Es muy sencillo: Si no te persigue, no quiere estar contigo

Es difícil ser honesto con uno mismo cuando las emociones están a flor de piel. Oyes lo que quieres oír. Te das cuenta de las señales de que le gustas aunque no estén realmente ahí.

You do everything to convince yourself that he cares. Maybe it’s a bit less than you do, but still there are some feelings there.

But there aren’t any, not genuine feelings at least. He might like you.

He might drop by when it’s convenient. He might give you crumbs but he will never be all in.

It’s simple really, and we shouldn’t complicate things. If a man wants you, he will pursue you.

If he doesn’t, he might be living across the street, and he would still find excuses not to see you.

The desire to pursue is incorporated into a man’s DNA. He will go after the one he wants, and he will do the impossible to be by her side.

If he doesn’t, he is not interested in having a real and committed relationship.

It’s just that it’s so hard to be aware of that sometimes. Not just because you are so in love that you can’t see clearly but because most men want something, but they don’t want everything.

Así que >atarte . Te sirven mentiras y conocen todas las palabras adecuadas para que te quedes a su lado.

Te darán lo suficiente para aguantar pero nunca lo suficiente para saber que sus corazones son sólo tuyos.

He will have his charming days. Days in which you’ll be sure he’s totally into you. Then he will flip the story upside down.

He will forget to text you, sometimes even for days. He will come by when it’s convenient. He will get mad without a reason.

Y te sentirás confuso. Se te pasarán un millón de preguntas por la cabeza.

Intentarás llegar al fondo de las cosas. Te cuestionarás e incluso empezarás a pensar que ha sido cosa tuya.

Stop! He’s not worth it. He’s not worth your time. He’s not worth the chase.

There’s no point in going after someone who always has one foot out of the door.

There’s no happiness with a man who is not one hundred percent sure about his feelings for you.

Don’t be a woman who waits for his text as if her life depended on it. Don’t let him come in and out of your life as he pleases.

Don’t let him treat you like a doormat. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

Your feelings aren’t toys he can play with. Your mind isn’t something that he should mess with.

Your body isn’t at his disposal. Don’t let him think that for a second.

Sé una mujer que sabe lo que vale. Ten confianza en ti misma. Sé valiente. Sé independiente.

Toma tu vida y tu felicidad en tus manos.

Never allow a man to waste your time. Don’t wait for him to change. He never will.

Be the one who doesn’t measure her value by her relationship status. Be the one who knows that being single is always better than putting up with a crappy relationship.

Don’t deny yourself the right to be with someone who can give you that old-fashioned type of love the one in which a man courts you and stops at nothing until he makes you his.

No, this way of thinking is not a fairy tale. It’s true, and it exists. It’s just that you don’t see it because of the all wrong men that surround you.

Espera la historia de amor en la que un hombre te demuestre que le gustas. Aquella en la que planifica con antelación. En la que se acuerda de mandarte un mensaje.

En la que encuentra tiempo. En la que te muestra lo importante que eres. En la que te persigue.

That’s not too much to ask. You deserve a real love story with a man who is devoted to you.

You deserve someone who will respect you and be there for you at all times. You deserve someone who accepts your flaws and doesn’t rub your nose in them every time he feels like it.

Te mereces a alguien en quien apoyarte, un hombre que sea tu mayor apoyo y te inspire para hacer grandes cosas.

Te mereces el amor que te hace sentir segura. Te mereces lo auténtico, no algo falso y temporal.

Don’t put up with >señales mixtas y poco esfuerzo. Usted debe ser su prioridad, no una opción.

You should be his destination, not a stop along the way. Remember that, and don’t fall for his lame excuses.

Rest assured that the man you are supposed to end up with will pursue you. He won’t complicate things and make your life a living hell.

Te demostrará que el amor nunca se fuerza. Siempre fluye de forma natural de su corazón al tuyo, y viceversa una y otra vez.