Un hombre de verdad se disculpará porque te valora más que a su orgullo
¿Nunca te has cansado de los hombres que fingen no saber lo que hicieron mal?
What’s worse, they expect you to forget about it or ridicule your behavior and accuse you of being passive-aggressive.
I’m done with that. I refuse to waste my time on men who aren’t able to put their ego aside.
For how long do women just passively have to accept that men are ‘’like that’’ and keep living their life caged in someone’s fake sense of self?
A man who loves you will not want to make you feel like you’re less than him. He will hate to see you hurt or in pain.
He won’t put his pride or some silly fight above your love. When there’s love, there’s a way.
When we’re selfless, it’s easy to abandonar el orgullo y ver más allá del problema superficial.
Pero, ¿por qué la autorreflexión es tan difícil para los hombres en general?
It doesn’t require any work, just objective thinking about their behavior. How hard is it to say two little words?
Why is it so hard to say I’m sorry? Well, there are a few reasons.
The first reason is they have a hard time admitting they’re wrong. Les hace parecer menos competentes y eso lo odian.
If they say they’re sorry, it means you win – or that’s how they see it.
Needless to say – men don’t like to lose; they don’t like to feel weak.
La segunda razón es responder con un sí pero añadiendo el pequeño e irritante pero inmediatamente después.
They play the blame game. I did this but you did that first. This doesn’t get you anywhere.
La tercera razón es el miedo a la vulnerabilidad. Admitting you’re wrong is admitting you are a vulnerable being.
Unfortunately, many men are brainwashed into thinking they shouldn’t show their feelings, and sometimes this is the cost – a pointless obstacle in communication that could be resolved so quickly.
Ninguna de estas razones excusa la falta de disculpas, sólo explican los posibles motivos.
If a man can’t apologize after doing something wrong – te está faltando al respeto. It’s clear as day, no doubt about that.
It’s very easy to see that he doesn’t value your feelings. Why else would he prioritize his pride?
Why is something banal more important than love and his significant other’s feelings?
The truth is – women don’t really want that much. They just want a hombre maduro who can admit that he’s wrong when he’s wrong.
With a mature man – you can resolve any problem with a conversation. There are no unnecessary fights and silly pride.
There’s no jealousy and no mind games. He is responsible and careful with words. He doesn’t let his ego loose.
Un hombre maduro te valorará incluso cuando no estéis de acuerdo porque sabe que los desacuerdos forman parte de la relación.
Te apoyará incondicionalmente en tus proyectos y te querrá por lo que eres.
He won’t be afraid of saying those two words – in fact, he will encourage communication and problem-solving.
Un hombre de verdad siempre busca mejorar la situación en lugar de mantenerla estancada. ¿Qué mejor objetivo puede haber para una relación seria?
Para crecer, las cosas deben evolucionar y cambiar. Deben ser mejores y más sabias y no quedarse estancadas en un círculo vicioso de problemas y miedos del pasado.
Las relaciones son el arma definitiva contra el orgullo y todo tipo de comportamiento egoísta.
In a relationship you just can’t be selfish – otherwise, it’s a very dysfunctional relationship.
That’s why it’s always better to learn from the things that trigger us and make us feel the things we’d rather not feel.
Debemos luchar contra las debilidades y eso incluye un ego frágil.
The funny thing is – it’s so easy to just admit something, let go, and learn from your mistake. But that would take a mature man.
If your man is ready to admit his wrongs – he has his priorities listed correctly.
If your man apologizes after being wrong – know that he’s a keeper.
That means that to him – your love comes first, siempre… and that’s what true love is about.
