¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario? (La verdad podría sorprenderte)

Antes de empezar a salir con un hombre Acuario, probablemente imaginabas que vuestro romance sería algo así como El cuaderno o alguna otra película romántica. Créeme, todos lo hicimos.

A medida que avanzaban tus citas, las preguntas se multiplicaban en tu cabeza. Una de ellas es: ¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario?

We all know that this air sign is curious, intellectual, and social. They are also known for being big thinkers. Here’s one of the not-so-positive Rasgos de Acuario: Son famosos por ser distantes en las relaciones.

En otras palabras, los hombres Acuario tienen dificultades para expresar sus emociones (especialmente las negativas), así como sus sentimientos de celos. Cuando eso ocurre, su pareja puede perder la cabeza intentando averiguar qué está pasando exactamente por su cabeza.

I totally feel you. This would drive anyone insane. So, here’s the truth: Aquarius men are jealous, but they avoid expressing it directly, and they refuse to talk about it.

En realidad, expresan los celos de formas diferentes y sutiles, que trataremos a continuación.

¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario? Sí, ¡lo son!

Sólo quería compartir mi experiencia personal con un hombre Acuario. Salí con este chico hace dos años y, al principio, todo parecía idílico. (Bueno, siempre lo es.)

Recuerdo que un día, de repente, empezó a mostrarse distante. No tenía ni idea de lo que estaba pasando. Did I do something to make him mad? Did something happen to him, and he didn’t want to share it with me?

My overthinking skills didn’t help me at all. The more I thought about it, the less I knew what exactly was happening in his head.

Así que decidí preguntarle.

When I asked him why he was acting so distant all of a sudden, he told me that I was imagining things and that he was perfectly okay. Hmm…okay.

Al cabo de unas horas, me preguntó: “Who was that guy who commented on your pic today?” WHAAT?! It didn’t take me long to connect the dots and realize that he was jealous of a guy who commented on the pic that I posted on Instagram that day.

¿En serio?

Well, that guy was a friend I hadn’t seen for a long time then. He complimented my looks in a funny and slightly hot way, but I knew he was only joking. Apparently, my ex-boyfriend, Aquarius, didn’t know that, so he became jealous.

Entonces, ¿los hombres Acuario son celosos? ¡Claro que sí!

If you’re going through the same at the moment, below you’ll find all the ways Aquarians express their jealousy. I bet it will save you time and nerves.

¿Cómo saber si un Acuario es celoso?

You know an Aquarius man is jealous if he suddenly acts distant, controlling, or possessive. If he’s jealous, chances are he will also want to make you feel jealous.

As you can see, Aquarius men experience jealous feelings, but they cope with it in their own unique ways. Since they act reserved in relationships, here’s how they behave when it comes to jealousy:

1. Actúa distante

Here’s the thing. If an Aquarius guy needs to deal with uncomfortable emotions, he will IMMEDIATELY become distant. That’s one of the sutiles signos de sus celos.

Don’t get me wrong. He’s not trying to play mind games with you – he just shuts down like a computer and refuses to talk to you about anything.

I swear that Aquarians are the most difficult of all the zodiac signs when it comes to this. When they act distant, you simply can’t ignore it. You feel with every pore of your being that something’s not right, but you simply don’t know what exactly.

If you call him, he won’t answer.

If you text him, he won’t text you back.

(Well, he might leave you on “Seen.”)

If you ask him what’s wrong, guess what happens? Read the next sign.

2. Se niega a hablar de ello

Yup. If you ask an Aquarius man to talk about his feelings, all you’ll get is SILENCE. Blessed be the ladies who end up with Scorpio, Capricorn, and Taurus men! Amen. 🤣

Era broma.

Los hombres Acuario tienen sus propias cualidades, pero cuando se trata de expresar sus sentimientos, incluidos los celos, se les da realmente mal. They’re so bad at it that neither do they know what they’re doing.

¿Por qué?

Because Aquarius men like to be in control. Uncomfortable emotions like jealousy make them feel out of control, and they don’t know how to deal with it.

They try to hide their own feelings of jealousy because they’re so bad at self-expression. Maybe the will is there, but they haven’t found a way. Esto es especialmente cierto para un hombre Acuario en el amor que está abrumado con tantas emociones.

When you add jealousy to it, you get a distant Aquarius man who has a hard time telling you how he feels. Should we blame him for that? I don’t think so.

3. Comportamiento posesivo

Este es probablemente uno de los peores signos de celos y problemas de confianza cuando se trata de Acuario. En lugar de hablar con usted acerca de esto, él puede llegar a ser excesivamente posesivo con usted.

If you’re in a group of people, he will become glued to you so that you can’t talk much to other men. Si se da cuenta de que otros hombres comentan las fotos que publicas en las redes sociales, exigirá saberlo todo sobre ellos.

Además, puede que empiece a llamarte cada hora para preguntarte dónde estás y qué estás haciendo. Comportamiento posesivo en una relación can be a huge problem because it’s suffocating and toxic.

No, no hay excusa para el comportamiento posesivo, y cuanto antes hables con tu hombre Acuario, mejor será para ambos y para vuestra relación.

If you’re thinking about ignorando a un hombre AcuarioSi no lo hace, sepa que esto puede tener consecuencias, como que se vuelva aún más agresivo o se aleje.

4. Quiere darte celos a ti también

¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario? Sí, lo son. De hecho, un hombre de Acuario celoso querrá ponerte celosa a ti también. ¿Te preguntas por qué?

Because he feels like you’re the one to blame for his current state. Given that he doesn’t know how to deal with his emotions, he will instantly start looking for a culprit. In this instance, that culprit would be you (even if that’s probably not the case).

He will want to make you feel the same way he feels at the moment. He will want to make you jealous to feel better about himself. That sounds a little bit harsh, I know, but that’s just how they behave in such circumstances.

So, you can expect him to start flirting with other women in front of you, start commenting on other girls’ appearances or pics, and similar.

He might even start spending all of his free time with a female colleague or a female friend. He’ll do all that to evoke feelings of jealousy in you. Clearly, sus celos no son saludables.

5. Control del comportamiento

This is one of the most obvious signs Aquarius man is jealous. The main reason why Aquarius men can’t deal with emotions is because they make them vulnerable. Cuando está celoso, un hombre Acuario siente que necesita establecer un control sobre sus emociones.

Since he’s really terrible when it comes to things related to feelings, he will try to control you as a way of controlling his emotions. It may sound a little confusing, but I’m sure you understand what I’m trying to tell you.

His controlling behavior towards you is the result of his helplessness when it comes to dealing with his emotions. By controlling you, he thinks he’s in control of the entire situation, including his feelings.

¿Cómo exhibe un hombre Acuario su comportamiento controlador?

By demanding to know all about your whereabouts, those close to you, and literally everything you do. He will also be less willing to ask for your opinion on things. Instead, he’ll demand that you do as he says because “he knows best.”

Controlar y relaciones posesivas son una verdadera lucha. La comunicación abierta y sincera es la clave de una relación feliz.

Véase también: Signos del zodiaco de más a menos celosos

6. His regular quirkiness doesn’t feel right

Normally, an Aquarius guy acts in spontaneous ways. He’s relaxed, in the mood to make some jokes and tease you. His quirkiness is exactly why you’re so attracted to him, right?

Y ahora, de repente, todo esto ha desaparecido. His regular quirkiness doesn’t feel right, and you have no idea how you should feel about it. It feels like he’s become a different man (a man you definitely didn’t fall in love with).

Now communicating with him feels awkward. There is no more comic relief in your conversation, and he doesn’t seem relaxed. Instead, his behavior is reserved, and his body language is tense.

Su rareza habitual se ha convertido en sufrimiento habitual. If you ask him to tell you what’s bothering him, he will say something like: “Why would something be bothering me? I’m perfectly okay.”

Worst of all is that we women start to think the problem is us. We start asking ourselves: “¿Me está poniendo a prueba un hombre Acuario?” So, we start looking for ways to “win him again” and restore his initial personality.

Si desea hacer que un hombre Acuario te eche de menos and chase you, just leave him alone until he comes to his senses and eventually tells you what’s bothering him. Don’t do anything while he’s in this state because you might make things even worse.

7. Se enfrenta a ti de forma extraña

I don’t know if you know this about Aquarius men, but when they are dealing with feelings of jealousy, they start confronting you. What’s interesting is that they don’t do it directly.

Por ejemplo, se enfrentará a ti por millones de cosas sin importancia sólo para conseguir esa sensación temporal de alivio. Necesita desesperadamente a alguien a quien culpar de su actual estado emocional.

Así que, sí, se enfrentará a ti a diario por cosas banales como no tirar la basura, olvidarse de fregar los platos y similares. Te hará sentir como si hubieras cometido un grave delito por no hacer algunas tareas.

Still, this doesn’t mean that an Aquarius man likes to see you suffering or that his jealousy is the result of your low compatibility. He’s just dealing with his emotions in his own, complicated way that neither you nor me can fully comprehend.

¿Los hombres de Acuario se vuelven posesivos?

Yup. Aquarius men get possessive mostly when they feel jealous. They don’t know how to deal with their emotions, so they feel out of control. They get possessive out of fear that they’ll lose the person they love.

Por eso, se vuelven sobreprotectores con sus seres queridos, exigiendo saberlo todo sobre las personas con las que salen y los lugares a los que van.

Some Aquarius men are deeply insecure by default, which means they don’t need jealousy to trigger their possessive behavior. Beware of such men because they can make your life a living hell.

Now, when it comes to an Aquarius man who becomes possessive only as a result of feeling jealous, you shouldn’t worry much about it. En cuanto pase su episodio de celos, también lo hará su posesividad.

Permítanme resumir todo esto:

¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario? Sí. ¿Los hombres de Acuario se vuelven posesivos? Sí. En algunos casos, su posesividad está ligada a los celos, mientras que en otros, son posesivos por naturaleza.

Final Thoughts On “Aquarius And Jealousy”

¿Son celosos los hombres Acuario? Sí, pueden ser muy celosos. Muestran sus celos a su manera, es decir, se vuelven distantes, controladores o posesivos.

El mayor reto en todo esto es conseguir que un hombre Acuario hable contigo. Hará cualquier cosa menos DECIR exactamente lo que le molesta.

Eso puede volver loco a cualquiera. Sin embargo, la mayoría empiezan a hablar al cabo de unos días, cuando ya no pueden guardárselo para sí. Después, todo vuelve a la normalidad como si no hubiera pasado nada.

¿Suena cansado? Sí. ¿Merece la pena? Sí, si tu relación con un hombre Acuario está llena de amor y respeto.