Si fuera el adecuado, se habría quedado
For as long as you can remember, you’ve been someone who believed in love. You’ve been a girl who was looking for real romance and a happy ending in all of your relationships.
Nunca te interesó algo temporal y nunca buscaste a un hombre sólo para pasar un buen rato.
Las aventuras sin sentido y los ligues casuales no eran lo tuyo.
En cambio, todo lo que querías era encontrar el hombre adecuado for you, your soulmate and the man you’d grow old with.
No, you weren’t too picky and you didn’t want a Mr. Perfect—you just wanted simple things—someone to get you, someone to try around you and someone to love you back.
This is exactly what you hoped to get from your ex-boyfriend—love, compassion and understanding. You wanted him to be your safe harbor and your haven after a long day.
Y cuando te pones a pensarlo, este tipo realmente era todo esto.
He indeed had everything you looked for in a man—at least in the beginning.
Sin embargo, al cabo de un tiempo, las cosas cambiaron y resultó ser un hombre diferente de lo que pensabas.
No estás segura de si ahora estaba mostrando sus verdaderos colores o simplemente se cansó de ti, pero la verdad es que, de repente, no había ni rastro del hombre del que te enamoraste.
Después de muchas peleas y aún más tiempo perdido, te dejó.
Sin más, se alejó de tu vida como si vosotros dos nunca hubierais importado y como si nunca le hubieras importado.
Te dejó sola, intentando luchar contra tu tristeza y tratando de averiguar cuándo y por qué las cosas salieron mal.
Nevertheless, that is not the worst part. You know that eventually, you’ll stop missing him and get used to his absence.
You know that you’ll learn to live without him even if you never stop loving him.
Pero, ¿y si fuera el indicado para ti? ¿Y si fuera tu alma gemela?
What if you never grow to love someone the way you still love him? What if you’ll spend the rest of your life searching for him in all the other men you encounter? What if this man who got away remains stuck in one part of your brain forever?
Well, let me promise you one thing—none of this will happen. And you know why?
Porque if he was the one, he wouldn’t have gotten away. If he was meant to be yours forever, you would have never lost him.
You know, when love is real, it doesn’t have an expiration date. It doesn’t fade away the moment things get rough and it never ends.
When love is real, it lasts a lifetime, through good and bad days, through thick and thin. None of life’s obstacles or time can do it any harm because it is omnipotent and everlasting.
I know you are still convinced that this man was the one for you but he clearly wasn’t.
Tenía un propósito en tu vida, estaba allí para darte una lección and to make you understand some things but he obviously wasn’t right for you.
Porque si lo fuera, nada en este mundo podría haberlo alejado de ti.
Si lo fuera, seguiría a tu lado, cogiéndote de la mano por la vida y ni siquiera se habría planteado darte la espalda.
Si fuera el correcto, ustedes habrían tenido su final feliz.
I know all of this is difficult to believe in now but you’ll see that it is the only truth once this true love we are talking about comes into your life.
When that happens, you’ll realize all the ways in which all of your past relationships were wrong and you’ll finally understand why none of them worked out.
Most importantly, you’ll see that there is sincronización perfecta for everything and especially for love. You’ll see that sometimes there is a difference between the love you think you want and the one you really need—the difference between temporary and everlasting love.
