Ten cuidado en quién confías - No todo el mundo es tu amigo (Citas)

Trust is the foundation of every single relationship in your life. This is why it’s so crucial to always be careful who you trust. Not everybody has your best interest at heart.

Presta atención a quienes te han cubierto las espaldas desde el primer día. Los verdaderos amigos son los que han mantenido su palabra sin darte una sola razón para dudar de ellos.

Trust your gut when it comes to good people – it will rarely let you down.

La confianza lo es todo. Compartir en familia es importante para estrechar esos lazos, pero lo más triste es que a veces los miembros tóxicos de tu familia son la razón misma de tus problemas de confianza.

Sí, la gente tóxica está en todas partes. Tropezarás con las personas equivocadas en tu vida amorosa, en tus amistades y, a veces, incluso en tu círculo familiar.

Save yourself an enormous amount of pain and trust no one until they give you a solid reason to. I’ve collected a variety of inspirational quotes and fake friends sayings precisely on this topic.

Puedes compartir estas citas motivadoras en tus redes sociales para mantenerte alejado de los farsantes.

Tu prioridad número uno debería ser siempre rodearte de las personas adecuadas. Y estos refranes muestran exactamente por qué.

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Citas inspiradoras sobre la importancia de la confianza

1. “As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” – Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

2. “You must trust yourself more than you trust others. Pay attention to your inner voice – it will tell you if how and in what you are investing is right for you.” – Suze Orman

3. “Self-trust is the first secret of success.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

4. “Trust, but verify.” – Ronald Reagan

5. “A healthy relationship is built on unwavering trust.” – Beau Mirchoff

6. “Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time.” – Arthur Ashe

7. “Relationships survive on trust, and if that is broken at any point, it’s pretty much the end of the relationship. Besides, the inability to communicate leads to problems.” – Yuvraj Singh

8. “When the trust account is high, communication is easy, instant, and effective.” – Stephen R. Covey

9. “The glue that holds all relationships together – including the relationship between the leader and the led – is trust, and trust is based on integrity.” – Brian Tracy

10. “Trust is not simply a matter of truthfulness or even constancy. It is also a matter of amity and goodwill. We trust those who have our best interests at heart, and mistrust those who seem deaf to our concerns.” – Gary Hamel

11. “If people like you, they’ll listen to you, but if they trust you, they’ll do business with you.” – Zig Ziglar

12. “Trust is built when someone is vulnerable and not taken advantage of.” – Bob Vanourek

13. “Authenticity is the alignment of head, mouth, heart, and feet – thinking, saying, feeling, and doing the same thing – consistently. This builds trust, and followers love leaders they can trust.” – Lance Secretan

14. “Trust becomes solidified when words consistently back up by deeds.” – George David Miller

15. “A blessed thing it is for any man or woman to have a friend, one human soul whom we can trust utterly, who knows the best and worst of us, and who loves us in spite of all our faults.” – Charles Kingsley

16. “Trust in God alone, and lean not on the needs of human help. Be not surprised when friends fail you; it is a failing world. Never reckon upon immutability in man: inconstancy you may reckon upon without fear of disappointment.” – Charles Spurgeon

17. “Without communication, there is no relationship. Without respect, there is no love. Without trust, there is no reason to continue.” – Unknown

18. “There are indeed times when one should trust blindly, just as there are times when one should not. Wisdom consists in being able to tell one from the other.” – Daniel Quinn

19. “Logically, harmony must come from the heart… Harmony is very much based on trust. As soon as use of force creates fear. Fear and trust cannot go together.” – Dalai Lama

20. “Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.” – Albert Einstein

21. “When you completely trust another person, you will end up with one of two outcomes. A friend for life or a lesson for life. Both, regardless of the outcome, are valuable.” – Unknown

22. “Not everyone can be trusted. I think we all have to be very selective about the people we trust.” – Shelley Long

23. “Never trust anyone who wants what you’ve got. Friend or no, envy is an overwhelming emotion.” – Eubie Blake

24. “Don’t trust people whose feelings change with time. Trust people whose feelings remain the same, even when the time changes.” – Bob Marley

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Refranes de gente falsa y amigos falsos

1. “Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.” – Unknown

2. “To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.” – George MacDonald

3. “Breaking someone’s trust is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over, but it’s never going to be the same again.” – Unknown

4. “Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.” – Santosh Kalwar

5. “Never trust the advice of a man in difficulties.” – Aesop

6. “The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway

7. “Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters.” – Albert Einstein

8. “Trust has to be earned, and should come only after the passage of time.” – Arthur Ashe

9. “Sometimes you don’t know who you can and cannot trust. I still learn that over and over again.” – Demi Lovato

10. “Trust yourself, you know more than you think you do.” – Benjamin Spock

11. “In the end, you have to choose whether or not to trust someone.” – Sophie Kinsella

12. “Only trust someone who can see these three things in you: the sorrow behind your smile, the love behind your anger, and the reason behind your silence.” – Unknown

13. “Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care.” – Unknown

14. “If you have three people in your life that you can trust, you can consider yourself the luckiest person in the whole world.” – Selena Gomez

15. “I trust no one, not even myself.” – Joseph Stalin

16. “Trust is a fragile thing. Easy to break, easy to lose, and one of the hardest things to ever get back.” – Unknown

17. “A man trusts another man when he sees enough of himself in him.” – Gregory David Roberts

18. “It’s hard to trust when all you have from the past is evidence of why you shouldn’t.” – Unknown

19. “I don’t trust words, I trust actions.’’ – Unknown

20. “Keep your promises and be consistent. Be the kind of person others can trust.” – Roy T. Bennett

21. “Trust is hard to come by. That’s why my circle is small and tight. I’m kind of funny about making new friends.” – Eminem

22. “Be all in or get all out. There is no halfway.” – Unknown

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Citas motivadoras sobre la confianza y los problemas de confianza

1. “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” – William Shakespeare

2. “I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.” – Friedrich Nietzsche

3. “All the world is made of faith, and trust, and pixie dust.” – J. M. Barrie

4. “I don’t trust people who don’t love themselves and tell me, ‘I love you’… There is an African saying which is: Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.” – Maya Angelou

5. “The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.” – Ernest Hemingway

6. “Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.” – Maya Angelou

7. “The beginning of love is the will to let those we love to be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist them to fit our own image. If in loving them we do not love what they are, but only their potential likeness to ourselves, then we do not love them: we only love the reflection of ourselves we find in them.” – Thomas Merton

8. “I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to. But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings. You may not know where you’re going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.” – C. JoyBell C.

9. “‘Ginny!’ said Mr. Weasley, flabbergasted. ‘Haven’t I taught you anything? What have I always told you? Never trust anything that can think for itself if you can’t see where it keeps its brain?’” – J. K. Rowling

10. “Friendship – my definition – is built on two things. Respect and trust. Both elements have to be there. And it has to be mutual. You can have respect for someone, but if you don’t have trust, the friendship will crumble.” – Stieg Larsson

11. “I don’t trust anybody. Not anybody. And the more that I care about someone, the more sure I am they’re going to get tired of me and take off.” – Rainbow Rowell

12. “None of us knows what might happen even the next minute, yet still we go forward. Because we trust. Because we have Faith.” – Paulo Coelho

13. “You see, you closed your eyes. That was the difference. Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too – even when you’re in the dark. Even when you’re falling.” – Mitch Albom

14. “For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.” – Suzanne Collins

15. “We always see our worst selves. Our most vulnerable selves. We need someone else to get close enough to tell us we’re wrong. Someone we trust.” – David Levithan

16. “Trust no friend without faults, and love a woman, but no angel.” – Doris Lessing

17. “Relationships are mysterious. We doubt the positive qualities in others, seldom the negative. You will say to your partner: Do you really love me? Are you sure you love me? You will ask this a dozen times and drive the person nuts. But you never ask: Are you really mad at me? Are you sure you’re angry? When someone is angry, you don’t doubt it for a moment. Yet the reverse should be true. We should doubt the negative in life, and have faith in the positive.” – Christopher Pike

18. “We are all mistaken sometimes; sometimes we do wrong things, things that have bad consequences. But it does not mean we are evil, or that we cannot be trusted ever afterward.” – Alison Croggon

19. “‘The last words Albus Dumbledore spoke to the pair of us?’ ‘Harry is the best hope we have. Trust him.’” – J. K. Rowling

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Citas adicionales sobre la fragilidad de la confianza

1. “One should never trust a woman who tells one her real age. A woman who would tell one that would tell one anything.” – Oscar Wilde

2. “Never trust anyone, Daniel, especially the people you admire. Those are the ones who will make you suffer the worst blows.” – Carlos Ruiz Zafón

3. “You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.” – Abraham Lincoln

4. “‘You think I’m a fool?’ demanded Harry. ‘No, I think you’re like James,’ said Lupin, ‘who would have regarded it as the height of dishonor to mistrust his friends.’” – J. K. Rowling

5. “A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud. I am arrived at last in the presence of a man so real and equal, that I may drop even those undermost garments of dissimulation, courtesy, and second thought, which men never put off, and may deal with him with the simplicity and wholeness with which one chemical atom meets another.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

6. “In the end, you have to choose whether or not to trust someone.” – Sophie Kinsella

7. “To have faith is to trust yourself to the water. When you swim, you don’t grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown. Instead, you relax, and float.” – Alan Wilson Watts

8. “Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.” – Khalil Gibran

9. “Anything that’s human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary. The people we trust with that important talk can help us know that we are not alone.” – Fred Rogers

10. “I could never hurt him enough to make his betrayal stop hurting. And it hurts, in every part of my body.” – Veronica Roth

11. “Loving someone is giving them the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to.” – Julianne Moore

12. “Love meant jumping off a cliff and trusting that a certain person would be there to catch you at the bottom.” – Jodi Picoult

13. “You are going to break your promise. I understand. And I hold my hands over the ears of my heart so that I will not hate you.” – Catherynne M. Valente

14. “Do not lose hope – what you seek will be found. Trust ghosts. Trust those that you have helped to help you in their turn. Trust dreams. Trust your heart, and trust your story.” – Neil Gaiman, Instrucciones

15. “We’re paying the highest tribute you can pay a man. We trust him to do right. It’s that simple.” – Harper Lee

16. “I never understood why Clark Kent was so hell-bent on keeping Lois Lane in the dark.” – Audrey Niffenegger

17. “Trusting is hard. Knowing who to trust, even harder.” – Maria V. Snyder

18. “I would rather trust a woman’s instinct than a man’s reason.” – Stanley Baldwin

19. “If we can just let go and trust that things will work out the way they’re supposed to, without trying to control the outcome, then we can begin to enjoy the moment more fully. The joy of the freedom it brings becomes more pleasurable than the experience itself.” – Goldie Hawn

20. “After all, damn it, what does being in love mean if you can’t trust a person.” – Evelyn Waugh

21. “Forgiveness must be immediate, whether or not a person asks for it. Trust must be rebuilt over time. Trust requires a track record.” – Rick Warren

22. “Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.” – Santosh Kalwar

23. “Trust is the fruit of a relationship in which you know you are loved.” – William P. Young

24. “Trust is the glue of life. It’s the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It’s the foundational principle that holds all relationships.” – Stephen R. Covey

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Going through these insightful and inspiring sayings, it’s become crystal clear why it’s so crucial to be careful who you trust. People have a tendency to surprise you.

Sus amigos de hoy pueden ser sus enemigos de mañana. Tus confidentes más fieles podrían cambiar de opinión y traicionarte en un abrir y cerrar de ojos.

Tu confianza debe reservarse sólo a quienes han superado la prueba del tiempo. Mantente alerta y comparte tus secretos solo con quienes hayan demostrado una y otra vez por qué se lo merecen.

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