8 adorabili ragioni per cui gli uomini amano le coccole

Gli uomini sono completamente uguali alle donne. Tutti questi stereotipi sugli uomini che odiano coccole sono semplicemente ridicoli.

Per esperienza personale, gli uomini amano le coccole. Quando provano dei sentimenti per voi e sono interessati a voi, sfrutteranno ogni momento con voi per toccarvi e coccolarvi. abbracciarti. It’s a completely normal way of displaying affection.

On the other hand, if a guy doesn’t want to cuddle, don’t label him as ‘not a cuddling type’ because there is no such thing.

Instead of that, he is probably just not interested in you or is not yet sure where your relationship is going, so he doesn’t want to give you false hope.

So, we’ve agreed that guys love to cuddle, but do we know why? Here it goes:

Vi fa sentire al sicuro

 

It is in a man’s nature be protective and by hugging you, they are showing you they care for you. They don’t want anything bad happen to you, and they are showing it by cuddling.

They want to keep you by their sides, hold on to you tightly and never let you go. In his arms, you’ll feel safe and loved, just the way he wants you to.

Si sente abbastanza uomo

Whether they like to admit it or not, men love control. They love to be in charge of things, and one of the things they’d love to be in charge of is your relationship.

A loro piace pensare di esserne i responsabili. Quindi, vogliono sentirsi virili.

They want to be the type of man you’ll come to when you feel down and sad.

They want to hold you in their arms, and tell you it’s going to be alright. They want to give you comfort when you need it.

Vuole renderti felice

Is there something more beautiful than a warm and nice hug at the end of a hard day? Well, that’s how much he loves you, and that’s what he wants to give you.

Vuole prendervi tra le braccia e stringervi per rilassarvi. Vuole che vi sentiate protetti e che vi apriate a lui.

Cuddling is not just an ordinary thing to him. It’s a chance for you to open up in a safe space and be vulnerable without judging. It’s a chance for you to feel happy.

Vuole sentire il contatto

 

Non solo vuole che voi siate felici, ma vuole esserlo anche lui.

E toccare qualcuno e stabilire un contatto ravvicinato gli dà proprio questo.

Il cervello produce ormoni della felicità quando si tocca una persona che si ama.

That’s why he has the need to cuddle with you. He wants to feel the physical contact which brings forth happy thoughts.

It’s not sex, but it’s intimate

You’d think that all guys are just about sex. Well, believe it or not, they are not.

Some guys want to show you affection, but they don’t want to insult you by taking you to bed too early.

Instead, they will cuddle because it’s another way of being intimate with the person you care about without taking your clothes off.

Non c'è pressione

Il sesso può essere molto stressante per gli uomini. Devono portare il loro gioco e dare il meglio di sé.

They don’t want to disappoint you. Sometimes this pressure has a great impact on their performance.

Ma uno dei motivi per cui gli uomini amano le coccole è che possono essere se stessi.

Possono godere della vicinanza con voi senza sentire alcuna pressione. Possono essere semplicemente se stessi.

Può portare al sesso

Once again, it doesn’t have to and no pressure, but it can. If the cuddling goes one step further, than the sex is guaranteed. It all depends whether you are in the mood or not.

Ma tenete presente che gli uomini che amano le coccole le fanno perché gli piacciono, non perché possano portare al sesso.

But that doesn’t mean that the possibility isn’t hanging somewhere deep in the back of their minds, just in case.

Possono essere vulnerabili

Not only are they making you feel safe and letting you be vulnerable, they are opening up to you, too. They are also being vulnerable when you’re cuddling.

They usually love to be heroes who protect and are always there when there’s trouble.

Ma in realtà i ragazzi sono vulnerabili come noi. Anche loro sono esseri umani con dei sentimenti. Si sentono tristi, si sentono feriti.

E mentre si coccolano, possono condividere tutte queste cose con voi.

Se lo desiderano, possono aprirsi e chiedere conforto. Le coccole sono il momento perfetto per farlo.