Las 8 señales mixtas más comunes que envían los hombres y su significado
¿No odias las señales contradictorias? ¿Qué pensó cuando dijo/hizo/no hizo esto o aquello?
It’s kinda frustrating. But it seems like the dating scene of today can’t survive without mixed signals.
Entrar en la mente de un hombre y tratar de entender de dónde viene no es fácil.
Sin embargo, hemos hecho los deberes. Pedimos a 30 hombres que fueran brutalmente sinceros cuando se trata de señales contradictorias y esto es lo que descubrimos:
Un texto aleatorio de la nada después de desaparecer en usted durante un largo período de tiempo
Sólo está comprobando si sigues ahí, si aún te importa lo suficiente como para responder.
He usually doesn’t want anything concrete, he just wants your attention.
If a text is short and effortless, don’t even bother to text back. He wants to boost his ego by believing that he can have you any time his text lights up your phone.
Te manda mensajes todo el tiempo pero nunca te invita a salir
Se trata de un hombre que envía mensajes de texto sin intención. Simplemente disfruta manteniendo el contacto contigo, le gusta la conversación y disfruta de la atención que está recibiendo y nada más.
If you have been texting or keeping in touch in any way for a while now and he hasn’t had the decency to take you on a proper date, you are in a coqueteo that’s never turning into a real relationship.
Inicia la conversación y luego desaparece durante mucho tiempo.
He’s definitely playing games. Let’s face it—a man who sends you a text you replied to almost immediately still has his phone in his hands and he sees that you texted back.
Sólo está retrasando la respuesta para que sepas que estás siguiendo sus reglas.
He wants to build the tension and anticipation and get you more hooked. Don’t play his game.
Se aleja después de algunas buenas citas
The first and most probable thing here is that he is not dating only you, if he had time to text and meet up with you before and now he is using the ‘busy’ excuse.
He is probably seeing other women alongside you. Don’t get too attached and keep your options open.
Secondly, he might not be ready for a relationship because he went through a break-up recently and he only just realized that. If that’s the case, thank him for not making you his rebound girlfriend and wave him goodbye.
Cuando dice que sólo quiere que seamos amigos pero sigue flirteando contigo
He wants you in his life, he probably even likes you but he doesn’t want to date you or enter into a relationship with you.
That’s why staying in your life as your friend is the safest way to go.
He made it clear that he is not into anything serious so he has no obstacles to flirting with you freely. But don’t get confused, it is just for the sake of flirting; some men are simply like that.
Lo suyo son las llamadas nocturnas
When a man only calls or texts late at night, his intentions are clear—he wants to get naked with you.
He is probably drunk and alone, or both of the two, and in need of some TLC and trying to see if it’s possible with you.
If he doesn’t ask you out, if he never meets up with you during the day and you only see each other when he finds it convenient, you have to face the fact that usted es su llamada botínun amigo con beneficios y nada más.
Te vio con otro tipo y ahora está haciendo un esfuerzo.
Te ha visto con un tipo cualquiera, que puede que sólo sea tu amigo, pero el caso es que se le han despertado los celos. De repente te manda mensajes, te llama, te comenta y le gusta tus fotos en las redes sociales.
Probablemente se comporte así porque ve al otro chico como competencia y en cuanto vea que puede volver a tenerte, volverá a ser frío.
What’s happening here is that he doesn’t want to be with you but he doesn’t want the other guy to be with you either. Don’t fall for this.
Dice que no está listo para una relación AHORA MISMO
Puede que realmente no esté preparado o que se esté pasando de listo y esté jugando.
He knows how the female brain works and that by adding ‘right now’ to his sentence, that will be the only thing she will hear.
He is awakening false hopes that someday something more meaningful might happen, especially if his story follows with ‘let’s have fun’, ‘we don’t need labels’ or ‘let’s keep it casual for now and see what happens’.
You don’t have to wait and see anything, he is just telling you that he is not relationship material and he never will be as far as you are concerned.
Don’t waste your time hooking up with him if you want something more real.
The bottom line is a guy who likes you won’t send you mixed signals, apart from maybe very early on while he is still trying to figure out where he stands with you, to avoid getting ahead of himself.
But if his behavior continues, don’t even bother reading his mixed signals and send him packing.
Necesitas a alguien a quien le gustes y que no tenga miedo de demostrarlo. Necesitas a alguien con quien puedas comunicarte abierta y honestamente y no alguien que quiera que le leas la mente.
