Eres el único creador de tu propia felicidad (depende de ti)

Sé que casi todo el mundo lo sabe ya, pero voy a escribir sobre ello de todos modos: nunca es suficiente insistir en lo importante que es ser feliz.

Todos tenemos dificultades. Todos nos caemos, pero volvemos a levantarnos. ¿Por qué? Porque queremos y decidimos hacerlo.

No matter if someone broke your heart or you’ve lost someone, your life has to go on—it’s a little bit harsh to say that, but it’s true.

Now, it’s up to you whether you are going to dwell in the past or you are going to embrace the future and rearrange yourself—your perspective and your attitude—to be able to enjoy everything that your life has got to offer.

I always say that some higher force, or God, or whatever you want to call it, won’t ever serve you more than you can handle. You’ve been through hell.

You thought your life is going to end right at that moment. But still, here you are—still alive, still struggling to move forward.

¿Lo veis? Nada puede vencerte. Sigues adelante.

The only thing is that it’s up to you whether you will bury your past and grab for the future or keep doing what you’ve been doing—nothing.

I’m not saying that it’s easy. Heck, if it was easy, I wouldn’t have written this. I wish I could give you some kind of magic formula for you to follow and POOF!—you’re happy.

But it doesn’t work that way. I can only speak from my own experience and hope some of my words will help you, too.

Deja de culpar al pasado y deja de pensar en el pasado. No puedes cambiarlo y lo sabes.

Stop thinking about what you would have done differently because you had your chance then and you didn’t take it. You did only what you thought was right.

Don’t worry—you will get another chance to redeem yourself for the mistakes you did in the past. That is actually what the past is all about—to make us learn from our past events.

Y entonces llega el futuro para darnos la oportunidad de hacer las cosas bien de nuevo. Siempre se puede elegir, pero hay que tener paciencia.

 

 

Tienes que darte cuenta de que tienes la capacidad de cambiar tu vida. Tú eres el único responsable de tu vida, de tus actos y, lo que es más importante, de tu felicidad.

Forget about that brain-numbing ignorance. I know that every time you decide to do something with your life—to take charge—you regret it because it’s hard and you automatically wish to go back to the life you knew before.

You think to yourself that it’s not that bad—you got used to living that way and you will make peace with it.

But no!—That’s the wrong answer. Don’t be a wuss and fight for your happiness.

I can’t stress enough that it’s up to you and it was up to you from the beginning. There is no need to put blame on others for the things that are happening to you because you are the one who has the ball in your court—you are calling all the shots.

Si algo no va bien, deja de culpar a los demás porque tú eres el único culpable.

Hasta que no te des cuenta de que tu felicidad depende de ti mantenerla, estarás atrapado en la despiadada rutina de tu vida infeliz.