8 alti e bassi emotivi di una quasi-relazione

All'inizio ci si sente eccitati

Quando le cose sono appena iniziate ci si sente eccitati, come all'inizio di ogni nuova relazione.

Il loro nome compare sul vostro telefono e vi vengono le farfalle nello stomaco. Ogni volta che ti dicono qualcosa, arrossisci.

La tua spalla che sfiora la sua per caso sembra un fuoco d'artificio.The chemistry between you is strong – it’s like a constant electrical feeling.

Ci si sente vivi e si spera che questa sensazione non scompaia mai.

Poi, ci si sente confusi

You were convinced that you were heading towards a real relationship, but suddenly you feel like he’s sending you mixed signals.

You’re no longer sure he cares about you as much as you care about him.

It seems now like you’ve been fooling yourself into thinking that one day you’ll become a couple.

You constantly try to figure out what’s happening in his mind but it’s all for nothing because one minute you feel like you have it all figured out and the next you’re back to square one.

They always have a way of doing something that keeps you on your toes, so you never really know where you’re headed with them.

Non siete più pazienti

Sometimes you feel like you are still on the right track to becoming a real couple, and those days you’re fine with the way things stand between you because you can see it all as a path to something better.

Other days, you are really impatient for your ‘almost’ to make the damn move already.

Siete certi di piacergli e di essere attratti da voi, e siete sicuri che gli piaccia passare del tempo con voi. Cosa stanno aspettando?

That’s why you’re constantly questioning yourself

Dovete fare la prima mossa? È questo che stanno aspettando?

Maybe they are just shy and want to wait and take things slowly and you’re here blaming them for simply being the way they are. Hmm?

Si diventa gelosi

You see them flirting with other people and realize you have no right to be mad at them because you aren’t committed in any way and you have no rights there.

It makes you annoyed – to say the least – when they do that, but you aren’t officially in a relationship so what can you do?

They have no obligation to stay loyal to you, but that doesn’t make you feel any better about things.

It’s starting to look like they have none of the obligations of a relationship, only the benefits of one.

Iniziate a spaventarvi

You’re starting to feel your emotions for this person getting stronger every day and you get really scared that they’re going to hurt you.

At the beginning, you had a huge crush on them and it was fun, but you weren’t as involved as you are now and it was easier to just let it be an almost relationship.

You’re starting to fear that you’ll leave this almost relationship with a broken heart, and you’ll end up suffering over a relationship that was never even a real relationship.

Ora sembra che sarebbe stato meglio se non aveste mai dato loro il vostro cuore.

Siete delusi

You imagined spending more time together, going places, meeting each other’s friends and family but suddenly they’re gone.

È molto strano piangere una relazione che non è mai esistita.

Nella vostra mente, le cose stavano appena iniziando a scaldarsi, ma in realtà avevano già chiuso con voi. Sì, vi sentite tristi.

Soprattutto, però, vi sentite delusi perché hanno interrotto le cose al culmine dell'eccitazione per la realizzazione del vostro nuovo amore.

Finalmente ci si sente sollevati

When you’ve had some time to think it over you actually feel relieved.

Ci si sente fortunati che la quasi relazione è finitaperché non è mai stato un vero affare.

You feel like you’ve gotten your wings back and you can fly off and find new love.

You’re no longer stuck wondering how they feel and what they are going to do next.

Ora sapete che ciò di cui avete bisogno è una relazione onesta con qualcuno che vi ami, si prenda cura di voi e voglia le stesse cose che volete voi.