9 señales ocultas de que tu ex aún te quiere

It’s perfectly normal to think about your ex after a breakup. You still have feelings for him and you’re wondering whether he still cares for you.

A veces parece imposible saberlo. A guy’s behavior after a breakup puede ser extraño.

They’ll never show that te echan de menos o quieran volver contigo, aunque piensen que la ruptura fue un error.

Even if they regret it, they’ll never let you know how they feel. They have that “man’s pride“, and it doesn’t let them show that they’re suffering.

So, if you’re wondering whether your ex still has some feelings for you and cares for you, pay attention to these hidden signs.

1. Te envía mensajes de texto borracho

Let’s admit it, we all do some stupid things when we’re drunk and texting your ex is probably the most stupid of the lot.

Sin embargo, la gente diga que el verdad comes out when you’re borrachoAsí que siempre debes creer lo que dice tu ex cuando está borracho.

When he is sober, he knows that you’ve broken up and that it’s a bad idea to text you and tell you how he feels about you.

On the other hand, when he is drunk, he doesn’t think rationally. It’s like alcohol gives him the strength to text you and that’s when his true feelings come out.

2. He didn’t give you your stuff back

If you two broke up some time ago and your ex is still not ready to give you your stuff back, it can only mean one thing ― he still isn’t ready to find closure and move on.

He doesn’t feel ready to move on and he still has some feelings for you. Instead, he is hoping that things between you two will change and that you’ll get together again.

3. Está intentando mantenerse en contacto contigo

Hay muchas razones por las que tu ex quiere seguir en contacto contigo, pero una cosa es segura, todavía le importas.

Maybe he wants to keep you close because he isn’t sure if the breakup was a good idea, or maybe he just wants to stay friends with you because of the time you shared together.

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4. Incluso podría pedir perdón

Su orgullo siempre fue más importante para él que vuestra relación. Ahora, está dispuesto a asumir la responsabilidad de sus actos y quiere tu perdón por todas las cosas malas que te hizo.

It’s a good sign. It also means that he still cares for you. He knows that if quiere volver contigodebe disculparse por todos sus errores.

5. Habla de ti con vuestros amigos comunes

He’ll use your mutual friends to find out how you’ve been coping with the breakup but also to tell them how he feels because he knows they’ll tell you.

Todavía siente algo por ti. La forma más fácil de que se entere de lo que haces es hablando con vuestros amigos comunes.

6. Se vuelve súper inquisitivo sobre tu vida amorosa

He still isn’t sure if he has feelings for you and that’s why he’ll try to find out everything about your love life.

Si tu ex quiere saber si has seguido adelante y ya estás saliendo con alguien nuevo, es una señal inequívoca de que quiere recuperarte.

7. Está mintiendo sobre tener una nueva pareja sólo para darte celos

Si lo hace algunas cosas que knows you’ve always hated, just to make you jealous, it means that he still has some feelings for you and that he wants you back in his life.

He thinks that lying about having a new partner will make you jealous and that it’ll make you take the first step to reconciliation. Don’t fall for that.

8. Actúa raro cada vez que te ve

Every time he sees you, he is confused and he doesn’t know what to say.

Empieza a actuar tan raro y siempre evita el contacto visualporque sabe que sus ojos traicionarían sus pensamientos y sentimientos.

It’s because he still has some hidden feelings for you, which is why he doesn’t know how to behave around you. Maybe he isn’t sure whether the breakup was the best option for both of you.

Probablemente necesite algo de espacio para pensar en ti y en vuestra relación. Definitivamente tiene sentimientos encontrados hacia ti y eso le pone nervioso cuando está cerca de ti.

9. Sigue chocando contigo

Somehow, he always ends up in the same place as you. Hmm, do you really think it’s a coincidence?

I don’t think so. Chances are he is stalking you – but not in a creepy, strange way.

He just wants to find out who you’re hanging out with, or maybe he just wants to see you but he wants to make it look like a coincidence.

He doesn’t know how to approach you after the breakup but he most definitely wants to be close to you. He is maybe even hoping that bumping into you will give him a chance to talk to you.