Si tu hombre no está obsesionado con estas 4 cosas sobre ti, ¡déjalo ir!

Here are my two cents about love. If it isn’t overwhelming, exciting, scary as hell, but at the same time beyond comforting, you’re wasting your time.

Isn’t life too short to spend time with a man who will love you in a mediocre way?

Don’t you think you deserve someone who is going to worship the ground you walk on?

I’ve reached the point in my life where Lo quiero todo o nada.

Darme la mitad de tu amor y amar sólo partes de mí ya no es suficiente.

Being indifferent but not harsh isn’t love. Being kind, but not affectionate isn’t love.

Hay tanto que amar que la gente simplemente se olvida de ello porque tiene demasiado miedo de no poder encontrarlo nunca.

El amor es despertarse junto a una persona y asombrarse de su existencia perfectamente imperfecta.

El amor es estar loco y hacer el ridículo con esa persona, pero de una forma que te haga parar y pensar en la suerte que has tenido de encontrar a alguien tan ridículo como tú con quien compartir tu vida.

It’s all those little things that make you realize that this one is different. This one makes every second feel worth it.

With him, there is no such thing as wasted time, no matter what you’re doing.

He loves every single part of you—from your eyes which he thinks are the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen, to your freckles that he considers adorable AF.

From your quirky but lovable personality to your sudden outbursts of jealousy that you can’t hide, but he knows they’re just a sign of your amor incondicional.

It’s simply not worth being with somebody who doesn’t see you as the best damn thing he ever had the pleasure of sleeping next to.

Find yourself a guy who will look at you like a goddess and treat you like you’re precious. That’s the only type of love you deserve.

If your man isn’t absolutely obsessed with these 4 phenomenal things about you, let him go.

Don’t stop until you find a guy who will look at you every single day like he just won the lottery.

1. La forma en que divagas cuando te apasiona algo que te gusta

Todos tenemos ese algo que invoca una máquina de divagar dentro de nosotros cada vez que se aborda el tema.

You know that one thing you’re so excited and passionate about?

It can be your favourite musician finally coming to town, the one you’ve worshipped since you were a kid.

Puede ser una oportunidad laboral increíble que por fin te han ofrecido después de tanto esfuerzo.

And when you start talking about it, you just can’t stop yourself from getting overly excited about it!

It just makes you happy! And the guy you’re with should love this passionate and crazy side of yours with everything he’s got.

Verte ser completamente tú misma, por muy loca que estés a veces, debería ser lo que más le gusta de ti.

2. Tu lado emocional que te hace llorar cada vez que ves algo triste en las noticias

You know, I’ve come to realize that being emotional and caring deeply about stuff is extremely rare but beyond important in a person these days.

You see shitty things happening on the news every single day, and you just pray for the day it somehow magically all stops (knowing it won’t).

So whenever you get a tear in your eye upon seeing another mass shooting or a case of abused animals on the news, it means you’re one of those compassionate, kind people that would do anything in their power for things to change.

Y un hombre de verdad adorará esto de ti.

Estará obsesionado con lo emocional, amable y considerada que eres. Se considerará afortunado por dormir al lado de una persona que siente dolor cuando ve que ocurren cosas malas en el mundo.

Don’t date anyone who sees this as anything other than extraordinary.

3. La forma en que estallas emocionado en una canción en los momentos más aleatorios.

This one is something I am proud to say pertains to me. I am one of those people who will start singing like it’s my job whenever the mood strikes.

I can’t help it. It just makes me happy, and music makes my heart full!

Date a guy who will join you in a song and perform with you like you’re Sonny and Cher!

It doesn’t matter that you can’t sing. It doesn’t matter if he sucks at dancing. That’s not the point! 

It’s all about being your goofy, happy, crazy selves in a world filled with horrible things that make life hard to live.

Abraza tu alegría y sal con un chico que lo entienda.

4. La forma en que eliges amarlo en las buenas y en las malas

Love is a feeling, but it’s also a choice. It’s a constant effort to wake up every single day and keep loving them.

It’s a decision you firmly stand by, knowing you have committed yourself to loving a person and your unwillingness to falter in it.

Y cuando eliges conscientemente a esta persona cada día, a través de las dificultades y las tormentas, a través de los días buenos y los más difíciles, mereces que te quieran por ello.

It’s not easy staying committed and loyal, especially when the other person makes it that much harder.

Así que cuando tomes esta decisión y mantengas tu lealtad, ¡te mereces un chico que haga que todo valga la pena! No se conforme con menos.

Elige a un hombre que te quiera por la forma en que eliges comprometerte y te muestre su aprecio cada día.

El amor inquebrantable es un compromiso que nunca debe pasar desapercibido.