Si hace estas 8 cosas, es tu alma gemela

Being curious about the woman you’re dating and if she is going to be the one is nothing unusual. All of us wonder if we’ve found la persona adecuadasobre todo al principio de una relación.

Because when you’ve just started, everything is perfect. Things are too good to be true and real problems have not yet risen to the surface.

Así que, cuando la situación es estupenda, empiezas a sospechar. ¿Por qué es tan buena? ¿Va a seguir así?

You have millions of questions and you want to be sure about your partner before you go all in and give your heart to them. Naturally, you don’t want to get hurt.

But there is no way of knowing whether you’re going to get hurt or not. There is no magic formula that will calculate your happiness and the success of your relationship.

A veces, hay que arriesgarse y seguir el instinto. Si tu instinto te dice algo, síguelo y a ver qué pasa.

But, to confirm your decision, there are a few signs that can assure you that you’re going in the right direction and that your decision to stay with the woman you love is the right one.

Da un paso adelante cuando más la necesitas

She is a Wonder Woman. She will show up whenever you need her, you don’t even have to call her or ask her to come and offer you a shoulder to cry on.

She is a girl who cares. She is a girl who’ll be there.

She knows that partnership and helping each other is the most important part of every relationship. She knows that sometimes she has to put herself second because you’re more important at that moment. And you’ll do the same for her.

Then, you’ll have a relación con el premio gordo.

She’ll introduce you to everyone

Don’t be surprised if she parades around with you. Don’t take it the wrong way.

No te exhibe como si fueras un juguete. Está haciendo que todo el mundo sepa lo orgullosa que está de tenerte en su vida.

You’re her new love who she wants to keep for the rest of her life. She wants you to meet everyone in her life, her family and friends, because she is planning on keeping you.

Planea pasar al siguiente nivel.

Te hace reír

She is the person who can bring even a shy smile to your face on the days when you’re depressed and you don’t feel like doing anything. Her happiness and her positive energy can pull you out of the dark place you’re in.

Ella puede hacerte reír con su comportamiento tonto y chistes cursis. Incluso ella sabe que no es tan divertido, pero lo intenta y que la voluntad de ella para hacerte reír es algo adorable que trae esa sonrisa a su cara.

Ella saca lo mejor de ti

Her existence and her influence on you turns you into the person you could only hope to be. You’re satisfied and you’re happy.

You don’t sweat the small stuff because you’re not focused on the bad things in your life.

Ella ha cambiado tu energía negativa en positiva poniéndose ahí fuera. Lo hace a propósito, porque te quiere y quiere que seas la mejor versión de ti mismo.

Es honesta aunque duela

Hay que probar un poco de amor duro. No todas las cosas en la vida están pintadas de colores brillantes.

Sometimes, the truth is ugly and you have to face it. By running away from it, you’re only making things worse.

She won’t lie to you because she respects you very much. And where there is respect, there is love.

She doesn’t want to make you feel like a fool. So she’ll tell you the truth even if it hurts.

Tiene vida propia

She is an individual and she doesn’t need anyone to babysit her. She is not needy and she is all you can wish for.

She won’t depend on you because she is used to lidiando con sus problemas por su cuenta. She doesn’t need anyone’s help but if you offer it to help her deal with her problems faster, she will accept it.

Pero nunca hará que sus problemas se conviertan en los tuyos.

Te da libertad

She will never tell you how to live your life. She is aware of the fact that you lived your life long before she came into the picture. She knows you are responsible and mature and she won’t meddle where she doesn’t belong.

But if you need her, if you want her help or her advice, she will give it to you without judging. She won’t yell or get angry that you made a mistake.

She won’t rub it in your face because she knows everyone is entitled to make a mistake. She makes them, too.

Lo mejor que puedes hacer es aprender de ello y seguir adelante.

Ella es fiel a sí misma y quiere que tú también lo seas.

She doesn’t pretend to be something she’s not. She is the way she is and if you can accept her for that, she will be yours. She won’t lie to you and you can be sure that she is going to stay the same.

She won’t try to change you either. She has accepted you for who you are and she loves you, flaws and all.

That is what true love is. That is the woman you’ve been waiting for your whole life.

Nunca la dejes ir.