10 cose che un uomo insicuro fa alla donna che ama

Inizia come una favola meravigliosa! Ti fa credere di nuovo nell'amore e che non tutti gli uomini sono cattivi. Ti compra dei regali e ti dedica tutte le sue attenzioni.

Until the moment you start to notice that the amount of attention he’s giving you isn’t really healthy.

At one point, all of your time and energy is being devoted to telling him how much you love him and reassuring him that you won’t leave him. Dear, your man might be insecure AF.

Ci sono uomini insicuri intorno a noi e per sapere se il vostro è uno di questi, abbiamo elencato 10 cose che fanno tutti gli uomini insicuri:

He doesn’t have a life outside your relationship

He’s the kind of guy who’s simply sitting at home waiting for you to come back.

Well, this might be an exaggeration, but the biggest sign of insecurity is if he’s devoting all of his time and energy into your relationship out of the fear of losing you.

It’s cute and all, but to not have any ambitions and dreams besides your partner and to not hang out with anyone but them is a bit strange, don’t you think?

Diventa geloso molto velocemente

Avete appena guardato in direzione di un altro uomo (potrebbe essere anche un vostro amico) e si ingelosisce subito.

You know how women get jealous when they’re insecure? Well, it’s the same deal with men.

All'inizio potrebbe farvi sentire desiderate e speciali, ma potrebbe arrivare al punto di fare una scenata perché siete rimaste un'ora più tardi al lavoro per finire un progetto.

Si ingelosisce persino per il tempo che trascorrete con i vostri amici invece che con lui.

 Vi accusa di avervi tradito

Potrebbe anche tirare in ballo le sue ex e il fatto che lo abbiano tradito, dicendovi che non sarà mai felice.

Passa dall'accusarti di avere una relazione con un collega a dire che stai semplicemente cercando qualcuno migliore di lui.

He’s paranoid even of the way you smiled at the waiter.

He can’t take criticism

If you try to tell him that he’s being overly attached and that his behavior isn’t OK, he might turn it all against you.

If you tell him that you need some time on your own, that he’s being too possessive and that he needs to calm down, he might do just the opposite.

Because insecure people can’t take even the nicest, most constructive criticism. They simply can’t handle it when people point out their flaws.

La sua felicità dipende da voi

It’s OK to be sensitive to the feelings of your partner but his feelings completely depend on you!

If you’re happy, loving and caring toward him and if you’re devoting all of your attention to him, he will be happy, too.

If you’re trying to finish something for work and you have a lot on your mind, so you have to be alone to finish all of that, he might simply get depressed and/or angry at you.

Ti soffoca con l'attenzione

It was cute at the beginning of the relationship but now it’s just getting weird.

He spends so much money on gifts that you’re sometimes worried if he just spent his entire salary on you.

He’s trying to make you feel bad about the thought of leaving him and he’s trying to buy your attention.

Vi dice subito che vi ama

Out of the fear of losing you, he admits his ‘undying’ love for you. It takes time to get to know someone enough to actually feel love for them.

It’s not a feeling you develop after just two dates. It needs time to fall for someone.

You’re his world

You’re the center of his universe. Tutta la sua vita orbita intorno a te.

At first, it’s very flattering because you feel very special, but what if you decide to leave him? His world falls apart.

He falls apart because you’re his one and only world.

Ha bisogno di continue conferme

He wants you to tell him how much you love him and that’s he’s worthy of love. He wants you to talk about what your future will look like, to take away his fear of being left.

A volte le sue esigenze vanno anche oltre.

You might tell him how good he looks in his new shirt but he simply won’t believe you. You need to constantly remind him that he’s attractive to you.

Vuole controllare il tuo telefono

He will ask for your phone when he sees that you’re texting someone. He might even look over your shoulder if you’ve smiled while answering a text.

He will constantly think about how you’ve found someone better and that you’re going to leave him.

Even if you show him everything, he will still think that you’re hiding something.