Haz que te desee más con estas 5 sencillas palabras
Tendemos a complicar las cosas cuando se trata de los asuntos del corazón aunque todo podría ser triste con unas simples palabras.
Ni siquiera somos conscientes de cómo afectan a los demás todas las cosas que decimos. Puede que ellos tampoco sean conscientes de ello.
Let’s face it—who has the time to think about what someone said and what they meant by it?
Pero en algún nivel subconsciente, captan lo que dices y sienten las buenas vibraciones que les llegan.
Así que cuando quieras que alguien estás en to want you more, don’t go all philosophical on them.
Hay 5 palabras sencillas que funcionarán a las mil maravillas y aumentarán tus posibilidades de meterte en su piel:
“ YOU”
We are not even aware how much power is hidden behind a simple word like ‘you’. How are YOU? What do YOU want to do?
Do YOU want to go somewhere with me? Did YOU get home safely? And so on…
When we use ‘you’ often in our conversation with the person we are into, we are letting them know that we want to include them in our lives.
Con ello demostramos tanto nuestra consideración como nuestro deseo.
No estás allí sólo por tus propias necesidades y deseos. Estás dejando claro que también te centras en él.
Si él hace lo mismo por ti, tu relación va por buen camino.
“I”
Just because you are into someone it doesn’t mean that you should lose your sense of self. That’s why “I” is probably the most important word.
Just because you start using the word YOU more frequently doesn’t mean that your individuality, hopes, dreams and desires should go down the drain.
Stay true to who you are. Make yourself happy and satisfied with your life, and be with someone who will add to all of that. Be with someone who wants you for you, and don’t settle for anything less.
Recuerda que las relaciones están hechas para dos, así que acuérdate de prestar la misma atención a ti y a mí.
“YES”
“YES” is a word that immediately evokes positivity.
By saying “YES” to new things and ideas you make your life richer with experiences, and by default, it makes you more interesting to the opposite sex.
Let’s face it—looking on the bright side and being optimistic is what draws people to you. Life is hard as it is, and nobody needs additional pessimism brought into their lives.
So say ‘yes’ when someone asks you out, when they want to go on a road trip in the middle of the week or for a midnight walk in the park, and see how your luck turns for the better.
“NO”
At first glance, “NO” is a negative word, but when you look at it’s deeper meaning, it can be even more positive than “YES”.
NO means standing up for yourself, having your boundaries and knowing the things you won’t tolerate. NO means not allowing anybody to treat you as a pushover.
Necesitas un hombre que te trate como a su igual, te trate con respeto e invierta tanto como tú en la relación.
Así que nunca dejes que te trate como un felpudo y atrévete a decir NO. El hombre adecuado lo respetará enormemente.
Chose wisely when to say ‘YES’ and when to say ‘NO’. They are both so simple yet such powerful words.
“THANKS”
‘Thanks’ is the word we tend to forget so often. We forget to notice the little things, and take somebody’s goodness and care por sentado.
We should always find time to say ‘thank you’ when anybody does something nice for us, not just to the people we care for.
A los hombres les gusta especialmente que se reconozcan sus esfuerzos. Asegúrate de detenerte, fijarte y siempre say ‘thank you’.
