Se fa queste 8 cose, è la vostra anima gemella

Being curious about the woman you’re dating and if she is going to be the one is nothing unusual. All of us wonder if we’ve found la persona giustasoprattutto all'inizio di una relazione.

Because when you’ve just started, everything is perfect. Things are too good to be true and real problems have not yet risen to the surface.

Così, quando la situazione è ottima, si inizia a sospettare. Perché è così grande? Rimarrà così?

You have millions of questions and you want to be sure about your partner before you go all in and give your heart to them. Naturally, you don’t want to get hurt.

But there is no way of knowing whether you’re going to get hurt or not. There is no magic formula that will calculate your happiness and the success of your relationship.

A volte bisogna rischiare e seguire l'istinto. Se il vostro istinto vi dice qualcosa, seguitelo e vedete cosa succede.

But, to confirm your decision, there are a few signs that can assure you that you’re going in the right direction and that your decision to stay with the woman you love is the right one.

Si fa avanti quando si ha più bisogno di lei

She is a Wonder Woman. She will show up whenever you need her, you don’t even have to call her or ask her to come and offer you a shoulder to cry on.

She is a girl who cares. She is a girl who’ll be there.

She knows that partnership and helping each other is the most important part of every relationship. She knows that sometimes she has to put herself second because you’re more important at that moment. And you’ll do the same for her.

Then, you’ll have a relazione con il jackpot.

She’ll introduce you to everyone

Don’t be surprised if she parades around with you. Don’t take it the wrong way.

Non ti sta mettendo in mostra come un giocattolo. Sta facendo capire a tutti quanto è orgogliosa di avervi nella sua vita.

You’re her new love who she wants to keep for the rest of her life. She wants you to meet everyone in her life, her family and friends, because she is planning on keeping you.

Ha intenzione di passare al livello successivo.

Ti fa ridere

She is the person who can bring even a shy smile to your face on the days when you’re depressed and you don’t feel like doing anything. Her happiness and her positive energy can pull you out of the dark place you’re in.

Riesce a farvi ridere con il suo comportamento stravagante e le sue battute sdolcinate. Anche lei sa di non essere così divertente, ma ci prova e la sua volontà di farvi ridere è qualcosa di adorabile che porta il sorriso sul vostro viso.

Tira fuori il meglio di te

Her existence and her influence on you turns you into the person you could only hope to be. You’re satisfied and you’re happy.

You don’t sweat the small stuff because you’re not focused on the bad things in your life.

Ha trasformato la vostra energia negativa in positiva mettendosi in gioco. Lo fa di proposito, perché vi ama e vuole che siate la versione migliore di voi stessi.

È onesta anche se fa male

Bisogna assaggiare un po' di amore duro. Non tutte le cose nella vita sono dipinte con colori vivaci.

Sometimes, the truth is ugly and you have to face it. By running away from it, you’re only making things worse.

She won’t lie to you because she respects you very much. And where there is respect, there is love.

She doesn’t want to make you feel like a fool. So she’ll tell you the truth even if it hurts.

Ha una vita propria

She is an individual and she doesn’t need anyone to babysit her. She is not needy and she is all you can wish for.

She won’t depend on you because she is used to affrontare i suoi problemi da sola. She doesn’t need anyone’s help but if you offer it to help her deal with her problems faster, she will accept it.

Ma non farà mai in modo che i suoi problemi diventino i vostri.

Lei ti dà la libertà

She will never tell you how to live your life. She is aware of the fact that you lived your life long before she came into the picture. She knows you are responsible and mature and she won’t meddle where she doesn’t belong.

But if you need her, if you want her help or her advice, she will give it to you without judging. She won’t yell or get angry that you made a mistake.

She won’t rub it in your face because she knows everyone is entitled to make a mistake. She makes them, too.

La cosa migliore da fare è imparare da questa situazione e andare avanti.

Lei è sincera con se stessa e vuole che anche voi siate sinceri con voi stessi.

She doesn’t pretend to be something she’s not. She is the way she is and if you can accept her for that, she will be yours. She won’t lie to you and you can be sure that she is going to stay the same.

She won’t try to change you either. She has accepted you for who you are and she loves you, flaws and all.

That is what true love is. That is the woman you’ve been waiting for your whole life.

Non lasciarla mai andare.