10 señales claras de que te echa mucho de menos (pero no lo admite)

Want to know what’s really going on in your man’s head and whether he’s genuinely interested in you?

Well, there isn’t a better way to find this one out than to look for good old signs he misses you !

The only better thing would be learning everything about the ways his mind works so you know how to turn it all into your advantage. But… is that even possible? It is now, with a course called Su obsesión secreta.

It doesn’t matter whether you’re in a new relationship , a long-distance relationship , you’ve been on a date a couple of times (or you simply have a crush on him), there will always come a time when you will ask yourself: ” What the hell is going on in this man’s head ?” and start looking for some kind of validation of his feelings toward you.

After a few unanswered phone calls or unreturned text messages , you definitely decide that it’s time to start looking for little things , clues and sure signs he misses you .

And even if he’s saying those three words, ” I miss you , ” on repeat, you can’t really trust him to the fullest because it’s impossible to be one hundred percent positive that he’s being honest.

What if I told you there’s a way you never again have to worry about what he’s thinking? What if I promised you right now that you’ll get him to open up to you completely and give you all you ever wanted – his attention and devotion?

Pues lo hay, y te prometo que funciona. Guiones de encaprichamiento están hechas por quienes encontraron la única manera de conseguir un hombre y conservarlo para siempre y decidieron compartirla con todas las chicas que desean hacer lo mismo.

You can’t be sure whether he is being sincere or he just wants to get into your pants.

Maybe you’re going to end up with a broken heart because you are a victim of a player or you’re going to be almost happy for the rest of your life in an almost perfect relationship. You definitely don’t want either, right?

Así que, para saber si un hombre te echa de menos de verdad, puedes preguntar a sus mejores amigos, descifrar sus mensajes de texto borracho o tomar las riendas y observar su comportamiento.

Por observar su comportamiento, me refiero a buscar signos obvios te echa de menosque probablemente han estado ahí delante de ti todo el tiempo, pero que sólo necesitabas un pequeño recordatorio.

1. Se esfuerza por mantener la conversación

Es una clara señal de que quiere comunicarse contigo. Tal vez se siente solo y quiere estar en tu presencia.

Now, I know it’s not easy to conclude whether he is texting you because he wants something from you or he truly misses you because he wants to be with you.

Pero eso se puede deducir fácilmente de la forma en que te envía mensajes de texto y por la forma en que le contestas.

Para hacer un pequeño experimento, intenta ignorar sus mensajes durante unas horas y mira a ver qué pasa después.

Presta atención a cuánto tardará en responderte y cómo lo hará.

If he has false intentions, he probably won’t go to the trouble of texting you again. He’ll read into your silence as a negative answer.

But if he texts you again, worried because you didn’t answer back, then you’ve got something on your hands. He would want to know if you miss him, too!

The bottom line is that when a man misses you, he will do anything to keep the conversation going with you because he misses you madly and he simply can’t satisfy himself with a short texting session or some small talk when he calls you!

2. Siempre habla de ti

Have you heard from anyone recently that he’s been talking about you? If this is the case, then you can be one hundred percent sure that he really misses you A LOT.

You see, when we miss someone badly, we can’t ourself but talk about that person when they’re not around because by doing that, we feel like the person is with us.  And that’s exactly what he’s doing.

He wants other people to know how crazy he is about you and given that he’s constantly thinking about you, he wouldn’t be able to stop talking about you even if he wanted to! (So, if this is not a good sign that he truly misses you, then I don’t know what is!)

3. Deja comentarios y le gustan tus publicaciones en las redes sociales

Okay, so missing someone doesn’t necessarily mean that you are in a relationship.

You can miss someone you’ve broken up with. You can miss someone you’ve only seen walking by you.

Puedes echar de menos a alguien que trabaje en el centro comercial donde compraste tu portátil.

Missing someone doesn’t have to have anything to do with being in a relationship.

If a guy ‘stalks’ you on social media and you never dated him, he’s probably head over heels in love with you and misses you because he never had you.

If someone you’ve been with sends you texts on redes sociales or hits ‘like’ and comments on every picture you post, it’s definitely one of the biggest signs that he misses you and probably wants to date you again—he wants you back.

If you’ve been apart for some time and he still contacts you and is involved on your social media profiles, he has definitely not moved on.

Véase también: 143 mensajes de texto que le harán desearte y echarte de menos aún más

4. Quiere que le envíes fotos

Esto es definitivamente una señal de que te echa de menos pero de qué manera es la cuestión.

Esto podría ser AF sucio but it can be completely innocent. It’s possible that he only has the hots for you and he wants you to envíale tus fotos para satisfacer sus necesidades.

Pero, por otro lado, puede que te esté pidiendo una foto porque te echa de menos de verdad y quiere tenerte a su lado, aunque sea virtualmente.

Quiere ver tu cara porque le hace feliz. Quiere poder pensar en ti siempre que saque el móvil.

He wants to use every moment of his free time to look at the face he misses the most—yours.

5. Insiste en verte

Cuando un chico te echa de menos, lo más seguro es que quiera verte. Probablemente insista en verte y, cuando os veáis, hable de volver a verte.

Esta es una de las mayores señales a prueba de balas de que te echa de menos y de que va en serio.

Esto significa realmente que está interesado en ti y que probablemente quiere algo más de lo que ya tenéis (sobre todo si es la primera vez que tenéis una cita). Por supuesto, esto puede ir en ambos sentidos.

Puede decir que te echa de menos y tener un motivo oculto y sólo quiere utilizarte.

La única forma de saberlo con seguridad es esperar a que haga un esfuerzo y haga algo por verte.

Words don’t mean anything if they are not followed by actions. So, be smart and patient and wait for him to prove that he really wants to see you and that he misses you.

6. He’s a little bit jealous

Si es celoso pero no posesivo, significa que te echa de menos.

Los chicos tienen la necesidad de demostrar a todo el mundo que eres suya. Quieren hacer saber a todo el mundo que estás ocupada y que es mejor que los demás se ocupen de sus propios asuntos y traten de encontrar su felicidad en otra parte porque tú eres suya.

This can be very annoying. You may feel like he’s suffocating you but as long as it’s within normal limits, you’re safe.

Por otro lado, hay personas que tienen un problema grave.

There are guys who will start controlling you because they don’t trust you.

Maybe they are too scared that you’ll meet a new person and you’re going to leave them, so they imagine things and blow certain situations out of proportion.

And when you confront them about it, they will assure you that they love you and they act that way because they miss you. Be careful and don’t let anyone take away your freedom or restrict you in any way.

If you see that he is doing just that, then he doesn’t miss you—he just has a serious problem.

Véase también: 10 maneras efectivas de poner celoso a un chico y que te desee más

7. Sus amigos le dan pistas

Let’s say the two of you were in a relationship and you broke up. Some time has passed and you haven’t heard from him for a while but his friends and your friends give you hints that he isn’t over you and that he misses you.

They tell you that he constantly talks about the good times you two had or he’s all of a sudden checking your old pictures and asking about your love life.

Puede que también pida consejo a sus amigos sobre citas porque esta vez quiere asegurarse de no fastidiar las cosas contigo.

If he’s doing all of this, he is probably too shy to say it himself or he wants to give you your space.

Esto es definitivamente una verdadera señal de que echas de menos a alguien y significa que te quiere de vuelta.

Maybe he has realized what a jerk he has been and since he isn’t forcing you to talk to him or molesting you, maybe you should think about giving him a second chance.

8. Te llama borracho

Sé que la mayoría de vosotras os hacéis a la idea de que lo único que quiere es un polvo.

Pero, como en la mayoría de los casos, toda historia tiene dos caras, y ésta también.

No, he might not give a damn about you and is probably in the mood for a little something and the best solution is to seek it where you’ve been getting it regularly.

Así que sí, hay muchas posibilidades de que te diga que te echa de menos sólo para acostarse contigo.

Pero también existe la posibilidad de que quiera estar contigo. También existe la posibilidad de que te eche de menos de verdad.

Maybe he didn’t have the courage to call you; maybe he didn’t know what to say to you.

Sabes que todos hacemos estupideces cuando nos emborrachamos, pero también somos increíblemente valientes en esos momentos.

Maybe that was all he needed—a little push in the right direction to tell you that he misses you and still loves you.

There is one way to know this for sure but unfortunately, it doesn’t work every time because we are all different and there is no one hundred percent positive template of human behavior. That’s the beauty of it.

But after this wild night, if he calls or texts you the next morning to say that he is sorry about his behavior, then he is probably just being honest and was emotional the night before. If he doesn’t contact you, he probably wanted one thing—sex.

9. Sugiere videochat

When we really miss someone, we’re dying on the inside to see that person, right?

Así que, si te propone chatear por vídeo en Facetime u otras aplicaciones de chat, entonces sabrás que te echa de menos como un loco y que pasar tiempo contigo (aunque sea por cámara) es su prioridad.

He misses your voice, your face and your aura and that’s why he can’t help but ask you to turn on that cam and make his day. He’s literally screaming: “I want you !”

Also, if you notice that he’s flirting or complimenting you during a video session, what else do you need? Girl, that boy is head over heels for you and he doesn’t only miss you, he misses you BADLY!

Véase también: 5 maneras probadas de hacer que te eche de menos con locura

10. Dice (sinceramente) que te echa de menos

Es lo más bonito que te puede decir un hombre, pero ¿cómo saber si lo dice en serio?

When a man tells you, ” I miss you , ” your instincts will tell you if he is being himself and that his intentions are honorable.

Y, por supuesto, no todos los hombres pueden mantener la calma y la compostura todo el tiempo.

Incluso los que tienen el exterior más duro ceden a la presión interna que les evoca el amor.

Pero lo esencial es que sabrás que está siendo sincero. Podrás verlo en sus ojos.

And he will most definitely prove it to you. Because when someone misses you truly, he won’t feed you with empty words. Instead, he will make sure to show it to you!