No es fácil amar a una "soltera para siempre", pero merece la pena

No está acostumbrada a tener a alguien cerca. No está acostumbrada a gestos románticos y abrazos cálidos por la noche.

She’s a chica acostumbrada a estar sola.

So, don’t force her to change. Don’t force her to accept your love because necesita tiempo. Tiempo y paciencia.

Don’t get upset if she doesn’t text you back or if she refuses to hug you when you’re asking for it.

Don’t let it hurt your feelings. She will be like that—quiet and distant on some days and loving on others.

She wants to commit to you and trust you, but she can’t. No es culpa suya.

Realmente quiere dejarse llevar por esa hermosa sensación que provoca el amor, pero siempre hay algo en el fondo de su mente que la molesta.

Siempre queda esa pequeña semilla de duda que no puede desechar. ¿Y si la abandonas?

¿Y si te vas sin explicarle por qué? ¿Y si le rompes el corazón una vez más?

She can’t do it anymore. She can’t keep patching up her broken pieces. She cannot stitch her heart back once again. There is no place to stick the needle in anymore—only scars are left.

Conoce la sensación de abandono. Sabe lo que se siente cuando te dejan solo, cuando te abandonan sin una explicación.

She knows what it feels like to try to find closure in a place where you can’t have any.

She knows what it feels like to deal with it and move on. She has done it already, but she doesn’t want to do it again.

Sólo tiene fe en sí misma.

Verás, ella tiene un sistema de defensa. Tiene gruesos muros tan altos que nada puede atravesarlos.

Sólo puedes pasar si ella te deja entrar. Y te dejará entrar si te lo mereces.

After being on her own, isn’t it logical that she would learn to live like that? Isn’t it obvious she would try to get the best out of it?

And now that you are here, you’ve messed up her plans. She prepared herself to live like that. She made her life easy to live.

Ahora, ella tiene que cambiar todo eso. Ahora tiene que incluirte y empezar a planificar su vida desde el principio. Deja que lo haga paso a paso.

Así que, cada vez que pase a tu lado sin demostrar que le importas, déjala. Cada vez que te aleje para evitar el contacto físico contigo, déjala.

She will know better—soon. Let her find her way. She’s scared. She has no idea what is happening to her, but to you, she looks like she doesn’t care.

She looks cold and uninterested. But, I’m telling you, she’s not. She’s used to being on her own—she has been single forever.

Es la dueña de su vida. Nunca pidió ayuda a nadie porque nunca la necesitó.

When she needed something from the top shelf, she’d take a chair and reach up to grab it.

Now, she has you to call when she needs help, but she still doesn’t get that.

Escucha, ella ya ha hecho las paces consigo misma sobre encontrar el amor verdadero. Se ha dado cuenta de que es imposible, y ha lidiado con ello.

She has crossed that item off her life list—it’s gone. All of a sudden, you show up in her life, bringing back something she never thought was possible.

You show up, and you’ve brought love back from the dead.

She has no idea what to do with that love. Can’t you understand? She is not that scared of you leaving her. She has gotten used to that.

She has been through that so she knows the drill. But what happens if you stay? What happens if that reborn love turns out to be ‘it’?

She’s scared as hell of that love because she has no idea what to do with it nor where it will take her.

Do you know how she went all in when she decided she’ll be forever single? I promise you, she’ll go all in when she decides to be yours forever.

You aren’t even aware of how much her love will mean to you. You have no idea how hard she’s going to love.

Sólo hay que esperar un poco más y tener un poco más de paciencia.

Le encantará todo lo que hagas. Le encantará cada segundo que pase contigo.

Le encantará cómo la besas antes de irte a trabajar y cómo la besas antes de irse a dormir. Te querrá todo, cada minuto de cada día.

She will open her heart and let you in. She’ll do something she was the most afraid of—she’ll fall in love once again.

Don’t abuse that. Don’t take advantage of someone like her.