, son señales de que quiere besarte.
He’s doing this subconsciously because humans tend to touch parts of their body where they want to be touched.
So, pay attention if he touches, licks or bites his lips, as that could be a sign that he’s planning on using them on you.
Te felicita
Puede que pienses que esto es algo que hacen todos los primera cita pero créeme, no todos lo hacen.
Si he’s showering you with compliments...puedes sentir si lo dice en serio.
If he notices how your eyes change color, how adorable your blushing cheeks or freckles are, that’s a good sign he’s really into you. You’re not just some chick he took out on a date, he truly enjoys your company and you.
Parece nervioso.
If he’s normally super-confident around women and was around you at the beginning of the date, but all of a sudden he’s not anymore, that’s a sign that something else is on his mind, and that’s how he’s going to approach you for a kiss.
Kissing someone for the first time can be nerve-racking, so if you notice that your man is fidgeting, no he’s not having a seizure. He’s just nervous about getting closer to you and eventually kissing you.
Si actúa como tú‘re feeling uncomfortable, he will be even more nervous around you and pausas incómodas durante la conversación será inevitable.
He’s probably going over a million scenarios in his head, like if you will turn your head away, how his breath smells, if you will enjoy his técnica del besoetc.
He lost his focus and confidence, because he was simply disarmed by you. If he suddenly seems nervous around you, it’s one of the signs he wants to kiss you but is scared of dar el primer paso.
If you’re a man reading this, acting nervous is also one of the biggest signs that she wants to kiss you, so pay close attention to that.
RELACIONADO: Cómo besar a un hombre para volverlo loco por ti
Mira tus labios
How to know he wants to kiss you? If you notice that his focus shifts from your eyes to your lips and back while you’re talking, he’s thinking exactly what you think he is.
He’s waiting for the right moment to kiss you. Or your lipstick could be smudged. If it’s not and his attention is torn between your lips and eyes, don’t think much of it anymore.
Si quiere besartecréeme, lo sentirás con cada fibra de tu ser. También sentirás esto intenso tensión sexual entre los dos y será difícil respirar.
This is exactly what a guy said to me a few days ago. Before we kissed, he told me that he had difficulties breathing around me and this question was driving him crazy: “Is this the perfect moment for our first kiss?”
Well, he still has difficulties breathing around me (which is great) but it’s much easier for him to endure it because we already kissed.
Tono de voz
Los psicólogos dicen que un susurro va acompañado de pasión y proximidad. Si él habla de una manera tranquila y le susurra algo cada pocos minutos, realmente le gustas.
While whispering, he’s getting closer to your face and has the perfect opportunity to besarte.
Paying attention to his voice and movements is an easy way to know how your date will end—with a kiss or an awkward goodbye and an even more awkward, “I’ll call you, I will!”
Relacionado: Cómo abrazan los tíos: 4 formas diferentes y sus verdaderos significados
Notó tu fragancia
If he leaned closer toward you to notice how amazing you smell, that’s not because he is interested in what kind of perfume you’re wearing.
Este es uno de los signos evidentes que quiere besarteporque el olfato es el más íntimo de los cinco sentidos.
Probablemente se acercó tanto para ver cómo reaccionabas y, muy pronto, pondrá fin a vuestra primera cita con un beso.
He’s doing mouth maintenance
If he’s chewing gum, okay, that’s not exactly a sure-fire way to know if he wants to kiss you. I know people who are chewing gum literally 24/7 (gum chewers syndrome) so it would be ridiculous to think that they want to kiss someone all the time.
If he uses a breath freshener every five minutes and chews gum while showing any of the signs he wants to kiss you, it’s one of the clear signals he’s preparing for it. If he offers you a piece of gum, then there’s no place for doubt.
Pone música romántica
Siempre que pienso en escenas de besos en las películas, me imagino al instante música romántica de fondo, vino, cena, velas, etcétera.
Of course, people don’t kiss only in these settings, but música romántica se ha convertido en sinónimo de besos, arrumacos (y algo más).
If you’re at his place and he puts on romantic music and gets closer to you, then you can be sure he’s preparing himself for a smooch. Soothing music and a glass of wine can help you both relax and prepare for hours of kissing.
If your man is Pisces according to his zodiac sign, then you can be sure you’ll TOTALLY enjoy it because he belongs to the group of signos del zodiaco que besan mejor.
¿Significa algo un beso para un chico?
Sí, un beso en los labios significa algo para un chico si siente algo por ti. Significa que le gustas, que se preocupa por ti y que te quiere.
If you’ve just started dating, your kisses will become more intense as your relationship progresses. When a man gives you a kiss in public, he wants everyone to know that you are his girl and how much he values your love.
En mi opinión, hay dos tipos de besos: The ones you mean and the ones you don’t mean. If a guy kisses you like he means it, then it will mean something to him.
Si da besos por darlos (sin motivo aparente), entonces no significará mucho para él. Además, esto depende de su relación con un chico, su tipo de personalidady otras cosas.
Will A Guy Kiss You If He’s Not Interested?
Some guys will kiss you even if they are not interested, while others won’t. This depends on the kind of guy he is.
La razón por la que un chico te besaría incluso when he’s not interested is self-explanatory. He’s not interested in anything serious at the moment or perhaps he’s testing waters. That kiss may have a deeper meaning to you but to him won’t.
You might still hear from him but you can’t be 100% sure about it. If you don’t hear from him even after a few weeks, then it’s time to supéralo y encontrar a alguien con quien los besos tengan el mismo significado.
My friend learned all this the hard way…
Una de mis amigas experimentó esto hace unas semanas. Un chico que le gustaba mucho desde hacía tiempo por fin la besó y ella pensó que era el principio de algo grande y significativo.
Sadly, they weren’t on the same page. He didn’t kiss her because he was genuinely interested in her. He kissed her because he felt like kissing and told her a few days later that the kiss didn’t mean anything to him.
From now on, she’s careful who she’s kissing and whom she’s letting kiss her. When you’re crazy about someone, it’s natural that the kiss will mean more to you than to someone who doesn’t have feelings for you.
Si añades alcohol a la ecuación, ahí lo tienes: Una receta para un romance no correspondido (que cada vez es más popular).
BOTTOM LINE: Ten cuidado a quién besas y todo irá bien.
ACLARACIÓN: También hay chicas que besan aunque no estén interesadas en algo más serio.
¿Cómo saber si un chico quiere besarte por SMS?
Sabes que un chico quiere besarte por mensaje de texto si te felicita por tus labios, te envía emojis de besos o habla de besos.
If a guy compliments your lips, then you know he’s doing it for a reason.
It means he’s thinking about kissing you in real life and that’s why he’s paying close attention to your lips on your photos.
Still, note that there are also guys who are obsessed with a girl’s lips so you can never know for sure whether they compliment your lips because they want to kiss you or just because they like the shape of your lips. If you’re not sure about it, listen to your intuition.
Si te envía un beso virtual, es que básicamente ya te ha besado (virtualmente).
It’s only a matter of time when he will do it in real life as well. I don’t know about you but every time a guy sends me a kiss emoji, I imagine that we kissed in real life. Well, if he didn’t want to kiss you, he certainly wouldn’t send you such an emoji.
Si habla de besos, probablemente quiera besarte.
He’s trying to find out whether you’re interested in besos him as he’s interested in kissing you.
Podría mencionar diferentes estilos de besar o la que él prefiera. Puede que te pregunte tu opinión sobre los besos, etc.
Además, puede que te envíe mensajes abiertamente: Quiero besarte. Still, not every guy has the courage to do that (especially if you still haven’t kissed).
¿Cómo saber si un chico te desea mucho?
You know that a guy wants you badly if he wants to spend as much time as possible with you, if he tells you how much he’s crazy about you and if he always texts you or calls you when you’re not together. Here are all the other signs that indicate a guy wants you badly:
Quiere pasar cada segundo contigo
The guy I’m dating at the moment told me this the other day: No tienes ni idea de lo mucho que como tú. ¡Quiero pasar cada segundo contigo!
Not even in my wildest dream did I expect a guy to tell me this but he’s not like any other guy I’ve met so far. I know for a fact that he’s totally crazy about me (if you’re reading this, know that I’m crazy about you too, which is obvious, right?).
Some guys won’t tell you that they want to spend every second with you but they will constantly ask you about your plans and when can they see you. If your guy is doing that, then you can be sure el te quiere MUCHOChica.
Te cuida y te protege
I don’t know if you noticed but every guy has this instinto de héroe inside him. I’ll try to explain it in the simplest way possible.
Cuando un chico está loco por una chica, este instinto de héroe se desata en su interior y potencia su deseo de ser tu héroe.
In other words, when a guy is crazy about you, he will want to help you with every single task in your life, he will worry whether you’ve eaten something, and he will be ready to protect you from any harm.
He will let you know that you can count on him no matter what happens. That’s how you know that he’s totally smitten by you.
Hacerte sentir especial es su prioridad
Buying you a new dress is a nice way for a guy to show you how much you mean to him, but if a guy gives you a kiss on your forehead and hugs you every time like he’s hugging you for the last time, then you know he wants you badly.
Un tipo que quiere te hacen sentir especial encontrarán miles de nuevas formas de hacerlo.
That special guy I’m dating at the moment is truly a pro at this. I didn’t feel so good yesterday, so he knocked at my door unannounced and brought me gifts to make me feel better (even though the biggest gift to me was seeing him.)
He brought me a new perfume (that I can’t stop sniffing from my wrist as I’m writing this), protein bars (he knows I’m a gym freak), and lots of orange juice to fill me with vitamin C.
All those little things that he does for me are huge indicators that he’s totally devoted to making me feel happy and that’s how you’ll know it, too.
He tells you how much he’s smitten by you
Not every guy is open when it comes to his feelings, but if he tells you that he’s smitten by you, there’s no need to question his craziness about you or his intentions (unless he’s a player).
I know I’m mentioning him too much but the guy I’m dating at the moment told me this as well: Cocinaría para ti (sabe cocinar mejor que nadie que yo conozca), limpiaría tu apartamento y lavaría tu ropa sólo para poder mirarte todos los días.
I still can’t believe he said that but he was damn serious about it. I wish for all of you to meet such a guy who will know how to express his feelings in a unique and romantic way.
He’s always texting you
When you’re not together, you know that he will text you or call you. How do you know it? Because that’s what he usually does!
This means that he wants to be an active part of your life. He wants to know how you’re feeling, what you’re doing and if you’re pensando en él también.
He wants to be close to you because he wants you badly. It’s as simple as that.
He’s extra patient with you
Your happiness is a reflection of his own. Because of that, he doesn’t force you to do anything you don’t feel comfortable with.
He never initiates physical contact if he sees you’re not in the mood and you want to be alone. He’s extra patient with you and he always shows understanding.
Instead of imposing his own agenda, he’s ready to listen to you and understand how you’re feeling at the moment.
Sometimes, when words become superfluous, he doesn’t say anything. He just hugs you tight and you realize that his hug feels like home.
That’s how you know that you’re special to him and you mean to him more than you’re probably aware of.
You’ve met his friends and family (or you’re about to meet them)
¿Te ha presentado ya a sus amigos y/o familiares? Si es así, entonces sabe lo mucho que significas para él.
Obviamente, quiere que sus allegados sepan que eres su mujer especial. Quiere que formes parte de su familia y amigos. ¿Por qué?
Porque ese hombre está, sin duda, locamente enamorado de ti (y sus amigos y familiares también lo saben).
He’s always laughing at everything you say
Do you sometimes have this feeling like you’ve said nothing funny at all and he’s still dying from laughing? Do you often have this urge to ask him: What’s funny?
If you do, this is a great sign. Even though it’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard, it’s totally true that guys will laugh at everything you say if they are smitten by you. I’ve tested this multiple times and the theory is flawless.
This goes vice versa as well. If he’s trying really hard to make you laugh, he’s doing it because he wants you to feel relaxed and entertained in his company.
Quiere saber TODO sobre ti.
What’s your biggest achievement in life? What do you think about cheating? What is the funniest childhood moment you still vividly remember?
If a guy wants you badly, he will ask you tons of questions because he will want to know everything about you. Your conversations will never be dull and you’ll never run out of new topics.
Obviously, it’s because he wants to know the real you. He’s collecting data about you, analyzing your personality, and falling for you a little more every day.
He’s a true gentleman
Otra señal segura de que un chico te desea mucho es que él sea un verdadero caballero.
Te abre las puertas, presta mucha atención a su aspecto, nunca te hace pensar demasiado ni se preocupa por nada. En pocas palabras, te trata como la auténtica dama que eres.
You don’t even need to think about whether he’s a gentleman or not because you feel like he is. He treats you with respect and he goes out of his way to do things for you.
He doesn’t do any of that due to his ulterior motives. His only goal is to see you happy.
He’s honest to the core
Honesty is the best policy. You know that and, most importantly, he knows that. He’s honest about his past relationships, about his feelings for you, and everything else you can think of.
You can see in his eyes that he’s being genuine with you all the time. He has nothing to hide from you because he’s smitten by you. He wants you to know his true personality and he wants to build your relationship on pure honesty.
He’s always there for you
No importa por lo que estés pasando, dónde estés y cómo te sientas, él estará ahí para ti porque quiere estarlo.
Sabes que un chico te quiere mucho cuando tu vida amorosa no es solo lo que ocurre dentro de tu dormitorio o en tus redes sociales, sino que abarca todos los aspectos de tu vida.
Sabes que te quiere mucho si nunca pone excusassi se comporta como un auténtico caballero y nunca te hace dudar de sus intenciones.
Reflexiones finales
Of all the signs he wants to kiss you, intense eye contact is the biggest sign of his deep affection and his desire to kiss you. A guy can tell you anything you want but if you don’t see it in his eyes, words will lose their meaning.
The same thing applies to a kiss. If a man kisses you like he really means it, then you will certainly feel it. If his kisses tell you more than his words, then you know he’s kissing you for all the right reasons.
“One day you will kiss a man you can’t breathe without, and find that breath is of little consequence.” – Karen Marie Moning
