17 señales evidentes de que le gustas a tu vecina
¿Hace tiempo que la chica de al lado actúa de forma sospechosa? ¿Se comporta de forma muy diferente cuando estás cerca y aprovecha cualquier oportunidad para estar contigo a solas?
It’s like she has some romantic interest in you. And it’s not like it isn’t mutual, right? ? Well, just to be 100% sure about it, you should check out these clear signs your female neighbor likes you.
Trust me, there are so many little things you don’t pay attention to that could reveal your neighbor’s true feelings. She’s probably trying to hide it, but sooner or later, her behavior and actions will expose her, and you’ll both need to lay your cards on the table.
17 señales evidentes de que le gustas a tu vecina
Pay attention to each and every single one of these subtle signs your female neighbor likes you because that’s the only way you’ll know for sure what is really going on.
1. Señala que su situación sentimental es soltera AF
Whenever you guys talk about anything, she always tries to emphasize that she’s currently not seeing anyone. Just think about it… Why would someone try to point out so desperately that they’re single if they don’t like you, right?
If she only considers you a neighbor, or in other words, if she doesn’t like you romantically, she probably wouldn’t even bring up her love life in your conversations.
That’s right, this is una clara señal de que le gustas a una mujer. She’s letting you know that she’s single, and she’s giving you the green light to dar el primer paso.
You don’t quite need a dating expert to figure that out. She wants you badly, and she is showing it loud and clear.
Now, it’s all up to you… If you like her, don’t be afraid to invite her out. If you don’t care about her in that way, don’t make any moves because that may damage your relationship.
2. Además, muestra interés en tu vida amorosa
If she’s interested in your personal life, and especially your love life, it’s a giveaway sign she’s fallen hard for you. She probably hasn’t seen you bring any girls home, and she wants to know whether you’re currently seeing anyone.
Even if you aren’t single, that doesn’t mean that she’ll stop hoping that maybe one day you two will be together. She’ll keep flirting with you and hope that one day you’ll give her a chance.
On the other hand, if you aren’t dating anyone right now, she’ll start with her métodos para conquistarle. If she isn’t too shy, she might even admit her feelings to you, and if she’s bold enough, she may invite you out on a cita romántica.
I have a piece of advice for you…
If you don’t like her, or if you already have a girlfriend, don’t string her along. After all, you live near each other, and it’ll be too awkward to see one another every day if you try something and if that thing between you ends badly.
3. Her body language isn’t so innocent
My favorite thing about body language is that you can’t fake it because you can’t control it too much. You can try to act and hide your true feelings, but sooner or later, your body language will start talking on your behalf.
Así que, por mucho que lo intente, si le gustas, su lenguaje corporal te lo dirá. She won’t be able to stop flirting with you, and you’ll notice her body shivering every time you come close.
You’ll also notice how she always tries to touch your hand when you’re near or how she leans towards you every time you two talk.
Playing with her hair is also one of the big body language signs a female neighbor likes you. And yes, we can’t forget the good old mordiéndose los labios. When a woman does this when you’re talking to her, it means that she’s attracted to you.
4. Evita el contacto visual
She has an open body language, while at the same time, she can’t maintain eye contact with you. Do you know why this is?
It’s because she is afraid that her eyes might expose her, and that’s why she looks away every time you catch her gazing at you. With time, and as she gets to know that you like her, too, she’ll be able to hold her gaze even after you catch her looking at you.
You’ll notice that she can maintain eye contact with pretty much everyone except you. It’s actually sweet because that’s how you’ll know that she has a secret crush on you.
5. She can’t hide her smile when she sees you
It’s like her lips are set to automatically smile every time she sees you. And it’s because she is head over heels for you and misses you every day.
Running into you makes her day, and it’s obvious that she can’t hide it. She would like to see you 24/7, but she knows that isn’t possible, so she’s incredibly happy when she gets to see you on the street for at least a minute or two.
6. Se preocupa por tu bienestar
¿Te pregunta siempre por tu bienestar? ¿Es la que más se preocupa por ti cuando enfermas? ¿Te trae sopa o bebidas calientes para que te recuperes antes?
If she does, is it really necessary to talk any more about this? She cares for you in a way no other person does, and I truly hope you’ll be aware of it one day… Before it’s too late…
7. Se siente libre de hacerle preguntas personales
In the beginning, you didn’t talk about your personal lives because you thought it was out of line. However, she decided to change that, and now, she wants to find out more about you and your life, and that’s why she asks you preguntas personales todo el tiempo.
If you don’t feel okay talking about it, you should be direct and tell her that. She’ll most definitely respect your wishes, and she’ll wait until you’re ready to share more details about your personal life with her.
Por otro lado, si quieres conocerla a un nivel más profundo, deberías hacerle también algunas preguntas personales. Y, por supuesto, debes responder con sinceridad a las preguntas que te haga.
If you’re interested in building a romantic relationship with her, this could be the perfect opportunity for you guys to get to know each other and bond. Eso sería sin duda una base sólida y sana para vuestra relación.
8. Te piropea casi todos los días
It’s no big deal when a neighbor pays you a compliment. However, when one of them pays you numerous compliments every day, it’s a clear sign that something is going on there.
She doesn’t do it because she wants to get her revenge on you. She does it only because she really appreciates you and everything you do.
Si quieres salir con ella, sería bueno que hazle algunos cumplidos too. She’ll know that you have a very nice opinion of her, which will be another sign for her that you’re interested in her romantically.
9. She’s already broken the touch barrier
¿Se ha puesto susceptible ya en varias ocasiones? ¿Ha abrazado o te besó en la mejilla? ¿Quizás te tocó las piernas o las manos mientras estabais sentados uno al lado del otro?
Créeme, ninguna de esas situaciones ocurrió por accidente. Probablemente ella también vio algunas señales de que te gusta, y esas son sus maneras de ligar contigo. O, en otras palabras, para hacerle saber que la atracción es mutua.
De ese modo, también quiere animarte a dar el paso. And if that’s really true, if you like her, you should start working on building that emotional and physical connection between you two.
10. Te trae pequeños regalos todo el tiempo
¿Cocina a menudo para ti? ¿Te trae un trozo de tarta o una galleta cada vez que prepara un postre delicioso? ¿Te sorprende de vez en cuando con un regalito sin motivo?
Trust me, it’s not because she’s such a kind and caring neighbor. Okay, she may be all of those things, but it also means that she is trying to grab your attention.
After all, you know what people say, you can win a man’s heart through his stomach, and she’s probably trying to use that technique to win you over.
También deberías prestar atención e intentar investigar si lo hace con otros vecinos. If you’re the only one who gets so many acts of affection and appreciation, then things are pretty obvious… She’s crazy about you.
11. Siempre es la primera persona que te echa una mano
Anoche estaba haciendo la cena, salí a sacar la basura y, de repente, algo salió mal en la cocina. La comida que estaba preparando se incendió en el horno, y mi vecino lo vio desde el otro lado de la calle e inmediatamente vino a ayudarme.
Por supuesto, no hay nada malo en ello, porque los vecinos deben ayudarse siempre que puedan. Y realmente necesito mencionar lo increíbles que son los vecinos que tengo.
However, isn’t it a bit awkward when one particular neighbor wants to help you with basically everything you do in and around the house? When you have that one neighbor who is always ready to offer you a helping hand without expecting anything in return?
It definitely isn’t awkward, BUT only if that neighbor cares about you more than you think. If your girl next door cares about you in the same way, I think it’s unnecessary to say that she has strong feelings for you.
12. Sus redes sociales están llenas de pequeñas indirectas
Ella te envió una solicitud en tus cuentas de redes sociales hace un tiempo, ¿verdad? Entonces, te sugiero que visites un poco su perfil y veas lo que ha estado escondiendo allí.
Si le gustas, you’ll find some proof of that on her social media. Mira sus posts y los pies de foto de sus selfies. ¿Ves algo sospechoso ahí?
Does she ever reach out on social media? If she does often just to see how you have been or what you are doing, it’s a clear sign she misses you.
Puedes entender muchas cosas si echas un vistazo a su perfil de Facebook o Instagram.
Además, presta atención a las publicaciones en las que la hayan etiquetado porque puede que sus amigas te mencionen de alguna manera para burlarse de ella o para darte una señal de que le gustas a su frendie.
13. Está celosa de las otras vecinas
Basically, she’s jealous of every other girl in the neighborhood who approaches you or smiles at you. And she shows it in a very obvious way.
She doesn’t even try to hide her jealousy because she can’t anymore and because she wants you to know that those things bother her. Por supuesto, esos celos deberían tener un límite.
Si notas que sus celos la vuelven posesiva, debes actuar y hablar con ella al respecto.
Think about it, you aren’t even in a relationship. What would happen once you engage in one? Will she have those jealous outbursts every time another girl tries to talk to you?
I’ll admit it’s cute to see your significant other or your crush being jealous of other people around you. However, if that jealousy is unhealthy, you should deal with it in time.
Véase también: 7 formas de combatir los celos y evitar que acaben con tu relación
14. Sus amigas ya saben de ti
If she has already told her girlfriends about you, it’s one of the most definite signs your female neighbor likes you. And be sure that she’s fallen hard for you because when a woman tells her besties about her crush, she’s already determined to win him over.
Now, if you like her, you’ll have to leave a very good impression on her girlfriends. You’ll have to win them over and get them to ‘accept’ you.
To a woman, her besties’ opinions mean a lot, and if you don’t get a good ‘grade,’ if you don’t pass their tests, you have a very small chance of winning their friend over for good.
15. Coquetea abiertamente contigo
In the beginning, she probably flirted with you in a subtle way. That’s because she didn’t know much about you, and she didn’t know whether it’d ruin your relationship.
However, when she gets to know you a bit better and finds out that you’re currently single, she’ll change her flirtation technique and start seducing you in a more obvious way.
I’m sure she won’t cross any lines because she’ll be afraid that something may go wrong, and she probably won’t want to endanger your current relationship.
PERO, si recibe una reacción positiva de tu parte, si tú también empiezas a flirtear con ella, puede que se crucen algunas líneas.
16. Los otros vecinos se han dado cuenta de que algo pasa entre vosotros dos
¿Alguno de sus vecinos se ha dado cuenta de que ha captado sentimientos románticos hacia usted? ¿Alguno de ellos ha notado química entre vosotros dos?
If they have teased you or asked about what’s going on between you two, it’s obvious that it’s true. She likes you and wants to be with you.
Por mucho que lo intentes, nunca podrás ocultar el amor y ese tipo de sentimientos románticos. If you care about someone in that way, you’ll have to show it sooner or later.
You can’t hide it from your neighbors, friends, and loved ones, especially because they’re the ones who know you best. They know how you behave when you’re falling in love with someone, and they can read your body language when you’re around the person you have feelings for.
17. Los signos de atracción son demasiado evidentes
Hay un atracción magnética between you, and you aren’t able to hide or deny it anymore.
That chemistry is inexplicable, and no matter how much you try to ignore it, it’s still there and only becomes bigger and stronger.
It’s basically been like that ever since the first day that girl next door came knocking at your door and wished you a warm welcome to the neighborhood. Desde el primer momento en que se miraron a los ojos, ambos supieron que allí pasaba algo.
Todas las mañanas os encontráis y os deseáis un buenos díasy ambos desean en secreto despertarse juntos al día siguiente. Sin embargo, ninguno de los dos se atreve a dar el primer paso y salir juntos.
I hope you’ll soon gather the courage to do it because if you wait too long, you might lose her. And who knows, maybe she’s your soulmate. Trust me, if that happens to be true, that’s something you’ll never be able to forgive yourself.
Véase también: 11 señales de que no caes bien a tus vecinos (+cómo solucionarlo)
¿Qué hago si me gusta mi vecino?
Lo primero y más importante es averiguar si tu vecino está enamorado de ti. Si también tiene un interés romántico en ti, el siguiente paso debería ser invitarle a salir.
On that date, you get the chance to confirm once more whether they truly like you or not. If something goes wrong, don’t blame yourself for trying. If you don’t try, you’ll regret not taking that chance forever because you’ll always wonder whether they were your soulmate.
Mi consejo para las citas es que dejes a un lado el miedo al rechazo. It’s better to feel pain for wrong choices than feel regret for missed chances.
I agree that living in the same neighborhood may be a disaster if your relationship ends badly. However, living next door to someone you’re in love with but can’t be with because of your lack of courage is by far worse.
¿Cómo enamorar a tu vecino?
Whether it’s your female or male neighbor, the best way to make them fall for you is to crear una fuerte conexión emocional entre vosotros.
And you’ll create that strong bond by getting to know each other on a deeper level and by spending quality time together.
Dejar salir tu lado cariñoso también te ayudará. Offer them a genuine compliment and buy them a small, romantic gift from time to time, and they’ll fall for you sooner than you think.
Don’t be too pushy, and don’t forget their boundaries. Just because you live in the same neighborhood doesn’t mean you should be together 24/7.
Give them space but also offer them safety and stability by making it clear that you’ll always be there for them, no matter what.
Véase también: Cómo hacer que tus vecinos se muden: 27 ideas brillantes
How Can I Get My Neighbor’s Attention?
If it’s a new neighbor, the best thing would be to visit them and offer them your help. You can also offer them a tour around the neighborhood, and don’t forget to emphasize that if they ever need anything, they can come to you.
Si tu vecino enamorado vive cerca de ti desde hace tiempo, puedes invitarle a salir. It doesn’t have to be a date immediately – you can invite them to hang out as neighbors/friends.
Además, si les ves trabajando en el jardín o en casa, ofrécete a ayudarles.
If you know they’re sick, you should bring them soup or some kind of hot beverage. And of course, bringing them gifts for special dates will definitely grab their attention.
Try to find out a bit more about them. Find out what their likes and dislikes are and what they like to do in their free time. Show interest in their interests and hobbies, and I promise it’ll instantly get their attention.
Para terminar
Tell me now, do you have good news? Did you recognize most of these signs your female neighbor likes you? If you did, and if the attraction is mutual, I’m really happy for you.
Pero ten cuidado. Puede parecer un cuento de hadas estar con alguien a quien puedes ver y visitar siempre que quieras.
However, don’t forget to stay present in real life… Puede ser muy incómodo si las cosas entre vosotros fracasan y seguís viéndoos todos los días.
Buena suerte, y espero que este artículo sea un punto de partida para tu relación. Ahora que sabes que le gustas, sólo tienes que armarte de valor para dar el primer paso e invitarla a la cita más romántica de la historia. I feel that love is in the air… ?
