Las 10 señales más evidentes de que tu ex finge haberte olvidado

Recently, you’ve been noticing señales de que tu ex finge haberte olvidado, but you don’t want to rush to conclusions? Good, because I’m here to put an end to your second-guessing!

Your relationship seemingly hit its expiration date sometime recently, but you’ve been going back and forth unsure of whether there’s a chance of reconciliation. If there is – you’re about to find out!

Si su ex muestra cualquiera de los siguientes signos, su corazón roto ¡sigue suspirando por ti! Tanto si eras el volquete or the dumpee, these signs don’t lie.

Una vez que analice bien lo siguiente y reevalúe su relación anterior, perhaps you’ll realize the old flame still has some fire left.

Here’s proof you’re still on your ex pareja‘s mind, and it’s up to you if you’re in the mood for segundas oportunidades!

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10 señales claras de que tu ex aún te quiere

1. Your ex can’t keep their eyes off you

Contacto visual can be so intense. Especially when you can literally feel it penetrating your skin. And lately, whenever you’re in close proximity to them, you’ve noticed your ex mantiene vigilando su cada movimiento.

It’s a little por encima, but you can’t escape their attention. You’re not sure if your ex is trying to ligar or if they simply want to know what you’re up to.

La razón por la que éste es uno de los signos tu ex finge que te ha superado es que delata una forma de comunicación no verbal que ahora se ha disparado.

Su ex-novio (o ex-novia) is trying so hard to stay in character and pretend they’re over you that it becomes hard to ignore their innermost impulses.

Rarely do people give any thought to what they’re like when they’re ”normal” – aka not anxious.

So when your ex is in a state of denial, they try so hard to mimic their ”normal” behavior that it starts to present a problem.

In other words, your ex is clearly trying to prove something whenever they’re near you, which ends up being counter-productive.

They can’t hide their true feelings, which can be seen as a buena señal (especialmente si quiere recuperar a tu ex). This means your ex can’t lie in front of you, which is definitely something I love in a partner.

2. Tu ex sigue intentando ponerte celoso

Whether it’s posting photos on redes sociales con sus chico nuevo/girl, o haciendo alarde de su relación de rebote, it’s nothing more than a passive-aggressive move to garner a reaction from you.

Después de romper, empezaste a notar que desfilaban un nueva relación por todo su plataformas de medios sociales con el hashtag #acleanslate – a less than subtle dig at you.

If you’ve got a feeling this is all about you, you’re probably right. But just to be certain, ask amigos comunes if the new supposed relationship has any merit or if it’s just a diversion tactic.

Si desea obtener su ex vueltatu primer paso es llamarles la atención sobre sus estupideces. Haga su ex sentir Siento haber actuado de forma tan inmadura.

If they’re still adamant they want to resume their relación contigo, luring you back with an array of flings isn’t the way to go. Especially if your ex rompió ¡contigo!

Sólo si su ex intenta en realidad mensajes de texto usted, o mejor aún, recurrir a la buena vieja llamadas telefónicas, can you consider giving it another go. But don’t stoop to their level. You’re better than that.

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3. Your ex is going out of their way to prove they’re over you

We all know what it means when someone is trying a bit too hard to prove something to others, right? They’re clearly trying to convince themselves.

Tu ex can’t stop piensan en ti, así que hacen todo lo posible para convencerte de lo bien que están (que es cualquier cosa menos el caso).

Tenga su amigos comunes ¿se han burlado de ti desde la ruptura? Si es así, ¿cuál fue su reacción?

If they went the extra mile to defend themself against accusations they’re still after you, it’s clearly not the case. The more your ex intenta to prove it, the bigger the sign that you’re still on their mind.

Here’s what I’ve learned from expertos en relaciones: Cuanto más se centra alguien en la única cosa que supuestamente don’t quieren, más obvio resulta lo que realmente do querer.

Observe your ex’s lenguaje corporal during these situations. If they’re visibly upset, crossing their arms, moving their head erratically, and such, you’re still the one they want.

Siempre que alguien se esfuerza al máximo por convencerte de algo (en lugar de adoptar un enfoque tranquilo y relajado), a la única persona a la que engaña es a sí misma.

4. Tu ex es extra amistoso durante encuentros aleatorios

En lo peor después de una ruptura is knowing you’ll just keep bumping into them at your local cafeteríastiendas, y en todos los sitios a los que solíais ir juntos.

It’s not like I’m about to uproot my entire life because I broke up with my ex. I still want to go to my favorite bar and hang out at my favorite spots. Why should I change my habits?

I’m sure you know what I’m talking about here. Y da la casualidad de que me encuentro con mi ex-novio cuando parece que acabo de salir rodando del contenedor sin saber qué día es.

But that’s just life I guess. One day, it won’t be such a big deal. 

But if there’s one thing these chance encounters have made me realize it’s this: If your ex seems super extra considerate upon seeing you, there’s usually a reason.

A) They’re either trying hard to figure out how you are and if you’re in a nueva relación so they can gloat if you’re not, o

B) they’re still not over you and they want to find out if you feel the same way.

Así que la próxima vez que vayas a tu cafetería and run into your ex, pay attention to their demeanor. You’ll be able to tell what the situation is.

Being extra friendly when accidentally seeing you is one of the biggest signs your ex is pretending to be over you. Don’t ignore it.

5. Los signos no verbales lo dirán todo

I’m certain you’re aware that lenguaje corporal tiene su manera de reaccionar a tu entorno, te des cuenta o no.

Si dudas de que tu ex te haya superado de verdad, aquí tienes los mayores indicios no verbales:

– Your ex mantiene touching their face whenever they’re near you. Either that or licking their lips, touching their nose or playing with a lock of hair. They might even keep compressing their lips. Observe carefully.

– Your ex blinks like crazy and at the same time tries to avoid your gaze.

– One of their legs is always stomping on the floor, they shift on the sofa from one place to another, and their movements are sudden and somewhat erratic.

– Their hand movements are completely repetitive, they keep checking their nails, or even crack their knuckles.

– Your ex tries to prove they don’t care about what you have to say by purposely yawning when you’re talking, or looking around just to make you see they ”don’t care”.

Hay una serie de señales que emite tu ex que demuestran mi punto de vista, y si de vez en cuando consigues verlos cara a cara, estas son las señales más destacadas que debes buscar.

Puede que tu ex finja haberte olvidado, pero sus gestos cuentan otra historia.

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6. Tu ex es demasiado feliz demasiado pronto

Remember, it doesn’t take longer than half a minute to locate a hilarious meme and post it on your socials. But does that necessarily mean the person posting it is actually happy? It definitely doesn’t.

Lo más probable es que tu ex fuera tu mejor amigo, so you’ve got a pretty solid gauge when it comes to assessing their honest state.

Esto significa que puedes ver fácilmente a través de sus movimientos engañosos y leer entre líneas. Esconderse detrás de un teclado es más que fácil.

Pero enfrentarse a las emociones reales es duro. Todos tendemos a representar papeles en redes sociales parecer más felices y contentos de lo que realmente somos.

It’s human nature, so don’t worry if that’s the case with you too. All I’m saying is if your ex is acting happy-go-lucky sin avisar, chances are, it’s just a mask.

Todos podemos escribir párrafos profundos sobre seguir adelante y enviar mensajes de texto saying we’re totally fine. But in reality, that’s not always the case.

Uno de los signos evidentes que tu ex finge haber superado lo tuyo es precisamente esto. Poco después de la ruptura, actúan prematuramente felices y se esfuerzan por hacértelo ver.

You know them better than most people. And depending on your relationship and what it meant to both of you, you’ll have a pretty good idea of what his happy demeanor actually means.

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7. Tu ex te acosa por Internet

Esto habla por sí solo. Descubrir que tu ex está participando en algunas expediciones de acecho pinta una imagen bastante clara.

It’s up to you how you’ll figure out if this is the case (maybe with the help of your mejor amigo/amigos comunes?).

And when you do, it’s truly one of the most signos evidentes que tu ex aún te tiene en mente.

Your ex wants to remain indifferent in your eyes, so when you find out their search history has your name on it, you’ve got the power.

Mientras su ex mantiene needing to know about your whereabouts, they’re still hooked.

If they were angry, resentful, or something similar, that wouldn’t be a sign of them being stuck on you. 

Pero tratando de mantener su obsesión con usted de familiaresamigos y usted es una de las mayores señales de que tu ex finge haberte superado.

Su presencia en Internet sigue estando muy unida a usted, por mucho que intente quitársela de encima.

At the same time, please don’t consider them blocking you or unfriending you as a sign your ex todavía ama usted. Este es, de hecho, el último paso hacia el cierre por su parte.

If you’ve been blocked virtually – your ex is successfully moving on. This is about self-preservation, not love. So pay attention and don’t mix the two.

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8. Tu ex sigue guardando tus cosas

Normalmente, hay dos razones principales por las que un ex se empeña en quedarse con tus cosas:

A) They’re resentful about the way the relationship ended, and they’re not ready to face you and forgive you just yet.

B) Your ex is still not over you and can’t say goodbye to your stuff as it’s the only thing they’ve got left of you.

Now, I’m guessing it would be rather obvious if your ex was angry or resentful, so if you’re sure that’s not the case, let’s safely assume it’s the latter.

Si sigues pidiendo que te devuelvan tus pertenencias pero hacen caso omiso de tu petición (and you know for a fact they’re not angry with you) it’s one of the signs your ex is pretending to be over you.

They want to keep the door open and let you know (subtly though) that you’re still very much welcome. Both physically and metaphorically.

I can’t tell you what to do, but I can tell you that this is a pretty signo inequívoco que vuestra relación significaba mucho para ellos.

Maybe it’s time to forego the norma de no contacto y empezar a conversar sobre el futuro.

They are still pining for you and if you still carry a fraction of the love you used to have, perhaps there’s a chance to work it all out.

Piénselo, porque conseguir su ex vuelta puede significar un nuevo comienzo de una vieja relación.

If they’ve improved their ways, this could be the start of something new and improved. Relationship 2.0. 

Juzgue usted si es acertado o no.

9. Tu ex pregunta por ti a vuestros amigos comunes

Esta es la forma más segura de ex vuelta. Cuanto más hablen bien de ti o más amables se muestren al descubrir cosas buenas sobre ti, mayor será la estima que te tengan.

Look at it this way. If your ex didn’t care, they wouldn’t be asking around about how you’re doing, right? 

When a person has zero interest in you, they don’t bother others with constant questions about you. They just can’t be bothered.

Averigua si ha sido algo puntual o si preguntar por ti se ha convertido en una costumbre. Probablemente ya sepas cuál de estas buena señal.

The more curious they are, the more they’re still in love with you. This can be mixed with a dose of jealousy as well. And you know what they say – if they’re jealous, it means they care!

Your ex will ask questions along the lines of these if they’re a bit on the jealous side:

– Is he/she seeing somebody new? How long has it been going on?

– Where is he/she at this very moment?

– Who’s that chico nuevo/¿La chica con la que la vi hace unos días?

– Why did he/she suddenly start going to the gym? Is it to impress someone new?

Entiendes lo esencial. Tienes dos opciones. Enfrentarte a tu ex y decirle que no moleste más a tus amigos o preguntarle directamente por qué ese repentino aluvión de preguntas.

If they’re having second thoughts about the breakup, offer to discuss it, and see where it goes.

10. Tu ex ha empezado a enviarte mensajes de texto sin cesar

Hablando de señales de que tu ex finge haber superado lo tuyo, este es tu único y verdadero regalo. 

Look at it from your point of view. You’re always mensajes de texto the people you most want to talk to right? You can’t be bothered sending a mensaje de texto to someone you don’t really care about.

If your ex is always shooting your texts, sending funny memes, and perhaps even calling you, it’s pretty clear you’re on their mind more than you should be.

Your ex wouldn’t feel the need to be in constant communication with you if they didn’t still have feelings for you.

Definitivamente puedes tomarte esto como un buena señal que su ex-novia (o ex-novio) está tratando de hacerte saber el error que fue dejarte ir.

They still crave your voice, your touch, and your funny one-liners. They still deem you the person to go to for everything as you’re the only one who was ever truly there for them.

They’ve realized that you mean way too much, and the constant barrage of texts is their way of showing remorse. 

¿Es demasiado tarde?

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¿Cómo lo vas a enfocar?

Mi consejo es que dejes que sean ellos los que hablen y compruebes hasta qué punto les sigues importando. Estas son las señales más claras de que tu ex finge haberte olvidado.

And if there’s a chance they might get you back, give them a hint. Sólo lo suficiente para mantenerlos adivinando.

But most definitely don’t budge just like that. Your ex needs to learn their lesson. They cannot just disappear from your life, then win you over once they see how empty life is without you.

Mantén a tu ex en vilo siendo impreciso (pero no de forma dura). Now, you have the power. And it’s one hundred percent up to you whether you take your ex vuelta o no.

It’s clear where they stand. They can pretend all they want – it won’t work. You know them way too intimately to be fooled.

If you feel there’s a possibility of reigniting the old flame, throw them a bone. But if you are done with that chapter of your life – good riddance.

Don’t uproot your life over an ex who realized too late what a treasure you are. 

You’re too busy building a new life, and rekindling broken romances is the last thing on your mind. Now, it’s time to experience the magic of new beginnings!

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