Esto es lo que pasa cuando se juega con una buena chica

She’s generous and kind and caring and always there for those who need her. Even though she has a lot going on in her life, she’s manages to be there for the people whom she loves no matter what.

She never gives up on people and no matter what happens or how low someone falls, she’ll be there, still, like the light at the end of the tunnel.

She’s special, you know? She’s one of those who love wholeheartedly. When she falls in love, she falls with her body, mind, and soul. She gives herself completely to the person she loves.

Even though she’s aware of the little imperfections and flaws, she always chooses to see the good in people and love them just the way they are.

Siendo como es, ser una buena chicaes algo que le sale de forma natural.

It’s in her blood and it’s something very hard to get rid of. It’s not like she ever planned. But people often take it for granted.

They use her kindness as if it will never get worn out. They call her in their lives when they need her, and they leave her alone when they no longer have any use of her—until the next time.

It didn’t happen only once. People keep taking and taking without ever giving anything in return to her. And she doesn’t mind because she’s selfless. And because she’s used to it.

Ella puede soportar muchas cosas. Pero algunas de esas personas, rompen pedazos de su corazón poco a poco.

She can’t bear having someone jugar con ella heart. She can’t bear being someone’s last resort.

She isn’t used to being let down by people she loves. She isn’t used to hearing promises someone has no intentions to keep.

There are people who aren’t good to her no matter how much she gives to them.

There are people who only use her and play with her and her feelings. And she can’t draw the line between them—, actually she’s unable to do so because of the way she is.

So they continue playing with her. They continue stretching her to the breaking point. And once they’ve played her, everyone is at a loss.

Cuando se juega con una buena chica, también se juega con sus sentimientos.

Todo lo que sentía se le hace muy extraño. Lo que sea o quien sea que tenía en su corazón se vuelve demasiado doloroso para mantenerlo dentro y empieza a borrarlo todo de él.

Empieza a acallar sus sentimientos porque sentir algo significa sentirlo todo, incluido el dolor. Simplemente lo cierra.

Su confianza se rompe.

Esa idea de que la gente será buena con ella porque no quiere hacerle daño empieza a abandonarla poco a poco.

La idea de que todos somos buenos empieza a desvanecerse.

And when she decides to welcome someone new, to give that someone her trust, she can’t.

Le roban su bondad.

It’s not like she wanted to lose it. It’s not like she had problems being the way she is. But obviously someone else did.

Someone else didn’t care how she feels or what happens to and with her.

Jugaron con ella hasta el punto de hacerle perder todo lo bueno que había en ella.

Ella cambia.

Everything in her shifts. She realizes she can’t always be the one who ends up pulling the shorter end of the stick.

She can’t always be the one giving and not getting anything in return.

She can’t always be the one getting broken, and used and played in a relationship just because she’s a good person.

Empieza a construir muros a su alrededor.

Después de todo lo que le ha pasado, se siente un poco insegura sobre en quién puede confiar.

She doesn’t know whom she can let in her life and she’s scared to make the same mistakes she did before.

That’s why she starts pushing everyone away. That’s why she lifts her walls high and never lets anyone in.

Se vuelve inaccesible.

Because of all the pain she’s going through, she doesn’t think straight. She hates herself for being so naive and for allowing people to use her as it pleases them.

Con todo este lío que está ocurriendo, se hace difícil hablar con ella.

Her kind words are replaced with sarcastic comments and she just doesn’t listen. Even those who try to approach her with their hearts in their hands can’t come close to her.

Todos la pierden.

Even those who were good to her lose her because she doesn’t know who’s good and who’s bad.

Creía que todo el mundo era bueno y eso le costó mucho.

Así que para alejarse de esos malos, sacrifica también a los que realmente se preocupan por ella.

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Empieza a ser su propio héroe.

Antes siempre se apresuraba a ayudar a los demás. Siempre estaba ahí para salvar a los necesitados y ahora, cuando los ha tachado de su vida, no tiene a nadie a quien salvar.

It’s not like she could save anyone when she’s feels broken, too. She needs to save herself first.

Toda la bondad que daba a los demás empieza a guardarla para ella.

Instead of giving it to those who’d just use it and darlo por hechoDecide ser buena consigo misma. Decide hacer cosas por sí misma, cosas que la hagan feliz y cosas que la ayuden a crecer.

Poco a poco empieza a aprender a ser buena para sí misma.

Aprende algunas lecciones por las malas.

Even though she didn’t sign up for these life classes, even though she didn’t want to know, life showed her how life can be hard sometimes and how not all people are good.

Quizá le enseñaron por las malas, pero al menos las lecciones que aprendió serán bien recordadas.

Aprende que complacer a todo el mundo no le servirá de nada.

Ser buena la hacía feliz, pero complacer a los demás al final sólo la agota física y emocionalmente.

Porque la gente nunca deja de recibir y ella nunca sabe cuándo dejar de dar. Finalmente aprende que complacer a todo el mundo no le deja tiempo para complacerse a sí misma.

Aprende que tiene que valerse por sí misma.

Those people won’t be as good for her as she is for them.

Que a veces necesita cuidar de sí misma antes de cuidar de los demás.

She learns that it’s okay to have an opinion that doesn’t agree with everyone else’s and that it’s okay to say it out loud.

Aprende que no todo el mundo es bueno.

Just because she wouldn’t play with other people’s feelings, it doesn’t mean that they wouldn’t play with hers.

Just because she’d never hurt anyone deliberately, it doesn’t mean they wouldn’t hurt her.

No todo el mundo es bueno y le llevó un tiempo aceptarlo.