Si juega a estos 7 juegos inmaduros, te está haciendo perder el tiempo

El amor no es un juego, punto.

Cualquiera que lo trate como tal es un individuo inmaduro que, sencillamente, no está preparado para el compromiso que implica una relación real y adulta.

And that’s okay. Because recognizing when people are merely jugar a juegos en tu relación hace que sea mucho más fácil para ti salir de allí antes de que te involucres demasiado y te vayas en tus propios términos.

Los hombres que entablan relaciones simplemente con el propósito de no estar solos, hasta que llegue alguien mejor, no son más que mocosos malcriados e inmaduros que no tienen nada que hacer jugando así con tu corazón.

You would devote every fiber of your being to this guy and keep your relationship sacred and close to your heart, while he’s out there low-key exploring the field and contemplating his options!

Don’t let him. React in time.

Reconócete a ti misma cuando tu chico está siendo sospechoso y no está totalmente involucrado y ahórrate la vergüenza de ser engañada por un imbécil inmaduro.

Trust me, losing that kind of guy won’t be a loss at all.

Ultimately, you’ll be the one who wins, because losing someone who added nothing to your life is only going to better your chances of finding alguien a quien realmente le importe!

Estas son las 7 señales más comunes de que tu hombre está jugando a estúpidos juegos de pareja y haciéndote perder el tiempo por completo (¡pero no por mucho tiempo!).

He wants to keep the relationship on the down-low and doesn’t let you talk about it to your friends much

You don’t go out to places where many people could see you and he doesn’t hold your hand in public (only during rare moments when there are no people around).

You feel like he really goes to extreme lengths to keep your relationship a secret and it’s all under false pretenses that it’s better if it’s just between you two, like it’s somehow more meaningful.

You don’t like this at all but you go along with it, hoping it would change with time.

But things haven’t improved one bit; he’s still mantenerte en secreto, you’re not really sure why and you’re totally annoyed by it.

Él muestra cero consistencia en la relación

Relationships require effort and consistency in order to thrive but so far, he hasn’t demonstrated either of the two.

When it suits him, he’s being all nice and considerate toward you but he can switch it off just like that and become a total prick.

You can’t really rely on him to be a certain way for a long period of time, because he’s so flaky. And he doesn’t seem to want to change that at all.

He is simply not consistent with showing you any type of affection and you oftentimes consider breaking it off but those rare moments when he does behave nicely reassure you (even though they shouldn’t).

Finge interés en las cosas que te gustan por sus propios intereses.

When you talk about something you’re passionate about and really hold dear to your heart, you feel like he only agrees with you for the sake of agreeing.

There isn’t any genuine curiosity on his part in any aspect of your life or your passions, only feigned interest when he wants to gain something from you (sexo, tu atención o necesita ayuda con algo).

He is being fake and dishonest and deep down you know those aren’t the qualities of a boyfriend who truly cares about you.

Si realmente te amara...estaría interesado en todas tus partes.

Se desvive por hacerte sentir celoso...

It makes him feel good about himself when you act out in jealousy and he doesn’t really seem to mind. It boosts his ego and feeds his immature soul.

He constantly puts you in a position to question his loyalty, even with the littlest things, and you’re getting enfermo y cansado of it but you simply don’t want to admit that he’s doing it on purpose.

En resumidas cuentas, un hombre que te quiere nunca te haría dudar de sus intenciones.

Only immature boys play games like that and that’s because they still have a lot of growing up to do.

Te hace esperar horas por un simple mensaje, sin importar lo importante que sea.

He doesn’t want to seem too eager, so he takes his time getting back to you.

He rarely texts back within a reasonable amount of time and even when it’s just a simple question, he’s going to make you wait for it.

Es completamente desconsiderado y no aprecia tu tiempo ni tus sentimientos, y sólo lo hace para sentirse importante, como una especie de macho, cuando en realidad no es más que un mocoso egoísta.

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When a guy you’re supposed to be in a relationship with still keeps dating apps on his phone, there really isn’t much to say to back it up, other than he’s clearly still browsing his options!

Don’t waste your time, because if he can’t even bother to hide it and leaves it right there for you to see, he is clearly not interested in anything serious with you and he doesn’t even care how this makes you feel.

One word—run!

He refuses to put a label on your relationship and you don’t even know where you stand

He doesn’t want to have the conversation to discuss where you two are and what exactly you are in the first place and when you suggest defining your relationship, he is against it.

He doesn’t like putting labels on things, it makes him feel pressured, so he just keeps things up in the air, giving you zero reassurance he’s in it one hundred percent.

Deja que las cosas fluyan y ante la sola mención del compromiso, se estremece.

Este tipo claramente tiene cero interés en estar en una relación adulta y te sugiero encarecidamente que dejes su culo inmaduro y vayas a buscar a alguien que realmente pueda actuar como de su edad.

He is only wasting your precious time and those types of guys don’t really change.

Do yourself a favor and leave. It’s the only right decision in this situation and it’s going to make you feel liberated AF!