Em 2025, deixe-o desperdiçar o tempo de outra pessoa

Sabem aquele tipo que vos mantinha acordados quase todas as noites em 2024? E o pior é que, na maioria dos casos, não era no bom sentido.

O tipo que te fez chorar um oceano de lágrimas? Aquele tipo que passaste horas a tentar analisar e descodificar?

You know, that guy who never knew what he wanted? Who didn’t have the decency to choose you for real and kept you on standby throughout the entire previous year?

The guy you spent the whole of 2024 loving and patiently waiting for, while he couldn’t make up his mind about you?

Aquele a quem deste tudo, mas que não recebeste nada a não ser o seu amor de meia-tigela em troca?

Bem, isn’t it time to finally admit to yourself that he was nothing but a perda de tempo?

Isn’t it time to start seeing things clearly and accept that he wasn’t worth it, that he’ll never change, and that he’ll never make you happy?

I know it’s hard. After all, you invested so much time and effort into trying to make things work.

You spent 365 days completely focused on him. That’s a whole year of trying to read between the lines,interpret his texts and late night drunk calls, and decrypt his mixed signals.

Um ano inteiro a pensar demasiado e a ficar obcecada com ele. Um ano inteiro a pô-lo à frente de si própria.

Depositamos tanta esperança que as coisas acabam por se encaixar.

That one of these days, he’ll realize that you’re the one and he’ll just show up on your doorstep, apologizing for all the pain he’s caused you, asking for your forgiveness and begging you to be with him.

It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about your boyfriend who treats you poorly, about your ex, your casual hookup, your almost boyfriend, or someone who keeps deixar-te e voltar – the bottom line is the same: Ele não te trouxe nada de bom no passado ano.

Então, queres mesmo permitir que ele faça parte desta também?

Queres mesmo passar mais 12 meses a seguir os perfis dele nas redes sociais, odiando todas as raparigas com quem ele tem alguma coisa a ver?

Do you really need another 52 weeks of endless phone calls with your best friend where you only talk about what he did or didn’t do, and try to predict his next move?

Queres mesmo dedicar mais um ano da tua vida a este idiota que claramente nunca mereceu um lugar na tua vida, coração ou mente?

Come on. Let’s be real for once. Se ele quisesse ser teu , he would’ve been with you.

If he really loved you, he wouldn’t have second thoughts about your relationship and would’ve treated you accordingly from day one.

No, this isn’t his freaky way of showing love. No, he isn’t dwelling in darkness and you’re not his savior who will bring him to the light.

I know you care for him deeply and I know it’s difficult to move on just like that. However, you have to do it at some point.

So, why not today? Why don’t you choose this moment as the perfect time to finally let him go?

Parem de procurar uma conclusão e uma explicação, porque as suas acções falam mais alto do que as suas palavras vazias e falsas promessas.

Pára de lhe dar segundas oportunidades sem fim. Pára de pôr a tua vida em suspenso por causa dele.

Cortar todos os laços e começar de novo .

Block his number, stop going to places you know he might appear, quit looking for nonexistent signs of his nonexistent feelings, and don’t even mention his name ever again.

Quit worrying what’ll happen with him – I assure you that he’ll do just fine without you.

Stop thinking whether he’ll come to his senses or start to miss you once he sees that you’re really gone.

Don’t expect him to come back after he realizes you’re nowhere to be found in all those other women.

Don’t spend another minute of your precious time concentrated on him and for a change, put all of your focus on yourself.

Não deixes que a tua vida te passe ao lado, enquanto continuas à espera de um milagre que nunca chegará.

As much as it hurts, erase all of your hopes and dreams and accept that they’ll never turn into reality.

This year, let him waste someone else’s time. Show him that you’ve had more than enough of his crap.

Expulse-o do seu sistema de uma vez por todas, e fechar a porta para sempre.

Deixa-o ir ter com todas aquelas raparigas que ele acha que são melhores do que tu. Deixa-o viver a vida de solteiro que ele tanto deseja.

Let him try and get by without you. Let him see what he’s lost and make him feel your absence.

However, I guarantee you one thing: Once this happens and he starts regretting everything he did to you, he’ll put all of his effort in trying to win you back.

He’s going to do everything in his power to return to your life and convince you that he’s realized all of his mistakes.

Nevertheless, this is when you’ll have to show your inner strength.

This is when you’ll have to send him to hell, where he deserves to be.

Quando isso acontecer, prove aos dois que tem o que é preciso para apoiar as suas decisões.

Show both him and yourself that you were serious when you promised yourself that you’ll start and end this year without him.

Trust me, it’ll be the best choice you could ever make and you’re going to spend the rest of your life grateful for playing your cards right.

Afinal de contas, you’re an adult and the last thing you need is some immature brat who makes your life difficult.

Na verdade, precisa de um homem verdadeiro que saiba o que quer e que esteja sempre seguro de si.

So, until that man comes, keep in mind that it’s always better to permanecer solteiro than settle for someone’s crumbs.