7 cose che fanno sentire gli uomini insicuri e le donne non se ne rendono nemmeno conto

Sì, abbiamo il potere di far sentire un uomo insicuro (per quanto possa sembrare strano).

Not every man is an alpha who believes in himself no matter what a woman says or does, that’s why we need to be careful. Men have feelings, too.

They will, of course, never tell us how they’re feeling or that what we have said has hurt them but that doesn’t change the fact that they start to doubt themselves or even the relationship.

There are many things that make a man feel insecure but most of the time we don’t even realize what we have done.

Il tuo ex

No matter what a guy says about your ex, no matter how many times he says that he doesn’t mind you being friends with him, he would like it much better if you would never see him again in your life.

When you mention your ex, he probably thinks about the way he kissed you, on those lips he’s kissing right now.

He thinks about how you two made love and he’s subconsciously comparing himself to your ex.

All your exes. It’s not that easy for him to forget that you loved someone else before you found him.

I vostri amici maschi

Se siete un po' troppo affettuose con i vostri amici maschi, il vostro ragazzo si sentirà molto insicuro.

If you hug your guy friends and talk about them often, it’s like putting worms inside his head that won’t ever leave.

He’ll remember those men for the rest of his life and he’ll try to tag along every time you go out with those friends just so he can keep an eye on them.

Confrontarlo con altri ragazzi

Se paragonarlo a qualsiasi uomo ever, he won’t let that go for a long time, because that means that you have paid attention to something another man is doing or how another man looks.

Ti renderebbe insicura se ti paragonasse a un'altra donna, quindi perché lo fai?

Ti lamenti sempre

I get it, men make mistakes, just like women do. But that doesn’t mean that we have permission to complain about everything our partner does, right?

Quindi, la prossima volta che lo vedete, che ne dite di dirgli che apprezzate lui e l'impegno che mette nella relazione, perché altrimenti le vostre parole possono portare le più grandi insicurezze.

Hai imbrogliato

Not exactly in your relationship, but if you cheated on one of your exes and he knows about it, it’ll make him constantly fear that it might happen again.

He will analyze every conversation you have with another man and he won’t want to let you go out without him.

It’ll make him seem clingy and needy but he’s actually just insecure that you will leave him for another man.

Non si rispettano i suoi sentimenti

Telling him to, “Be a man,” when he’s crying or showing you his emotional side isn’t really doing him a favor.

Gli uomini hanno sentimenti altrettanto forti dei nostri, quindi dobbiamo apprezzarli.

By disrespecting his feelings and telling him, “Be a man,” or, “Men don’t cry,” you’re actually telling him that he’s not masculine enough to be with you and he will start to think that he’s not good enough for you.

You don’t compliment him

What happens when you don’t get a compliment from him that reassures you he’s acknowledged your hard work or efforts?

Si diventa insicuri, forse addirittura arrabbiati, giusto? Ebbene, la stessa cosa accade quando si fa questo al proprio uomo.

La prossima volta che si presenta alla vostra porta, prima ancora che dica qualcosa, fermatelo e ditegli quanto è bello.

He’ll appreciate it and he won’t be insecure about it.