En 2025, que haga perder el tiempo a otro

¿Sabes de ese tipo que te quitaba el sueño casi todas las noches en 2024? Y lo peor era que, en la mayoría de los casos, no era en el buen sentido.

¿El tipo que te hizo llorar un océano de lágrimas? ¿Ese tipo al que pasaste horas intentando analizar y descifrar?

You know, that guy who never knew what he wanted? Who didn’t have the decency to choose you for real and kept you on standby throughout the entire previous year?

The guy you spent the whole of 2024 loving and patiently waiting for, while he couldn’t make up his mind about you?

¿Al que le diste todo pero no recibiste nada a cambio, excepto su amor a medias?

Bien, isn’t it time to finally admit to yourself that he was nothing but a pérdida de tiempo?

Isn’t it time to start seeing things clearly and accept that he wasn’t worth it, that he’ll never change, and that he’ll never make you happy?

I know it’s hard. After all, you invested so much time and effort into trying to make things work.

You spent 365 days completely focused on him. That’s a whole year of trying to read between the lines,interpret his texts and late night drunk calls, and decrypt his mixed signals.

Un año entero de pensar demasiado y obsesionarte con él. Un año entero de ponerlo a él antes que a ti misma.

Pones tantas esperanzas en que las cosas acabarán encajando.

That one of these days, he’ll realize that you’re the one and he’ll just show up on your doorstep, apologizing for all the pain he’s caused you, asking for your forgiveness and begging you to be with him.

It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about your boyfriend who treats you poorly, about your ex, your casual hookup, your almost boyfriend, or someone who keeps dejarte y volver – the bottom line is the same: No te trajo nada bueno en el pasado año.

Entonces, ¿realmente quieres permitirle ser parte de esta también?

¿De verdad quieres pasarte otros 12 meses acechando sus perfiles en las redes sociales, odiando a todas las chicas con las que tiene algo que ver?

Do you really need another 52 weeks of endless phone calls with your best friend where you only talk about what he did or didn’t do, and try to predict his next move?

¿De verdad quieres dedicar otro año de tu vida a este gilipollas que claramente nunca mereció un lugar en tu vida, corazón o mente?

Come on. Let’s be real for once. Si quisiera ser tuyo , he would’ve been with you.

If he really loved you, he wouldn’t have second thoughts about your relationship and would’ve treated you accordingly from day one.

No, this isn’t his freaky way of showing love. No, he isn’t dwelling in darkness and you’re not his savior who will bring him to the light.

I know you care for him deeply and I know it’s difficult to move on just like that. However, you have to do it at some point.

So, why not today? Why don’t you choose this moment as the perfect time to finally let him go?

Deja de buscar un cierre y una explicación porque sus acciones hablan más alto que sus palabras vacías y falsas promesas.

Deja de darle infinitas segundas oportunidades. Deja de poner tu vida en espera a causa de él.

Corta todos los lazos y empieza de cero. .

Block his number, stop going to places you know he might appear, quit looking for nonexistent signs of his nonexistent feelings, and don’t even mention his name ever again.

Quit worrying what’ll happen with him – I assure you that he’ll do just fine without you.

Stop thinking whether he’ll come to his senses or start to miss you once he sees that you’re really gone.

Don’t expect him to come back after he realizes you’re nowhere to be found in all those other women.

Don’t spend another minute of your precious time concentrated on him and for a change, put all of your focus on yourself.

Deja de permitir que tu vida pase de largo, mientras sigues esperando un milagro que nunca llegará.

As much as it hurts, erase all of your hopes and dreams and accept that they’ll never turn into reality.

This year, let him waste someone else’s time. Show him that you’ve had more than enough of his crap.

Échalo de tu sistema de una vez por todas, y cerrar la puerta para siempre.

Deja que se vaya con todas esas chicas que cree que son mejores que tú. Déjale vivir la vida de soltero que tanto ansía.

Let him try and get by without you. Let him see what he’s lost and make him feel your absence.

However, I guarantee you one thing: Once this happens and he starts regretting everything he did to you, he’ll put all of his effort in trying to win you back.

He’s going to do everything in his power to return to your life and convince you that he’s realized all of his mistakes.

Nevertheless, this is when you’ll have to show your inner strength.

This is when you’ll have to send him to hell, where he deserves to be.

Una vez que esto ocurra, demuéstrale a los dos que tienes lo que hay que tener para respaldar tus decisiones.

Show both him and yourself that you were serious when you promised yourself that you’ll start and end this year without him.

Trust me, it’ll be the best choice you could ever make and you’re going to spend the rest of your life grateful for playing your cards right.

Después de todo, you’re an adult and the last thing you need is some immature brat who makes your life difficult.

De hecho, necesitas un hombre de verdad que sepa lo que quiere y esté siempre seguro de ti.

So, until that man comes, keep in mind that it’s always better to permanecer soltero than settle for someone’s crumbs.