7 señales que demuestran que eres un sapiosexual TOTAL
As an introverted female sapiosexual, I wholeheartedly admit that I’m a sucker for intelligent men. Nada puede captar mi atención al instante y atraerme con un mínimo esfuerzo como la inteligencia.
If I’m unable to have deep conversations with a potential partner (and if they’re unable to make me laugh), I lose interest immediately.
Seriously, they could be the hottest guy on the planet and I still wouldn’t be interested in them unless they have that secret ingredient: intelligence.
If you feel the same way or you’re dating someone who might be a sapiosexual, below you’ll find everything you need to know about personas sapiosexuales.
First, we’ll answer the question: ¿Qué es un sapiosexual? Then, we’ll go through the signs of sapiosexuality, turn-ons for sapiosexuals, and quotes that perfectly explain this sexual orientation.
¡Será un viaje divertido!
¿Qué significa sapiosexual?
De pansexual a sapiosexual, LGBTQ+ paraguas cubre todo un espectro de identidades diferentes en cuanto a género y sexualidad. Entonces, ¿qué significa sapiosexual?
A sapiosexual es alguien que experimenta atracción sexual hacia inteligente a.k.a. gente inteligente.
When someone asks me to define sapiosexual in my own words, I always tell them to imagine an introvert who can’t be impressed by small talk or superficial people.
Lo mismo ocurre con esta orientación sexual. Los sapiosexuales ansían lo mismo cosas que los introvertidos anhelan en las relaciones románticas. Las conversaciones profundas e inspiradoras son el núcleo del significado sapiosexual.
¿Cuándo se añadió el término sapiosexual al diccionario?
The word sapiosexual originated from the Latin root word ‘sapien’, meaning wise and ‘sexualis’ meaning sexual. Basically, it is still a new word, and Merriam-Webster dictionary first used the word in 2004.
A decir verdad, ya no vivimos en el mundo de los diccionarios, sino en el de las aplicaciones de citas. Pues bien, aplicaciones de citas como Sapio y OkCupid permiten a los usuarios identificarse como sapiosexuales.
With that being said, here’s an interesting definition of sapiosexual by Urban Dictionary: Algo que pones en tu perfil de citas si quieres ser pretencioso. Definitivamente, es para reflexionar. ?
¿Es usted sapiosexual?
You know you’re a legit sapiosexual if some or all of the above things resonate with you:
Las conversaciones profundas te inspiran y te excitan
You live for thought-provoking questions and all kinds of brain teasers. If you can’t establish a deep, meaningful conversation with a potential partner, you won’t think twice about pursuing them.
Para ti, las conversaciones profundas son un buen juego previo. Desde el bienestar hasta las teorías conspiratorias, estas conversaciones pueden versar sobre cualquier tema.
Te atrae cosas que son atractivas para un sapiófilo como conversaciones reveladoras, debates y similares.
A la hora de buscar socios potenciales, la inteligencia es un rasgo prioritario
Como podrá observar (léase con una dosis de sarcasmo), esta identidad sexual gira en torno a la inteligencia.
So, when you’re thinking of socios potenciales, you don’t imagine a hot guy or a hot girl, but you’re mainly focused on their personality and, allow me to use the word again, intelligence.
When you’re looking at your potential partner’s social media profile, you don’t even pay that much attention to their appearance. You’re primarily preoccupied with those things that accentuate their personality and resemble intelligence.
Además, crees firmemente que los chicos frikis y las chicas frikis son las mejores compañeras.
Usted es drawn to a person’s interior more than their exterior
The first time you see someone, you don’t even pay attention to their appearance, but you can’t wait to hear their story, feel their vibe, and fall in love with their intelligence and unique way of thinking.
Lo mismo se aplica a un demisexual (se siente atraído sexualmente por alguien basándose en una fuerte conexión emocional).
Para sapiosexuales y demisexuales, una relación con un introvertido es el mejor y a veces el único tipo de relación sostenible.
Cuanto más los conoces, más te atraen
You have a whole different perception of attractive qualities when it comes to dating and relationships. You don’t fall for their perfect bodies, but you fall for their wisdom, sense of humor, witty comebacks, and sarcastic comments.
To you, it’s all about intellectual compatibilidad. The more you get to know their personality, the more you’re attracted to them.
This can’t be said for the opposite of sapiosexual, which would be intellectophobe or anti-intellectualist.
You can’t stand small talk
As a sapiosexual, I repeat this very often: “If there’s one thing I hate in this life, it is small talk.” I can’t stand it.
The existence of small talk makes me want to become asexual (someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction).
If you feel the same way, then you know you belong to this crew. Besides small talk, I also can’t stand gossiping and other things that belong to the list of tipos de personalidad tóxica.
You don’t go to bars to meet people
The idea of going to bars to meet potential partners doesn’t appeal to you. You would rather meet someone in a cozy bookstore so that you can evaluate their intelligence on the spot (and in your natural habitat).
Para primeras citasprefieres un entorno íntimo más pequeño en el que no tengas límites, conversaciones profundas till your heart’s content.
Intentaba explicarle esto a mi amigo que es greysexual, but she doesn’t understand me. I told her that románticos empedernidos and people like me don’t go to bars to meet people because bars are overrated (one day, she’ll understand.)
Te encanta todo lo que amplíe tu mente
Conversaciones intelectuales, crucigramas, ver documentales, leer, meditar, aprender un nuevo idioma y cosas similares son algunas de las cosas que le gusta hacer.
You hang out with inspiring people, and you’re constantly on the lookout for new ways to expand your mind.
You’re also mesmerized by how gente inteligente‘s brains work (especially of those you like). You don’t have problems amar a un pensador excesivo porque sabes que pensar demasiado es un signo de inteligencia.
A decir verdad, hay que ser lo suficientemente inteligente como para poder pensar y repensar hasta la saciedad.
¿Cómo excitar a un sapiosexual?
If you want to learn how to impress someone who belongs to this sexual orientation, the most important thing you need to pay attention to is conversation. Don’t start with small talk because if you do, the game is over.
Si desea encender a sapiosexual, here’s what you should do:
- SÁQUESE la charla
- Engage in intellectual pursuits (read books, watch movies…)
- Mantén la conversación fluida
- Haga preguntas que inviten a la reflexión
- Comparte tu pasión
- Habla nerd
- Léeles
- Aprender juntos una nueva habilidad
- Explorar juntos temas tabú
- Ver un documental con ellos
- Noche de juegos
Cuando se trata de atraer sapiófilos y sapiosexuales, lo más importante que hay que tener en cuenta es ser creativo durante la conversación, y siempre que se pueda.
Show them that you have a unique way of expressing yourself and perceiving things around you and you’ll win their hearts.
Sapiosexuals don’t fall for generic or mainstream people. Aggressive, dishonest, and boring are some of the rasgos de personalidad que desaniman a cualquier mujer y hombre que pertenece a esta orientación sexual.
15 citas sapiosexuales que definen a la perfección la sapiosexualidad
If you’re still unsure whether you belong to the crew of sapiosexuals, here are a few quotes that will surely help you figure it out:
1. “Your mind does things to my body that your hands never could.” – Unknown
2. “Talk nerdy to me.” – Unknown
3. “I get high on intelligent conversations.” – Unknown
4. “Philosophical discussion is my foreplay.” – Unknown
5. “When you are sapiosexual, you stalk profiles on LinkedIn and not on Tinder.” – Unknown
6. “I love big brains and I cannot lie.” – Unknown
7. “Let’s have intellectual intercourse.” – Unknown
8. “Never underestimate the seductive power of a decent vocabulary.” – Unknown
9. “I have a weakness for clever minds.” – Unknown
10. “Give me words that make my mind curl before my toes.” – Unknown
11. “Witty banter is the best foreplay.” – Unknown
12. “I have a thing for intellectuals. I love a good mind fuck every now and then.” – Unknown
13. “I am a sapiosexual. I admit being attracted to a cute face, a sexy body, or a winning smile. But, those things simply catch my eye. For someone to keep my attention requires the ability to uphold their side of a conversation.” – Unknown
14. “I like men with massive, throbbing vocabularies.” – Unknown
15. “Intelligence is the ultimate aphrodisiac.” – Unknown
En conclusión
Sapiosexuals don’t experience attraction the same way as ordinary humans do because for them, intelligence is a deal-maker.
Conversaciones en profundidad son su afrodisíaco; las discusiones filosóficas son su juegos preliminares. A person’s interior is more important than their exterior, and small talk is strictly prohibited.
If you’re one of them, then you have certainly enjoyed reading my article (and my self-bragging sense of humor). ?
Don’t go yet. To help you find your sapiosexual soulmate, here’s something that might narrow your search: Estos son los tres signos del zodiaco más inteligentes.
(Espero que esto haya sido una compensación digna por el sentido del humor autoflagelante anterior).
