10 motivi per cui le donne single e spensierate sono le più felici (secondo la scienza)

Our society has taught us that getting married and starting a family is a must if we want to be genuinely happy. There’s this whole sequence of things that you should achieve if you want to reach your happiness. Finish your school – find a job – sposarsi – have children.

Ma è davvero così?

Do we really have to blindly follow this cliché agenda in our pursuit of happiness? I think not, and the scientists have confirmed it, too. Apparently, single and carefree women are the happiest ones! Yup, believe it or not, single women have been ruling for some time now, but we were just too blind to see or admit it.

You probably have a friend who is “single and killing it” and likely thought that it is a coincidence. Well, it is not. There are some perfectly valid reasons behind it. To be exact, there are 10 reasons why single and carefree women are the happiest!

1. Women don’t see the same benefits as men do when “settling down”

Le donne e gli uomini sono totalmente diversi in termini di maturazione emotiva e fisica. Most men mature and become a whole person once they meet “the one” and decide to settle down and work on their relationship or marriage.

Contrary to them, women don’t see the same benefits once they settle down. They claim that the healthiest and the happiest population are those women who never married or had children, which means that for women there’s no really need to rush into a relationship because they will not be happier once they do.

2. Hanno una forte vena di indipendenza

Molte donne desiderano avere una relazione perché sentono che manca loro qualcosa. Pensano che stabilire una relazione sana e amorevole le aiuterà a raggiungere la felicità finale. Tuttavia, si tratta solo di un'idea sbagliata.

Single women know they don’t need a partner to feel happy and fulfilled. Single and carefree women are their own bosses and are highly independent. They choose where they want to go, when they want to go, and how.

They choose their hobbies and don’t worry that they will not have enough time for it. They are the creators of their own happiness.

3. Hanno più tempo per concentrarsi su se stessi

Anche se può sembrare un po' egocentrico, le donne single hanno più tempo per concentrarsi su se stesse rispetto a chi è sposato o ha una relazione. Hanno più tempo per lavorare su se stesse e scoprire le proprie passioni, il che è fondamentale per raggiungere la vera felicità.

4. Possono perseguire più facilmente le loro ambizioni

Yup. Single and carefree women don’t have to worry about not having enough time to pursue their goals, ambitions, and wishes. They don’t have to worry about their partner being emotionally unsupportive (like the majority of them out there are), which is the biggest reason why some women give up on pursuing their ambitions and lose hope.

Single women don’t have these problems. They set their goals and they instantly start working on them, not worrying about what their partner or others will say. And when a woman is determined, she can achieve just about anything.

5. Dormono molto di più

Yup. Single women get more sleep, which equals being happier. They don’t need to try win middle-of-the-night duvet wars or worry about snoring or fighting to have some space in bed. And they don’t need to jump out of bed every time they hear their child crying and whining.

Single women’s sleep routines are way more beneficial for their health, and it also increases their productiveness during their daily tasks.

6. Trascorrono molto tempo con i loro amici.

When we’re in a relationship, the time we spend with our friends significantly decreases. We spend lots of time with our partners and because of that, we rarely find time for other people in our lives as well.

But, unlike those women who are in a relationship, single women don’t have these problems. They get to spend lots of time with their friends, which is crucial for every person’s benessere emotivo. Le donne single che trascorrono del tempo con le loro amiche sono più felici della maggior parte di quelle che hanno una relazione (soprattutto se non funziona davvero).

7. They don’t have to answer to anyone

Being in a relationship usually means compromising, asking for validation on certain things, and constantly worrying about your partner’s wishes and emotions. But, single women don’t do any of that. They don’t have to answer to anyone.

And the more independent you are, the happier you will be (I know it sounds weird, but it’s true). Single women don’t have to worry about coming home late or limiting themselves only to appease their partner. They live by their own rules and they are simply killing it.

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8. Niente risse di poco conto

Single women don’t have to worry about whether their partner has washed the dishes or taken the trash out. Petty fights don’t exist in their lives, which makes it much more simple and satisfying. When they see that something needs to be done, they do it themselves. They don’t waste their time losing their nerves and repeating to their partner that something needs to be done.

9. Nessun problema di gelosia da affrontare

La gelosia è una parte inevitabile di ogni relazione e può davvero influenzare la nostra ricerca della felicità. La vostra relazione può sembrare perfetta, ma anche il più piccolo atto di gelosia può alterare l'equilibrio e causare stress inutile.

Single women don’t have to deal with this. They don’t have problemi di gelosia che li prosciuga e li costringe a pensare continuamente alle loro azioni. Vivono con spensieratezza, che è l'ingrediente principale della felicità.

10. They’re not worrying about whether this guy is “the one”

Single women don’t give a damn about whether this guy is “the one” or just another asshole in a sea of toxic men. They don’t waste their time contemplating about their perfect man who will sweep them off their feet.

They live in the moment. They see happiness completely differently from others and they certainly don’t worry about their love life. They have other more important things to focus on and relationships are just not on their priority list.