Ser leal significa mucho más que ser fiel
La lealtad debería ser una de las expectativas más básicas en una relación.
It seems that for many, that’s not the case.
El problema es que no todo el mundo entiende lo que es la lealtad. La palabra se ha trivializado hasta el punto de que tiene poco o ningún significado.
It’s not only about sharing couple photos with subtítulos profundos or not seeing other people. In fact, it’s so much more than staying away from other people and not cheating.
Loyalty means standing your ground. Not letting anyone or anything change the things you believe in. It’s not letting other people’s perspectives interfere with your own.
It’s knowing what you believe in—the love you share with your significant other.
It’s choosing your lover every day, again and again.
Cada relación se aburrido every now and then but that’s not a reason to search for a chispa en otro sitio.
Loyalty means you’re set on building a life with your partner—through good times and bad times, through fun times and boring times.
Las relaciones no son ninguna broma. Si quieres tener una base sólida para tu vida y tu bienestar, tienes que esforzarte.
That means there will be days when your partner irritates you, when they hurt you, when you don’t understand them at all and even ask yourself: ¿Realmente merece la pena?
Todo el mundo pasa por esos periodos, pero no hay suficientes personas que hablen de ello en voz alta.
It’s normal to question ourself from time to time, to give in and let the doubt and feelings overwhelm us. What’s not normal is to always give up when things don’t go the way you expected them to go.
La lealtad se basa en la honradez, la confianza y la lealtad. commitment—en todas las situaciones, no sólo en las buenas. Cuando amas de verdad a alguien, esas cosas son fáciles.
La lealtad es bajar la guardia cuando te sientes a la defensiva, ser paciente cuando te sientas molesto, tratando siempre a tu pareja con respeto y protegiéndola cuando necesite tu protección.
Most of all, it’s seeing them for who they really are at all times and accepting them fully. Seeing through their temporary delusions or occasional pent-up emotional outbursts.
That’s what everyone deserves in their life and that’s why you should never allow anything less than that.
It’s possible to feel like your partner is disloyal without them cheating or flirting with someone. It’s possible to feel betrayed by someone’s decisions, acts and words.
If your partner’s behavior always leaves you feeling underwhelmed or insecure, it’s possible that they don’t understand the value of loyalty or they simply don’t care enough.
There’s no point in building and planning a life with someone who’s not willing to put in the same effort as you do because that’s eventually going to end or become tóxico.
True loyalty can’t be disrupted with sudden opportunity. If you’re loyal, you won’t let weakness control your life or the life of your loved one and that’s the most attractive thing about you.
Not having to think about someone’s honesty is one of the most freeing feelings in the world.
Once you feel the peace that comes from complete trust, that’s when you know you’re with the right person.
You deserve a committed, faithful and strong love. Don’t expect it from those who aren’t even willing to be fully honest with you.
Don’t cling to people who constantly disappoint you or cross your boundaries. Don’t mistake how someone acts when they need you for loyalty. As soon as they get what they want, they’re gone.
Sé consciente de tu valor y de lo que aportas. Espera lo que das.
Las relaciones están hechas de compromiso, pero la lealtad es un requisito.
It’s how you know the love is real.
