6 segni di disinnamoramento

Giving in to a relationship is hard. But giving up on one is even harder. It’s unimaginable to think that the person that was once our whole world is now as annoying to us as a pebble in a shoe.

Everything our partner does is getting on our nerves. We are feeling trapped and there are times when we just want to run away. Anywhere and nowhere, it doesn’t really matter. Just run away.

Those are signs that we are falling out of love and sometimes we mistake them with being overstressed or having some troubles in our work or in our lives, but by doing so, we only prolong the suffering—both ours and the person we are in a relationship with.

While it’s completely up to you to decide what to do with these signs, whether you are going to give your relationship another chance, take a break or completely break it off, it’s up to us to give you the list of the six most common and scientifically proven signs that you are falling out of love.

1. Le sue imperfezioni iniziano a risaltare

Si dice che si sa che il proprio amore è reale quando si ama la persona per i suoi difetti, non nonostante essi. Si amano tutte le loro stranezze e queste stranezze potrebbero anche essere il motivo per cui ci si è innamorati così tanto di loro. follemente e profondamente innamorati con loro in primo luogo.

Ma il momento in cui queste stranezze iniziano a infastidirvi è il momento in cui dovete fermarvi un attimo e analizzare la vostra relazione e i vostri sentimenti.

La cosa più difficile da fare è guardarsi dentro e vedere se è rimasto dell'amore, ma lo dovete al vostro partner e lo dovete a voi stessi. Guidare qualcuno è la cosa peggiore che possiate fare a voi stessi e a quella persona.

Are the quirks of your partner the reason why you can’t be around them anymore? Or is there something deeper than that?

2. Non siete più interessati all'intimità

Sometimes we feel like we can’t get our hands off of our partners and sometimes we don’t feel like even looking at them. Ups and downs in our sex lives are completely normal because life is tough, life is stressful and it all affects our libido.

But if you can’t even force yourself to look at your partner or you’re already running out of excuses why not to have sex with him, there could be something more than just stress draining you.

3. Pensate sempre più spesso di stare da soli

When you think about your future and any of your future plans, your partner is not part of them. When you are thinking about possibilities where you could be happy in the future, your partner is not by your side. That is the biggest sign that you’ve fallen out of love.

Il secondo è lo sviluppo di uno sguardo vagante o addirittura l'immaginarsi con un'altra persona. Potreste sentirvi in colpa per questo, potreste anche cercare di sopprimere tutto questo perché vi state dicendo che amate il vostro partner.

But are you really? Maybe your subconscious is trying to tell you something you don’t want to admit.

4. Le priorità cambiano

Quando si ha una relazione, la relazione è il vostro obiettivo. La vostra relazione è la vostra priorità. Ma quando si inizia a disinnamorarsi, si smette di mettere la relazione al primo posto. Il primo pensiero al mattino non è il partner, ma il lavoro, la libertà, se stessi.

Your last thought of the day is not your relationship. It’s your daydreaming about your future but without your partner. The moment you stop making your relationship una priorità è il momento in cui la relazione è condannata.

5. La vostra comunicazione non è più ineccepibile

Every functional and healthy relationship is built upon communication. It’s important to create a bond between you and to nourish your love, but what if your communication is not what it used to be?

E se le vostre conversazioni avessero il pilota automatico, sempre le stesse cose e sempre le stesse chiacchiere? In questo caso, avete perso la connessione perdendo la comunicazione.

You can either work on it together or see if there are any more signs from the list that are unfortunately screaming you don’t belong together.

6. Ci si sente in trappola

You feel like running away all the time. You feel like there is not enough oxygen around your partner. You feel like if your partner hugs you one more time you will die in his or her arms—your freedom will die.

For too long, I thought that there was something wrong with me because in every single relationship, I felt trapped. In every single relationship, I felt like I couldn’t breathe, like I couldn’t dream, like there would be no tomorrow if I didn’t leave.

But all it took for me to feel free in a relationship was the right person. And the same will happen to you. Just please don’t force yourself to stay with someone who makes you unhappy, to stay in a relationship where you feel trapped. Ti meriti molto di più.