Recuerde esto si ha sido traicionado por quien juró que nunca lo haría

¿Has estado alguna vez traicionado por alguien a quien amabas con todo tu corazón? ¿Te ha herido alguna vez una persona que te prometió y juró no traicionarte nunca?

Lo sé, apesta ser traicionado by the only person you were completely sure would never hurt you. I think it’s the worst feeling ever.

It bruises your soul, wounds your heart… In a way, it leaves some marks that change you completely and forever.

Te deja con el temor de que pueda volver a ocurrir lo mismo, de que otras personas te hagan el mismo daño.

Sacude tu fe en las personas y te hace pensar en que nunca más debes permitir que nadie se acerque demasiado a ti.

However, if a person you love the most betrays you, you must be stronger than that and rise above it. The only way you’ll succeed is if you remember these following things.

It’s never your fault

That person will probably try to manipulate you into thinking how it was all your mistake, but you must remember that it’s not. It can’t be your mistake.

Confiaste en alguien a quien amabas con todo tu corazón y que te hizo creer que nunca haría nada que pudiera herirte.

That person broke their own words and that’s their mistake for which they’ll repent of later, trust me.

Accept that some people aren’t who they seem to be…

There are so many great, Oscar-worthy actors amongst us. Many people aren’t what they seem and we have to be careful all the time.

No matter how much you trust someone, don’t forget that there is always a risk of being hurt by that person. Sometimes, you can even spend years with a person and find out that they aren’t what they seem like at all.

… Fortunately, those kinds of people aren’t meant to stay in your life

Sin embargo, también es una señal de Dios de que el tipo de personas que te hieren de esa manera nunca debieron permanecer en tu vida para siempre.

Esa persona estaba allí como un transeúnte cualquiera que debía entrar en tu vida, darte una lección y abandonarla para siempre.

Stop seeking revenge, that won’t help you

Ahora mismo, puedes estar conspirando un acto de venganza. Piensas en cómo eso te hará sentir mejor y avanzar más rápido.

I hate to break it down for you, but seeking vengeance won’t help you. It’ll only deepen your pain and you’ll probably regret doing it later.

You aren’t like that person who hurt you. You have a pure heart unlike them and that is preventing you from hurting them.

Conviértelo en una valiosa lección y aprende algo de ello

Look at it all as a huge lesson. Try to see that person as God’s way of making you learn that you mustn’t trust people easily.

Es Su manera de mostrarte que, aunque tú nunca serías capaz de hacer daño a nadie intencionadamente, hay otras personas que sí lo harían.

It’s just His way of saying that person isn’t good for you and making you realize that you need to remove that person from your life once and for all.

Don’t lose faith in good people

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t trust anyone else ever again. That would be a huge mistake because there are still so many good and honorable people.

There are still people who deserve to be trusted completely, people with good and kind hearts who could never hurt another human being. People like you…

Believe in yourself; you’re strong, you’ll heal

You might be thinking right now how you’ll never be able to overcome this. I know it’s so difficult to understand.

Sé lo difícil que es hacer entender a tu corazón que la persona que lo rompió era en realidad aquella por la que latía.

But, with time and with faith in yourself, you’ll be able to move on. You’ll never be able to fully heal, but that’s okay because it’ll serve you as a great reminder for the future.

Desahógate con tu mejor amigo

You shouldn’t go through it alone. Find a shoulder to cry on because there will be a lot of tears for sure. And, there should be because I know how much it hurts.

Hable con su mejor amigo or a person you trust the most. That will be the best healing therapy. There are still so many people who deserve to be in your life, and they’ll show you that you aren’t alone in all of this.

Nunca te dejarán pasar por esto sola.

Perdonar para olvidar

This may not seem as simple as it sounds, but in fact, it is. You’ll never be able to forget and leave it all behind until you perdone esa persona.

Remember, you aren’t doing it because of them, you’re doing it to get the closure you long for. You’re doing it to close that chapter and to finally move on with a new, so much better chapter of your life.