No ames demasiado pronto y no confíes demasiado rápido: cambiará tu vida

¿Alguna vez te has enamorado, has confiado inmediatamente en todo lo que te decía y has imaginado tu futuro con él al día siguiente?

Lo he hecho.

Fue el peor error de mi vida.

Tu corazón dolorido te dice que necesita todo el amor posible. Tu alma cansada está desesperada por cualquier tipo de alimento. 

You put on your rose-tinted glasses, the biggest ones you’ve got, and proceed to destroy your life.

So, have you ever done this? If yes, you know exactly what I’m talking about and you won’t ever do it again.

If you haven’t, learn from my mistake to avoid getting hurt.

It’s impossible to get to know a person that quickly. Honestly, it takes years to know someone, and even then you can’t tell if you know them completely because people change.

All the adrenaline in your body clouds your view completely. You’re so excited that you’re finally getting your chance to share all the incredible love you have inside with someone special.

You don’t see any red flags, no matter how they behave.

People always tell you who they are, it’s just that you rarely listen. You need them to be good.

You think that everyone in this world is similar to you. From where you’re standing, there’s absolutely no reason for anyone to be deceitful or hurtful to others.

Why would he lie to you? Nope, he’s a super nice guy who’s on the same page as you. He’s happy to build a trusting, healthy relationship with you.

Chica, ¡¿te equivocas o qué?!

Todo lo que creas que es cierto en los primeros días o semanas de conocer a alguien probablemente esté lejos de serlo. 

Algunas personas mienten inconscientemente a sus posibles parejas, intentando presentarse de la mejor manera posible. Otras, sin embargo, solo intentan fastidiarte intencionadamente.

No importa lo atractivas, interesantes, inteligentes o excitantes que parezcan, tienes que aprender mucho más sobre ellas antes de entregarles tu corazón.

Sí, comparte tu tiempo. Sí, habla con ellos sin parar. Go out, hang out… but keep your heart safe by whatever means possible.

A nadie que acabes de conocer se le debe confiar el cuidado de lo más preciado para ti. A nadie.

You might have been waiting for this moment for a while now and be eager to share everything you’ve got – but hold on. 

Hold on but don’t hold back.

Feel free to share everything about yourself. The right person will love you for who you are. Don’t waste your time trying to adapt to the image of the girl you think he wants to be with.

Dale la oportunidad de quererte tal y como eres pero, sobre todo, date tiempo para conocerle tal y como es.

Waiting never hurt anyone. You might think that all the most powerful love stories are impulsive and abrupt but that’s so not true. 

We see all those ‘’fell in love the second they met’’ scenarios in the movies but let me tell you something.

In a movie, we only see one part of the story – the most exciting, interesting part. We rarely see what happens afterward, when everything starts falling apart – and it most certainly does at some point. 

Don’t try to replicate anyone’s love. You do you.

True love, devotion, and honesty take time. This is what you’re after, right? No one should ever get a chance to break your heart. 

By trusting someone too soon, by loving them too soon you are asking for trouble. Respect yourself and know your own worth – don’t let anyone fool you. 

Reconsider your choices, think about your options, don’t start thinking that it’s now or never.

Be cautious, because what you’re giving him is the power to destroy you. Make absolutely sure he won’t.