No olvides tu valor, aunque él lo haga

¿Alguna vez has sentido que no eras suficiente porque el hombre al que amabas más que a nada nunca vio tu verdadero valor?

¿Sólo porque nunca pudo apreciar todos los sacrificios que hacías por el bien de vuestra relación y porque no supo devolverte el esfuerzo que recibía de ti?

Have you ever questioned yourself just because some guy couldn’t see how beautiful, smart, attractive and interesting you actually are? Have you ever compared yourself with other girls around him, wondering what they had that you didn’t?

Si lo hiciste, este es para ti. This is for all the girls who fail to see how amazing and strong women they are. For all the girls who don’t ver su valor.

For all the girls who allow some douchebag to undermine their worth and to make them believe that they aren’t enough.

For all the girls who think about changing their true selves just to fit some man’s standards or to be more likable to someone who never deserved a place in their life in the first place.

Please, don’t be one of those girls. Instead, always try your hardest to remember how valuable, special and unique you are.

Please, don’t forget your worth, even when everyone else does and especially when the guy you are hooked on does.

Even when he treats you like you are worthless and even when he tries to make you feel like you are good for nothing. Don’t forget your worth even when he acts like he is above you in any way and on the days when he does his best to make you feel bad about yourself.

Don’t te preguntas sobre tu valor when you see him checking out other girls or even cheating on you. Even when he doesn’t answer your phone calls or texts and when he clearly wants you to chase him.

Cuando te deja colgada o cuando esperas a que entre en razón.

Remember your value even when he doesn’t give you back the love you deserve and when he tries to treat you like shit. Please, don’t let this toxic man get into your head, by telling you that you are not enough.

Por favor, recuerda tu valor cada vez que él intente menospreciar tus éxitos, sólo porque se siente intimidado. Cada vez que te diga que eres demasiado para manejar o que no estás hecha para ser amada.

Don’t question your value even when he disrespects or abuses you in any way. Don’t think less of yourself for not choosing better or for not walking away sooner.

Por no ser más lista o por no seguir tu instinto, que te decía que huyeras de él desde el principio.

Don’t think that you are weak for following your heart blindly and for always putting your emotions in front of your reason. Actually, it just means that you were strong enough to do the thing you wanted to do, even if it turned out to be the wrong choice.

Don’t forget your worth when you are the one who loves more, the one who got hurt or left behind. Don’t do it even when your heart is broken into a million pieces or when you feel like you’ve reached your breaking point and that you simply can’t take it anymore.

Recuerda que esto es exactamente lo que este tipo quiere. Quiere acabar con tu fuerza para poder controlarte y manipularte con más facilidad.

Quiere que te sientas inútil para que empieces a considerarte afortunada por tenerle en su vida.

Remember that he is only doing it to boost his ego and to improve his self-confidence. This guy is very well aware that he doesn’t deserve you and he is convinced that the only way to handle you is to drag you down to his level.

Sin embargo, eres tú quien no debe permitirlo. El que tiene que entender que usted es el único que tenía derecho a determinar su propio valor.

Cuando te veas atrapado en una situación así, esfuérzate por no olvidar que eres lo bastante fuerte como para dejar atrás a todos los que te frenan o te menosprecian y más fuerte que todo lo que te abate.

I won’t lie to you — cutting ties with someone you care about, even when he treats you awfully, is never easy.

Pero tienes la capacidad de hacer lo correcto y alejarte sin mirar atrás. Y sobrevivirás, te lo garantizo.

Recuerda la chica que eras antes de que este hombre empezara a meterse contigo. Recuerda que eres capaz de cualquier cosa que te propongas y que saldrás de esta más poderosa que nunca.