15 Adorabili qualità di un buon marito che ama sua moglie
Cosa rende un buon marito?
Quando pensiamo di passare il resto della nostra vita con una persona, vogliamo che questa persona abbia buone qualità e sia il meglio per noi, e vogliamo che noi siamo il meglio per quella persona.
We’d like him to be caring, gentle, and loving. And we want to amarlo and take care of him. After all, isn’t that what a healthy relationship is all about?
Those are all extremely important qualities in a life partner. It’s a reassuring feeling knowing that your man is husband material.
And honestly, we want someone who’ll be able to put a smile on our face when tears are threatening to drown us. Someone who’ll cuddle with us forever and chase us even when we’re already his.
That’s not only a good husband, but that’s a great husband. We want a man who’ll make us the best version of ourselves, not just because he wants to do it, but because it feels right to him.
È giusto andare sempre avanti e progredire. È giusto continuare a cambiare e a crescere insieme.
We want someone who’ll be the only person who truly gets our sense of humor and who’ll be a great role model for potential kids.
It’s important that he has self-control, but when he sees us, he just can’t contain his excitement!
A wife wants a husband who’ll be her rock and her guiding star and one who makes his wife feel like she’s the only person in the room.
Un marito che sia un buon ascoltatore, un buon padre e che le faccia desiderare di essere una persona migliore.
It feels right having him by our side at all times and when he’s not there, it feels like a part of us is missing.
Quel tipo di persona è una vera anima gemella. Quel tipo di persona è una persona per cui vale la pena lottare e vivere per. Questo tipo di persona è il Joker per la vostra Harley Quinn e John Legend per la vostra Chrissy Teigen.
A man who understands the importance of core values – who wants to maintain and nurture a successful relationship and a long, happy life with each other.
E un buon marito sa che, per far funzionare il matrimonio, entrambi i partner devono sapere esattamente cosa vogliono l'uno dall'altro e lavorare sulla propria crescita spirituale, oltre a preservare il sacro vincolo della loro unione coniugale.
So how to know if you’ve found that person? Well, here’s a list of 15 adorable qualities of a good husband and, honestly, if your husband possesses any of these beautiful traits, you are one lucky lady and should never let him slip away.
Si impegna nella vostra relazione
It’s a known fact that it takes two for a relationship to truly work.
Obviously, if you wanted to do all the work, you would’ve married yourself; it’s much easier than taking care of someone else who isn’t worth it.
But if your man respects the effort you put into the relationship and he does the same, that’s a keeper right there.
And I don’t mean doing the dishes or taking out the garbage, although those are also incredibly helpful.
Intendo dire che riconosce quando avete un problema e lo risolve con te.
Voglio dire che sa quando condividere il silenzio con te e quando baciare le tue lacrime.
That’s a man who took the time to get to know you – the way you breathe, think, and love – in order to be the best man for you.
Vi ama per i vostri difetti, non nonostante essi.
How many times have I heard someone say, “I love him even though he’s a little bit chubby.”
No. I love him because he is comfortable being the way he is. I love him because he’s been through shit and still trying to find the best way to deal with it.
Lo amo perché non è perfetto, ma è perfetto per me, proprio così com'è.
Il suo rumore si sposa con il mio silenzio, la sua ferocia si sposa con la mia calma e il suo spirito avventuroso alza il mio culo pigro dal divano.
That’s love. Knowing that neither of you is perfect yet loving each other like you are.
Because you two are imperfectly perfect together and that’s all that love is about. When your love is strong, nothing can break it.
E quando trovi una persona che ti ama per tutte le tue imperfezioni e non nonostante them, that’s when you know you’ve found a good man.
A man who knows what truly matters in life and what’s not worth the trouble.
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He’s your best friend
If he’s the one you share everything with, the one you text when you see a cute puppy on the street or when you have random thoughts, he’s il tuo migliore amico.
And that’s probably why your relationship is stable and healthy. When you are best friends, lovers, and partners, there’s nothing you can’t work out.
That’s the jackpot of relationships many strive for but only a few find and preserve.
And when something happens to you, whether it’s good or bad, he is the first one you tell all about it.
E quando hai un legame e un rapporto del genere, sai che il tuo cuore è al sicuro nelle sue mani.
Siete compatibili a livello spirituale, emotivo e sessuale. E onestamente, cosa si può chiedere di più a un compagno di vita?
He knows how to make you laugh even when you’re falling apart
Condividere il proprio dolore e i momenti difficili con qualcuno è probabilmente il modo più profondo e speciale per legare con lui.
Quando mettete a nudo la vostra anima e la parte più profonda del vostro essere con qualcuno, gli mostrate tutto. Ci si mette a nudo e non si trattiene nulla.
But being able to share laughter with him, even when you’re standing naked in front of him, is a completely different level of closeness.
You feel safe enough to laugh with him when you’re hurting, because just spending time with him makes you smile. And being naked and vulnerable doesn’t seem so scary anymore.
Nessuno prima di lui ha mai saputo disarmarti come lui. Nessuno ti ha mai fatto sentire così al sicuro nella tua vulnerabilità. Con lui, nulla è spaventoso e scoraggiante. Non più.
Tutto è giusto e lui ti fa ridere quando il tuo mondo sta crollando.
It took you ages to find someone like this and you’ll be damned if you’ll ever let him slip away.
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He considers you when he’s making decisions
Non importa quanto piccola o grande sia la decisione, egli si assicura sempre che siate coinvolti nel processo decisionale.
Because even the smallest decision can have huge consequences and when you’re sharing your life with someone or you’re planning to, you want to make sure that that person knows it all.
That your partner is okay with the decisions you’ve chosen to make and is ready to follow you wherever the road leads, or create a completely new road for you two.
And it’s also a sign of the incredible respect he has for you and your knowledge and abilities.
Sa che voi due siete uguali e rispetta your opinions. You’d be surprised how rare this one is, unfortunately.
In this day and age, when men still feel like they’re entitled to more than a woman in their position is, it’s so comforting and reassuring to find a good man who appreciates all his wife does.
A man who’d never let her efforts go unnoticed and her opinion unheard.
Respect is his number one quality in a person, and that’s exactly what he gives you every single day of your marriage.
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Voi due avete una comunicazione incredibile
Non importa quanto siate stanchi alla fine della giornata, avete ancora la forza di ascoltarlo parlare della sua giornata e di raccontargli la vostra.
No matter how busy you are, you make sure that he knows you’re okay and he does the same for you.
And no matter how difficult the times get, no matter how huge the problems you’re facing are, you find a way to talk it through.
You find a way to discuss it even when every word you say hurts like thousands of knives. That’s how you know he’s genuinely in love with you.
E quando la relazione è costruita su una buona comunicazione, tutto il resto viene di conseguenza.
Ti fidi di lui
This is being able to trust someone – and not just in a way that you trust that he won’t cheat on you.
When you can trust him with your deepest fears, emotions, and dreams – when you trust him in a way where you can be completely open and honest with him – that’s the kind of trust we all aspire to have.
Questa fiducia ha bisogno di tempo per essere costruita e curata. È questa la fiducia che trasforma l'amore in un amore straordinario.
Il tipo di fiducia in cui ti dà zero ragioni per dubitare di lui e un milione di ragioni per avere fede in lui.
Questo è il tipo di relazione che resiste alla prova del tempo. Il tipo di matrimonio che resiste a tutte le tempeste.
Without trust, you have nothing. So knowing he’s got your back and vice versa is what marriage is really all about.
You feel like yourself when you’re with him
When you’re with him, you don’t have to pretend to be anything other than what you already are.
You can wear your sweats all day long and have your hair in a messy bun, and he’ll still make you feel like you just walked off the runway.
You can be moody and nervous and he’ll still find a way to make you feel better.
Quando vi sentite voi stessi con qualcuno, significa che quella persona vi accetta per come siete e vi ama per quello che siete.
Non per quello che potete diventare o per quello che eravate, ma per quello che siete in quel dato momento.
It’s easy loving someone when they meet all of your expectations and needs at all times.
But what happens when your partner’s having a bad day? What happens when they’re difficult to love?
That’s when you distinguish a good husband from a bad one. A man who will love you through all of your moods, ups, and downs and never make you question his devotion. Now THAT’s the man every woman deserves to find.
Si fa in quattro per aiutarvi
Ammettere di avere bisogno di qualcuno o del suo aiuto a volte è difficile, soprattutto quando ci hanno insegnato a essere indipendenti e a preferire combattere le nostre battaglie e a prenderci cura di noi stessi.
But with him, it’s so easy to admit that you need help. And you know that he’ll drop whatever he’s doing and rush to you the moment you call him.
Non perché si senta obbligato a farlo, ma perché lo vuole!
Greatness in people can be found in the way they help you in times of need, and he does it even when it’s inconvenient for him.
Because he doesn’t care about the things you can do for him or the things you can give him, si preoccupa di te e di farvi sentire bene e amati.
E quando una donna si sente amata, rispettata e curata in modo così disinteressato, diventa la versione migliore di se stessa.
In questo modo, entrambi i partner sono felici, in sintonia e si rendono reciprocamente migliori.
Esce ancora con te
Even when it feels like you’ve been together for ages, he still finds ways to surprise you and take you out on a magical date night.
Love is not something you can stop working on once you find it, and luckily he’s aware of it!
Come probabilmente già sapete, ci vogliono tempo, lavoro e dedizione. E se il vostro uomo fa tutto il possibile per mantenere il vostro amore sano e fiorente, è un uomo da tenere d'occhio.
Let’s be real. Sometimes all we need is someone to tell us what’s so special about us that he loves.
And your man sure knows how to keep winning you over, even though you’d never be anyone else’s!
Il trucco per avere una relazione sana è non lasciare mai che la scintilla scompaia.
Cercate di organizzare una giornata speciale solo per il vostro partner. Portatelo via per un fine settimana e dedicategli tutta la vostra attenzione.
It’s truly miraculous how much those little things end up meaning to a person.
Un po' di impegno va molto lontano e il vostro uomo conosce sempre la strada del vostro cuore.
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Condividete le stesse convinzioni e gli stessi valori
Se condividete gli stessi valori e le stesse regole di vita, avete maggiori possibilità di far funzionare le cose.
Differences are okay, sometimes they’re the things that spice up your relationship but when it comes to connecting on a spiritual, emotional and value level, there shouldn’t be many inconsistencies.
Quando siete sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda, vi sentite più sicuri del vostro legame, della vostra relazione e dell'amore in generale.
When you agree on those crucially important core values, it becomes easy to navigate life together because you know you’re working toward the same goal.
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He’s responsible and ambitious
There’s probably no worse trait that a man can have than irresponsibility.
When a man is irresponsible, he has no respect toward you, your relationship, or the efforts you’re giving that are holding you two together.
When there’s no respect, there’s no fedeltà or honesty. But if a man is ready to match your efforts, to work it out with you – if he’s ready to make sure that you have everything you need – that’s a man you want to have around.
And if that man is not interested in staying in one place for the rest of his life but instead working his way to the top and pushing you with him, that’s someone who’ll always be ready to go out of his way to make your life good.
Non solo per lui e per lei, ma anche per gli eventuali figli che potreste avere.
Loving an ambitious man can sometimes seem hard, but it’s definitely worth it. A man with ambition is a man with a plan.
And who better to plan your life around than a man who’s got it together and going to provide everything you and your potential children may need?
That’s a hubby worth fighting for. Whatever happens, know you’ve got a good man by your side.
Con la sua ambizione e la vostra determinazione, niente potrà spezzare il vostro legame e nessuno potrà ostacolare il vostro amore.
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He’s honest with you
You know everything about him and he isn’t afraid to tell you all of his fears and failures.
When someone respects you and the love you feel for them, they’ll make sure that you never have to doubt their love or loyalty.
They’ll be sure you know you’re the only one for them, which is why he’s totally honest with you.
When you find that one person you click with, there’s no need to lie or hide anything.
Semplicemente, sapete che con loro potete essere onesti, genuini, e il vostro io crudo e inedito.
Anything less simply isn’t worth it. Luckily, your hubby leads by example and honesty is his top quality.
Vi vede come due persone alla pari
You’d be surprised how many men find it hard to treat women as equals.
Molti uomini ritengono di doversi occupare della famiglia e della propria donna e si considerano quindi i padroni più forti e abili.
But if your man has no problem with you taking the initiative and is always there to support you when you do it, you’ve got yourself true husband goals.
Soprattutto se vi chiama per chiedervi un consiglio, perché apprezza voi e la vostra opinione.
It’s easy saying that he respects you and your opinions, but it’s a whole different ball game actually proving it with his actions.
And he does. He genuinely wants your input in everything you do as a couple and he wouldn’t dream of undermining or undercutting you. He appreciates you far too much to stoop so low.
You can’t imagine life without each other in it
When you think about your future and you being happy, he’s by your side.
When you imagine being without him, your body literally hurts and you can’t breathe.
L'idea di svegliarsi da soli e di vivere senza le sue risate o i suoi baci vi terrorizza.
He’s become a part of you and you don’t want to give that up, now or ever.
And the best part? He feels the same way about you. That’s what true love is really about. That’s the kind of love definitely worth living for.
Pensieri finali
Having a good husband isn’t about finding a man to take care of you. It’s about finding a person who’ll respect you enough to let you take care of yourself, while making sure you know he’s got your back every step of the way.
Un buon matrimonio è fatto di due partner i cui mondi si scontrano nel miglior modo possibile.
One where you complement each other’s strengths and weaknesses, and pick up the pieces when one partner is down.
If your husband has most of the qualities above, he’s a keeper you should never stop fighting for.
The going will get tough, fights will crop up, but with this man, it’s worth every sleepless night and every bad day.
Perché un uomo di questo calibro ti mette al primo posto anche quando tutto il mondo è contro di te.
Be the wife your husband deserves to have and he’ll be the best partner you ever dared to dream about.
It’s all about reciprocity and mutual effort. And with this guy, you’ll never lack in that department.
