A todas las mujeres que pensaban que ya estarían casadas

Do you feel disappointed that your life isn’t going the way you planned? Did you always imagine that you’d be a happy wife at this point in your life?

Do you constantly feel like you’re missing something because you’re still single? You’re probably losing faith in true love, but at the same time, you’re afraid to grow old alone, right?

Believe me, I’m not trying to indulge you right now, but I feel obligated to point out how wrong you truly are.

You’re only wasting the precious time of being single. Because, trust me, one day, you’ll have regrets and long for these days of your single life.

I know that you’ve dreamed about your wedding ever since you were a little girl, just like we all did.

You dreamed about saying ‘yes’ to your alma gemela con un precioso vestido blanco.

Don’t worry. You won’t disappoint that little girl because there’s still time to do that. One day, you’ll have the wedding of your dreams, and you’ll be the happiest bride alive. But, until then…

Disfruta al máximo de tu vida

Este es un periodo precioso de tu vida, y debes aprovechar cada segundo. Disfruta al máximo de la soltería.

Aprovecha este tiempo para hacer la mayoría de las cosas de tu lista de deseos. Trabaja para conseguir tus objetivos y hacer realidad tus sueños. Construye una vida para ti.

Visitar nuevos lugares, descubrir nuevas culturas y conocer gente nueva. Como decía mi abuela, “use this time of your life wisely because you’ll never be younger than you are now.”

Recuerda, las cosas buenas llegan a los que esperan

Don’t think that God has forgotten you. He’s with you always, and He has something planned for you that is far better than what you dreamed of.

You just need to be patient. Don’t lose faith in love, or even worse, don’t lose faith in Him. He knows all of your wishes and your soul’s desires, and He’ll make all of them come true.

Being single doesn’t mean you’re alone

You’re single, but you aren’t solo. Mucha gente te quiere y se preocupa por ti. Esas personas son las que más cuentan.

Sé que a veces te sientes solo, pero lo cierto es que todos nos sentimos así. Sí, incluso las personas casadas se sienten solas a veces.

But you still have people who truly care for you and who’ll never allow you to feel like you’re all alone in this not so perfect world.

Deja de buscar al Sr. Perfecto

There is no such thing as a perfect man. He doesn’t exist. There is the right man for you, but the truth is, he won’t be perfect.

If you’re waiting for the perfect man, you’re only wasting your precious time. Even worse, you might be missing out on some great opportunities and some really good and valuable men.

Don’t compare yourself to others

There is no point in comparing yourself to other people. You’re a unique human being, and your life could never be the same as someone else’s.

Just because most of your friends are married now doesn’t mean you should be too. It was simply their destiny, and yours is different from theirs.

Don’t think that their life is somehow better than yours just because they aren’t solo anymore. Trust me, just because they’re married, it doesn’t mean they’re happy.

Ten siempre esto en cuenta, un buen matrimonio, en el que dos personas salieron un tiempo y tuvieron tiempo para conocerse y establecer confianza entre ellos, es mucho mejor que un matrimonio apresurado.

Don’t wallow in self-pity

Why should you have regrets for something that hasn’t happened YET? It doesn’t mean it won’t ever happen.

Don’t feel sorry for yourself because your life isn’t going the way you planned. It’s going in some other direction, a direction that God thought was better for you.

Debes confiar en Dios, aceptar tu situación, poner tus esperanzas en Él, y esperar que el destino final sea aún mejor que como lo imaginaste.

El amor está en todas partes

Just because you haven’t found love up to now doesn’t mean you should stop believing in true love. True, real love exists and it’s everywhere around you.

El amor está en las personas que se preocupan por ti, las que quieren formar parte de tu vida. Tu mascota, que a veces también es tu mejor amigo, también es amor.

Love is in fulfilling our dreams and goals. The relationship you have with yourself is also love, and it’s probably the most important kind of love in your life.

La conclusión es que love is everywhere you look… True love is within you.

Tu alma gemela está ahí fuera en alguna parte

The person who is meant for you is out there somewhere, and he is also waiting for you. One day, God will find a way for you to cross paths, and you’ll meet the one you’ll marry.

That day, you’ll feel sorry for ever doubting God’s timing and true love. All this waiting will pay off because that person will be everything you ever hoped and prayed for.

In the end, to all of you fabulous single girls out there… Be patient. Don’t lose hope.

Your soulmate is coming, and he’ll make you so happy that you’ll forget that you were ever even worried about this. Just wait and believe in the most powerful force called L O V E.