5 motivi per lasciare andare un ragazzo che non è sicuro di voi
Anche se è il ragazzo più sexy che abbiate mai visto, non lasciate mai che lui o chiunque altro vi dia per scontate.
La vita è davvero breve e trascorrerla con qualcuno che deve pensarci due volte a stare con te è semplicemente folle.
Maybe you don’t think of it that way, maybe you think he’ll change in time, that he just needs time to set his priorities and get his life in order but what you don’t take into account is that time flies by much faster than you think and with just the snap of your fingers, you’ll find yourself crying over a life wasted on a man who never gave all of him.
Dite addio ai sentimenti contrastanti nella vostra relazione semplicemente perché voi, mia cara, meritate molto di più.
I know that getting rid of a person who meant something to you is not an easy thing to do but when you look at everything you might miss out on because you’re wasting time with a man who doesn’t deserve you, it’s better to end it now.
Ecco i motivi per cui dovete lasciarlo andare perché è un po' insicuro nei vostri confronti:
He wants to break up but doesn’t have the courage
Devi fare il lavoro sporco per lui.
You have no other choice if you want to get out of that relationship while you’re still pretty normal and pretty sane.
His feelings for you have probably changed but he doesn’t have the courage to admit it, so he strings you along.
Or the other possible reason why he hasn’t broken up with you is that he needs you.
Tutti noi abbiamo dei momenti in cui ci sentiamo vulnerabili, bisognosi e soli.
In quei momenti, cerchiamo la compagnia o la cosa più vicina all'amore per confortarci.
That’s what he does. He chooses to go to you because he doesn’t want to be alone.
In those moments, you’re more than enough for what he needs. He goes back to you, you take him in and you connect.
But what happens when he’s in a period of feeling strong and secure? In those moments, he becomes unsure about you once again.
Si chiede se siete la persona giusta per lui.
This is why you should walk away from that relationship. If you stay, you’ll continue living through periods of happiness followed by periods of pain.
Volete davvero che la vostra felicità dipenda dallo stato emotivo in cui si trova lui?
Cosa succede quando trova il coraggio?
It’s simple.
You get your heart broken and he walks away from your relationship without a single worry on his mind because he’s been feeling like doing this for a long time and now he has finally done it.
If only you were quicker… it wouldn’t cost you the tears and the broken heart. Think about it.
Why would you wait to get dumped in the vain hope of him coming around? You’re risking your life from that point on.
The fact of who dumped who has everything to do with this case. Don’t be stupid by taking the bullet which you weren’t supposed to take.
Ci sono altri uomini là fuori
Why waste your life on someone who sometimes loves you and sometimes doesn’t?
By staying with a man who is unsure about you, you’re unconsciously depriving yourself of meeting a man who’ll be all in when it comes to you.
He won’t have moments of doubt, he’ll never question your love for him or his love for you.
Even when he’s with you, you’re not getting all of his attention
Un uomo che non è sicuro di voi non è impegnato in una relazione fino in fondo.
Non è mai pienamente presente, né investe alcuna capacità nel costruire ciò che avete per essere migliori e più forti.
There are things that people do for each other because of love, things that they don’t feel like doing but they do anyway just to make that person happy.
The man you’re dating won’t sacrifice his time, nor will he put more effort into doing something he doesn’t feel like doing, even if it means you’re going to enjoy his gesture.
He doesn’t care enough for you to go the extra mile.
A man who isn’t sure about you will always keep you at arm’s length. He will hold back his feelings and he will never fully open up to you.
La cosa peggiore è che si pensa che tutto vada bene.
Pensate che una relazione debba essere così.
It’s like you’re used to getting so little because no one showed you how much you’re supposed to get.
When you think about this situation from an objective point of view, you’ll realize that his behavior is not fair.
He’s taking advantage of you, il vostro tempo e il vostro amore.
Le relazioni sono già abbastanza difficili anche con la persona giusta
Anche se si trova la persona giusta, anche questa relazione ha bisogno di lavoro.
It’s not so easy to include someone in your life even if they are the person you’ve been waiting for.
Ci vogliono molti compromessi e sforzi per far funzionare le cose.
The harder you try, the happier you’ll be.
Relationships are pointless if you’re not trying to be everything your person needs. Being just enough won’t cut it.
Trying hard and becoming just enough will drain you and you’ll get to the point where you won’t be able to keep up anymore.
Senti, ci sarà sempre un momento in cui il tuo uomo si troverà in un posto strano della sua vita.
He will always be unsure about something because he isn’t in the right place or he is dealing with something that is too much to handle.
But you know what? Those are his problems and if he’s the one who has to deal with them, it’s only fair for him to let you go.
You are not put on this earth to entertain someone. You won’t give your love and your energy to someone who doesn’t appreciate either and uses you instead.
The time has come for you to ask yourself: “And what about me?”
