Sé que enamorarse da miedo pero el chico adecuado hará que merezca la pena

Nunca has sido un cobarde. Al contrario, siempre has caminado por la vida con fiereza y sin miedo. Siempre has sido valiente y fuerte.

Excepto por una cosa.

With time, you’ve become terrified of love and anything that has to do with it. Even la idea de enamorarse se ha vuelto aterradora a ti.

You justify yourself by saying that you can’t force yourself to have faith in love when you’ve been betrayed and hurt so many times because of it. You can’t believe that love can be pure and that it can have a positive outcome on you.

You’ve even become sarcastic and pessimistic when love is in question. But if you are honest toward yourself, you’ll see that you are only trying to mask your fear with this sarcasm and irony.

But the way you see love is nothing unnatural, taking into consideration everything you’ve been through in the past.

Cuando miras tu vida sentimental y tu historia de amor desde este punto de vista, no ves nada positivo. Sí, claro que tienes algunos recuerdos cariñosos, pero prevalecen los feos.

Sadly, the pain and the sadness prevail in the rare moments of happiness you’ve experienced.

Era como si cada hombre que entraba en tu vida tuviera una agenda oculta. Era como si todos ellos sólo quisieran utilizarte, hacerte daño y dejarte para que lucharas por tu cuenta, mientras ellos continuaban con sus vidas.

The truth is that you’ve had different types of men in your life but somehow they all turned out to be wrong for you. Somehow, they’ve all managed to hurt you in different ways.

Y, por supuesto, todo lo que ha pasado ha dejado secuelas en tu personalidad. Cambió tu visión de la vida y del amor y te cambió como persona.

All of these men didn’t just hurt you—they’ve made you believe that every person in this world will treat you the same. They’ve made you think that you are obviously not worthy of someone loving you the right way and they’ve convinced you that you shouldn’t trust anyone.

So naturally, you’ve become scared and you’ve te prometiste no volver a amar. You’ve become afraid of letting anyone in your life, of giving yourself to someone new and of giving men a chance.

You’ve become petrified of trusting people and most of all, you’ve become scared of falling in love, thinking it would only bring you suffering.

I know you are scared and there is nothing wrong with that. I know you’ve lost all faith in ever finding the man who would derriba tus muros because you think he would destroy you. I know you’ve lost all faith in ever loving someone and of ever being loved.

But what you don’t know is that the right guy will make all of these fears go away, as if they never existed.

Te dará todo su amor y su apoyo y te hará comprender que siempre puedes contar con él, pase lo que pase. Hará de su deber convencerte de que es alguien en quien puedes confiar.

Hará todo lo posible por demostrarte que nunca se irá de tu lado y que se quedará contigo en las buenas y en las malas.

Este chico nunca te hará dudar de su lealtad o del amor que siente por ti. Nunca te hará cuestionar tu valía y nunca te hará mendigar su amor y su atención.

And most importantly—he will always fulfill his promises. He will never back out on you nor will he leave you hanging.

En cambio, siempre respaldará sus palabras, demostrándote que puedes confiar en él.

Nunca hará nada para herirte deliberadamente, porque siempre tendrá en cuenta tus emociones.

Y por último, este hombre nunca te abandonará y se esforzará por demostrarte que es diferente a los demás.

I know you think a guy like this doesn’t exist. And even if he does, that he won’t happen to you.

But trust me—all of this is just in your head. Because this guy will come along when you least expect it.

When he comes, he’ll show you why it never worked out with all of these men from your past. And he’ll make you understand that everything you went through was worth it.

Porque cada pequeña cosa en tu vida, cada tipo equivocado y cada paso en falso que diste, te llevó a él.