Sta flirtando con me? Ecco i 15 principali segnali che lo sta facendo!

"Sta flirtando con me o no?". "È veramente attratto o è solo gentile?".

Now, raise your hand if you’ve ever asked yourself these two questions above (and I thought so).

Lucky you, you’re definitely not alone on this one!

Flirting is, without a doubt, a real art in itself and when someone flirts with you, you can’t help yourself but feel amazing and really special.

Flirting makes you instantly feel ten times more attractive; it can also be a lot of fun! (And it would be really suspicious if there weren’t any negative sides to it as well.)

Il problema più grande è che è davvero difficile capire se sta flirtando con te o se è solo gentile con te.

To some guys, flirting comes naturally, so it’s really hard to decipher when they are doing it because they are really attratti da voi o per altri scopi.

There are also guys who are really bad at it, yet still don’t give up on trying to acknowledge their “flirting attempts.”

In definitiva, la cosa più importante è ricordarsi di mantenere la calma e di non pensarci troppo.

If you do, you might just ruin all the fun and their chances of winning you (and you definitely don’t want that.)

And that’s why I’m here today to help you understand it better and guide you through the biggest flirting signs that men exhibit when they are genuinely attracted to you!

So, the next time you find yourself wondering, “Is he flirting with me or not?” consider the following top 15 signs that he definitely is!

STA FLIRTANDO CON ME? ECCO I 15 PRINCIPALI SEGNALI CHE LO STANNO FACENDO!

He’s always happy to see you

   

One of the biggest signs that he’s definitely flirting with you is if he seems always happy when he’s around you.

Vedete, nessuno è felice 24 ore su 24 e 7 giorni su 7 e nessuno può fingere un costante stupore quando vede qualcuno se non è veramente attratto da quella persona.

So, if you notice that his facial expression is blank when talking to others, but when he’s with you, he instantly turns into the embodiment of happiness, know that he’s doing it subconsciously and because he can’t help himself going crazy in your presence.

Ti tocca giocosamente

     

When he’s sitting next to you, he subtly touches your knees or legs. When he’s getting up, he ‘accidentally’ brushes his body across yours.

He playfully taps your feet with his, or when he’s laughing, he play-punches you to let you know how much he enjoys trascorrere del tempo con voi.

Vedete, quando un il ragazzo è davvero interessato a te, he simply can’t help but to constantly try to be close to you.

Ed è per questo che cercherà sempre di trovare delle scuse per toccarvi giocosamente quando meno ve lo aspettate.

(So, next time you’re next to him, make sure to pay attention whether he does any of the things above.)

Ti guarda profondamente negli occhi

When he’s talking to you or when you’re talking, he always looks deeply into your eyes to the extent of almost making you feel uncomfortable.

But, believe me, there’s no need for that because if a guy looks deeply into your eyes, it means he’s appreciating you inside out.

He’s imagining how it would feel to kiss you, to embrace you and to make love to you.

Si perde nei vostri occhi perché siete il suo rifugio sicuro, l'unico posto in cui vuole stare in quel momento. E vuole restarci per sempre.

Si complimenta con voi in modo premuroso

Quando si tratta di complimenti, sono sempre un po' confusi.

By complimenting someone, we are letting them know that we like what we see and that is why sometimes it’s hard to differentiate whether this is linked with being attracted to you or just being nice.

Now, the biggest difference between the two is the way he compliments you. Let’s say that he compliments your T-shirt.

Se dice, “I love your T-shirt,” it probably means that he’s just being nice.

Ma, se dice, “I love the way your T-shirt accentuates your (green) eyes,” he’s paying you a thoughtful compliment because he’s crazy about you.

Si sforza di farvi ridere

Does he turn into a comedian when in your company? If yes, you can be sure that he’s flirting with you!

Quando i ragazzi sono innamorati di una ragazza, hanno la tendenza a usare l'umorismo come strumento per attrarla.

Pensano che se vi fanno ridere costantemente, significa che stanno facendo qualcosa di giusto e che se voi ridete, significa che sono in grado di rendervi felici, il che, dopo tutto, è il loro obiettivo finale.

So, if he tries hard to make you laugh every time you’re with him, it means he’s trying hard to seduce you.

Si agita intorno a te

Non è in grado di mantenere la calma e di essere rilassato quando parla con voi.

He fidgets like he’s on a Ferris wheel and sometimes you ask yourself whether something’s wrong with him or if you’ve said something wrong.

Don’t worry, everything’s perfectly fine with him, except for the fact that he’s unable to be relaxed because he’s too overwhelmed by your presence and the pressure to win you.

E questo non ha nulla a che fare con la fiducia in se stessi, perché anche i ragazzi più sicuri di sé fanno così quando sono profondamente attratto da qualcuno.

He texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up”

 

When he texts you, he texts you things like “hey there” or “what’s up,” which are meant to expand your conversation.

It means he’s really interested in what you are doing at the moment and perhaps he’s thinking of proposing to go for a drink or something.

Another sign is that he never texts you these things in a “booty call” time because he’s not that type of a guy (if you know what I mean).

Instead, he’s attracted to you on a deeper level than just physical and his actions are definitely showing it.

Ha un modo speciale per abbracciarti

Ci sono diversi tipi di abbracci, ma per un ragazzo che sta flirtando con voi ce n'è solo uno.

Ha un modo speciale di abbracciarti e funziona più o meno così.

Quando vi abbraccia, vi trattiene per due o tre secondi in più (rispetto a quanto si ritiene opportuno) e in un momento vi preme con forza contro il suo corpo e poi vi rilascia.

He’s doing it because he wants to feel all of you; he wants to feel your soul and your body as well.

He is dying to be one with you and deep down in his heart he is hoping that you’ll notice it all by the way he hugs you.

Memorizza tutto quello che dici

He recalls every single thing you ever said to him and when you’re talking about something, he mentions it and you immediately think to yourself how in the hell did he remember it.

Beh, lo ha fatto perché è ovviamente pazzo di te e probabilmente ha tonnellate di mappe nel suo cervello che sono tutte collegate a te.

If he memorizes everything you say, it means he’s actually listening to your every word and connecting dots about your personality (while you’re probably none the wiser).

Il suo sorriso cambia

Quando sorride agli altri, il suo sorriso è semplicemente educato, ma quando si rivolge a voi, il suo sorriso cambia immediatamente.

It’s because his affection for you is giving him power to light up every room with just one smile of his.

It’s like he’s giving you reassurance that you’re the one for him, that he’s waited so long for you to come, and that whenever he sees you, you make his day without even trying.

Il suo sorriso è il suo modo di dire che sei speciale ed è felice di stare con voi.

Lo sorprendi a fissarti

When guys are smitten by someone, they can’t help but stare at them.

So, if you frequently catch him staring at you and when you look at him, he doesn’t even try to pretend that he was looking somewhere else, it means he is letting you know that he is flirting with you and that he hopes you will reciprocate.

Tuttavia, i ragazzi timidi si comportano in modo diverso.

If a shy guy is staring at you and you catch him doing it, he will try to fool you that he was not looking at you by looking somewhere else because he’s not that comfortable or not yet ready to let you know that he likes you and is trying to flirt with you.

He’s way too excited about things you have in common

Quando dite che amate quel particolare libro, lui si stupisce immediatamente di amarlo anche lui.

He’s evidently way too excited about all the things you have in common because this is guys’ way to show you that they are interested in you and they want to keep the conversation going.

If he does this, it means he’s excited about you and all the things you like and do.

By exaggerating his excitement about having things in common, he’s trying to let you know that you two are compatible and he’s interested in hearing more of what you have to share with him.

Cerca sempre di proteggerti e di anticipare i tuoi bisogni.

Ogni volta che avete bisogno di aiuto per qualcosa, lui appare come Superman in pochi secondi. Vi protegge dal freddo dandovi tutti i suoi vestiti.

He always makes sure that you’re comfortable and happy wherever you are with him and that nothing bad happens to you.

He treats you like a lady because he feels that it’s his job to do so.

He can’t help but be at your service 24/7 because it’s his way of telling you that you’ve successfully captured his body and heart, that he wants to take care of you and make you happy.

Segnali del linguaggio del corpo

Ogni volta che ci si chiede, “Is he flirting with me or not?” ricordatevi di prestare attenzione anche al suo linguaggio del corpo.

Saprete che sta flirtando con voi se si appoggia a voi mentre vi parla, se dirige i piedi e il corpo verso di voi, se stabilisce un contatto visivo, alza le sopracciglia e vi sorride.

Esistono anche molti altri segnali, ma questi sono i più importanti e i più frequenti.

Also, another major sign that he’s flirting with you is if he starts fussing with his clothes.

He will do that because he’s trying to look nice for you and he wants to impress you.

Cerca di fare colpo su di te

Un altro modo di flirtare (quando si tratta di ragazzi) è cercare di fare colpo su di voi.

Nel farlo, cercherà di utilizzare ogni aspetto della sua vita e tutto ciò che gli viene in mente e che vale la pena menzionare.

Ad esempio, si vanterà del suo nuovo lavoro, della sua nuova auto, dei suoi successi. Si sforzerà di farvi ridere.

Vi parlerà del suo nuovo, impressionante hobby.

Cercherà in tutti i modi di impressionarvi per catturare la vostra attenzione e per reindirizzare i vostri pensieri sulle sue qualità.

È inoltre importante ricordare che non tutti i ragazzi esprimono tutti i segnali di cui sopra quando flirtano con voi. Personalità diverse hanno stili diversi quando si tratta di questo.

So, if you notice that he’s exhibiting some of the above signs on the list (or all of them), you can be sure that he is flirting with you and that he is genuinely attracted to you!