Estas son 10 señales de que estás atrapado en una relación de texto
1. Vosotros dos os mandáis mensajes de texto muchas veces al día
Te entusiasma recibir sus mensajes a lo largo del día. Te parece increíble lo mucho que os comunicáis.
You take this to be a sign of how many things you have to talk about and believe it to mean that you’ll have many topics to discuss once you actually get together.
La cuestión es que hablar por teléfono es muy diferente de hablar en persona, así que tenlo en cuenta.
2. Pero nunca hablas por teléfono
You call him and he doesn’t answer. You believe it would be nice to hear his voice and actually get closer to the real thing by talking and not writing your thoughts but he seems to be unavailable for that.
Intentas llamarle para que vuestra relación dé al menos ese pequeño paso, pero siempre salta el buzón de voz.
Minutes later, he texts you and wants to chat so he’s not in the middle of something, he simply doesn’ want to speak on the phone.
3. No promete tener una cita real
Le sugieres que se reúna con él en persona y parece dispuesto a hacerlo.
PERO si lo miras más de cerca, te darás cuenta de que en realidad nunca promete nada.
He uses undefined words such as ‘could’ or ‘maybe’. He never really makes any concrete plans about your future dates.
He stalls and always lets you believe he’ll be in touch with you IF he’s available for a date.
4. And if he does, he doesn’t keep his word
It seems like he’s very much into you. You actually get him to make plans for a date but he cancels. This cycle repeats over and over.
You believe that this texting period is just one small step toward the real relationship that you’re moving to but you should know that it will never happen.
A textelationship is all you’re getting with this guy, I’m sorry.
5. You’re not friends on social media
You know he has social media accounts but you’re not friends on them.
He doesn’t add you and you’re not really sure whether you should add him.
No sólo te bloquea de su mundo real, sino también de sus redes sociales. Los mensajes de texto son todo lo que tienes.
6. Su relación se parece a una relación a distancia
Vive en la misma ciudad pero todo en vuestra relación grita larga distancia.
En realidad nunca os veis y todo lo que compartís es a través de mensajes de texto.
No importa lo que pase, como un cumpleaños o cualquier otro acontecimiento importante, tú sigues mandándole mensajes, como si viviera muy, muy lejos.
Incluso tus amigos tienen la impresión de que vive en otra ciudad o país y te da vergüenza decirles que vive cerca.
7. Charláis sobre los detalles más íntimos
It might make you feel good for a while because you’ll believe that his interest in your thoughts and attitudes about things means that he’s ready to develop a deeper, more intimate connection with you.
Sadly, this isn’t the case because if that were true, why do you still feel like you need so much more from him?
8. Te da ansiedad enviar mensajes de texto
¿Y si deja de enviarte mensajes de repente? ¿Qué le detendría?
No os comprometéis el uno con el otro. Es más, casi nunca os veis.
If he hasn’t tried to make this relationship something more than it is right now, he’s obviously fine with just texting you.
If he wanted to give you a more important role in his life, he’d have done so by now.
9. You’re constantly thinking about the dates you have had
Quizás tuviste un par de citas increíbles con él antes de que empezara vuestra relación de texto.
In your mind, you’re holding on to those dates, thinking that if you bear with him for a while, there will be more of those.
The thing is, if a lot of time has passed and you two haven’t been on a date, it’s time to call it quits. Nothing more than texts is coming your way, believe me.
10. It seems like he’s a part of your life but he’s really not
Parece que lo sabes todo sobre su vida, sus amigos y su familia y él conoce la tuya.
No matter what you’re doing and no matter where you go, he’s always there with you, within arm’s reach. But is he really?
If it feels like you’re investing a lot into this relationship and getting nothing out of it, it’s time to break it off.
You can never really be sure what he is actually doing when he’s not texting you, and even if you could, isn’t it better to free your time and energy for someone willing to give you something real?
