No arruines tu presente por alguien que nunca fue tu futuro

Has pasado por un infierno, de eso no hay duda.

You’ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from.

El hombre que amabas más que a ti misma se alejó de ti cuando menos lo esperabas.

Mientras tú planeabas tu futuro juntos, pensando que él hacía lo mismo, te dejó.

Así, sin más, te abandonó cuando más lo necesitabas.

Aplastó todos tus sueños y rompió toda tu personalidad en mil pedazos.

Dejó heridas por todo tu corazón y tu alma. Dejó huellas en todo tu ser que crees que nunca podrán borrarse.

Sin embargo, despite all the pain he’s caused you, deep down you still hope that he’ll come back. Of course, you won’t admit this to anyone.

In fact, you can barely admit it to yourself. You know that it’s completely pointless and in vain but you just can’t help it.

Even though common-sense keeps telling you that you’re nothing but a fool, your heart can’t stop waiting for a miracle – a miracle that will probably never happen.

La verdad es que sigues viviendo en el pasado. Tu traumas te persiguen y tu carga emocional te pesa.

Sigues aferrándote al potencial. Piensas en todos los planes que tenías y te preguntas dónde las cosas salieron mal.

As much as you try, you can’t seem to move on. You can’t force yourself to continue your life and finally get over this man.

It’s like your heart refuses to heal. Like it can’t recover and glue itself back together, no matter how hard you try.

Even when you meet someone new, you compare them to your ex. You can’t give anyone else a chance simply because they are not him.

Básicamente, tu vida pasa a tu lado. Pasan los meses y los años mientras tú, paciente y tranquilamente, estás sentado sin hacer nada.

¿Cuánto tiempo más piensas perder?

Do you think that you will live forever and that you can afford to spend more time on someone who probably doesn’t even remember your name?

I can promise you one thing: one of these days, you’ll see what you’ve done with your life.

To be exact, you’ll see that you’ve done literally NOTHING.

You’ll realize that you’ve been nowhere while this man is long gone and doesn’t give you a second thought.

In fact, you’re destroying your present because of a past that has no future.

Odio romper tu burbuja pero esto man isn’t coming back.

After all, if he planned on getting back together with you, he wouldn’t have left you in the first place.

Your past is behind you and it won’t repeat itself.

You can’t change anything that has happened, so what’s the point of replaying it over and over in your head?

As much as you don’t want to hear this, the harsh truth is that you won’t get the closure you’re waiting for.

This man won’t repent his sins, nor will he give you the apology you want so badly.

Puede que ahora no lo veas, pero tu dolor se ha convertido en tu zona de confort.

You’ve gotten used to it and you dwell on all the what ifs and could have beens.

That’s why I’m begging you to finally leave the past behind you–where it belongs.

Sé que hace falta mucho valor, pero por favor, ten el valor suficiente para dar un salto hacia tu futuro, a pesar de que sea desconocido.

I assure you–you’re strong enough to do it.

En lugar de esperar que tu ex vuelva a tu vida, transfiere tu energía a la esperanza de que alguien nuevo se cruce en tu camino.

Have faith that the love of your life is yet to come. That you’ll find the right man and he’ll erase every scar your ex left on you.

Y lo más importante: ten fe en que tu futuro feliz será mucho mejor que tu doloroso pasado.