Não estragues o teu presente por alguém que nunca foi o teu futuro

Passou por um inferno - não há dúvida sobre isso.

You’ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from.

O homem que amavas mais do que a ti própria afastou-se de ti quando menos esperavas.

Enquanto planeava o seu futuro em conjunto, pensando que ele estava a fazer o mesmo, ele deixou-te.

Sem mais nem menos, abandonou-te quando mais precisavas dele.

Ele esmagou todos os seus sonhos e quebrou toda a sua personalidade num milhão de pedaços.

Deixou feridas no teu coração e na tua alma. Deixou marcas em todo o teu ser que acreditas que nunca poderão ser apagadas.

No entanto, despite all the pain he’s caused you, deep down you still hope that he’ll come back. Of course, you won’t admit this to anyone.

In fact, you can barely admit it to yourself. You know that it’s completely pointless and in vain but you just can’t help it.

Even though common-sense keeps telling you that you’re nothing but a fool, your heart can’t stop waiting for a miracle – a miracle that will probably never happen.

A verdade é que ainda vive no passado. O vosso traumas assombram-no e a sua bagagem emocional pesa-lhe.

Continuamos a agarrar-nos ao potencial. Pensamos em todos os planos que tínhamos e perguntamo-nos onde as coisas correram mal.

As much as you try, you can’t seem to move on. You can’t force yourself to continue your life and finally get over this man.

It’s like your heart refuses to heal. Like it can’t recover and glue itself back together, no matter how hard you try.

Even when you meet someone new, you compare them to your ex. You can’t give anyone else a chance simply because they are not him.

Basicamente, a sua vida está a passar por si. Os meses e os anos passam enquanto está pacientemente e pacificamente sentado sem fazer nada.

Então, quanto tempo mais tenciona perder?

Do you think that you will live forever and that you can afford to spend more time on someone who probably doesn’t even remember your name?

I can promise you one thing: one of these days, you’ll see what you’ve done with your life.

To be exact, you’ll see that you’ve done literally NOTHING.

You’ll realize that you’ve been nowhere while this man is long gone and doesn’t give you a second thought.

In fact, you’re destroying your present because of a past that has no future.

Detesto ter de vos estragar a cabeça, mas isto man isn’t coming back.

After all, if he planned on getting back together with you, he wouldn’t have left you in the first place.

Your past is behind you and it won’t repeat itself.

You can’t change anything that has happened, so what’s the point of replaying it over and over in your head?

As much as you don’t want to hear this, the harsh truth is that you won’t get the closure you’re waiting for.

This man won’t repent his sins, nor will he give you the apology you want so badly.

Talvez não o veja agora, mas a sua dor tornou-se a sua zona de conforto.

You’ve gotten used to it and you dwell on all the what ifs and could have beens.

That’s why I’m begging you to finally leave the past behind you–where it belongs.

Sei que é preciso muita coragem mas, por favor, sejam suficientemente corajosos para dar um salto para o vosso futuro, apesar de ser desconhecido.

I assure you–you’re strong enough to do it.

Em vez de esperar que o seu ex regresse à sua vida, transfira a sua energia para a esperança de que alguém novo se cruze no seu caminho.

Have faith that the love of your life is yet to come. That you’ll find the right man and he’ll erase every scar your ex left on you.

Mais importante ainda: tenha fé que o seu futuro feliz será muito melhor do que o seu passado doloroso.