15 segni di attrazione femminile per le donne

What is the difference between a woman who is attracted to you and one who wants to be friends and nothing more? Is there a clear line between these two behavior patterns, or do you have to be a mind reader to figure out what’s actually going on?

I know that figuring out whether another woman is into you or if she’s just being nice requires a lot of brainstorming. Luckily, I’m here to save you a lot of trouble and to give you all the answers you need

If you read on, you’ll find all the female-to-female attraction signs you need to clear all of your doubts away!

15 segnali di attrazione da donna a donna

Se una donna mostra la maggior parte o tutti questi segnali di attrazione tra donne, una cosa è certa: lei è presa da te!

1. Contatto visivo profondo

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying, “the eyes are windows to the soul.” Well, it’s actually true. We can choose not to talk about our emotions out loud, but we can’t order our eyes what to do.

Ecco perché contatto visivo is one of the first signs of attraction you can look for when you’re wondering if your female friend is into you.

One thing is for sure – this woman can’t take her eyes off you. She is probably not doing it on purpose, but she can’t help herself. She is so attracted to you that she could spend eternity just looking at you.

Allo stesso tempo, cerca di leggere i vostri pensieri. Cosa succede quando lei inizia il contatto visivo? Ricambierete lo sguardo? I vostri occhi mostreranno attrazione?

Tuttavia, il contatto visivo non è l'unica cosa a cui dovete prestare attenzione. Mentre la maggior parte delle donne sbatterà di più le palpebre e fisserà le vostre labbra quando gli piacete, alcune faranno qualcosa di completamente opposto.

Avete mai pensato che questa donna stia facendo del suo meglio per nascondere i suoi sentimenti romantici per voi? Così, senza nemmeno rendersene conto, distoglie lo sguardo ogni volta che i vostri occhi si incrociano.

At first, you might think that this is a telltale sign that she can’t stand you. Nevertheless, if you dig beneath the surface, it’s actually a subtle sign that le piaci. She is just too nervous you’ll figure it out!

2. Tocco fisico

Physical contact is one of the most common female-to-female attraction signs, especially if we’re talking about a woman whose linguaggio dell'amore è tocco fisico! When a woman has a romantic interest in you, she’ll also feel the uncontrollable urge to touch you as much as possible.

No, I’m not talking about inappropriate touching here. Remember: no matter what, you should never allow someone to cross your personal boundaries.

I’m talking about all those “accidental” little touches nobody fails to notice. I’m talking about how she’ll remove your hair from your face or put her hand on your knee when you’re laughing.

This is not uncommon for best friends to do, you must think. However, if you step back and compare her behavior to all of your other friends, you’ll see that there is a huge difference.

She kisses you (on the cheek) every time you meet, and when you hug, she holds you in her arms a little bit longer than necessary. She touches your hand when she’s making a point, and she uses every opportunity for some harmless cuddling.

3. Altri segni del linguaggio del corpo

Ci sono altri segni fisici di una donna mostra quando è romanticamente interessata a un'altra donna. Secondo gli esperti, le donne usano i segnali del linguaggio del corpo per esprimere affetto molto più che esprimere verbalmente i loro sentimenti.

The first female body language sign of attraction is probably lip movement. This woman is dying to kiss you. She stares at your lips and bites hers every time you’re near.

A woman who likes you will also laugh more than necessary in your presence. No, she’s not faking it – she is really happy to see you, and she can’t control her smile.

And let’s not forget preening. No, this doesn’t mean she is cocky or ego-centric. She just wants you to see her at her best, that’s all.

Another thing to pay attention to is her hair. She’ll nervously twirl it around her finger every time you two talk.

Posizione del corpo

But the first thing you should pay attention to if you’re looking for female-to-female attraction signs is the position of this woman’s body. If she’s on top of you, it’s a pretty sure sign she likes you, LOL.

All jokes aside, this woman’s shoulders will be leaning towards you, and her feet will be pointed in your direction. It is common for her to expose her thighs, to show her openness to you.

At the same time, she’ll stick her chest out and roll her hips while she’s walking and knows that you’re looking. Once again, she doesn’t necessarily do this on purpose – these are subconscious signs of attraction.

4. Fare coming out con voi

Let’s get one thing straight: se il vostro migliore amico, il vostro collega o qualsiasi altra persona LGBTQ nelle vostre vicinanze si presenta a voi, it doesn’t mean that they’re in any way romantically interested in you. On the contrary, it’s a clear sign that they trust you enough to share this with you. At the same time, they expect your understanding and support.

Tuttavia, se una donna che mostra evidenti attrazione sessuale to you casually mentions that she’s part of the LGBTQ community, it’s a good sign that she is into you.

It’s actually pretty simple – she is putting all her cards on the table right away and wants you to know where she stands. Of course, just because you two are of the same sexual orientation doesn’t mean that she stands a chance.

Nevertheless, she wants to know if you have any sexual interest in women whatsoever or if you’re just focused on straight men. Is it safe for her to get her hopes up, or should she give up in time?

5. Cercare scuse per farsi sentire

This woman is too shy to make an actual first move. She won’t ask you out on a primo appuntamento or confess her feelings for you – at least, not yet.

Tuttavia, fa in modo di essere sempre presente. Continua a trovare scuse per essere sempre vicino a te.

Ha bisogno di aiuto, ti chiede consiglio e ti offre una mano. Risponde alle vostre storie su Instagram e Snapchat e inizia sempre la conversazione.

And when she runs out of excuses, she’ll just send you a simple “buongiorno” text – just to talk to you. When you come to think of it, there hasn’t been a day when you two haven’t talked, and most of the time, she was the one who reached out first.

6. Gelosia eccessiva

Se vi capita di chiederle consigli sulle relazioni, she’ll always tell you to break up with the person you’re seeing right now. No, this is not the same situation when your best friend hates the guy who broke your heart.

This woman has a reason you shouldn’t be with anyone. Well, anyone besides her.

She knows she’s not your girlfriend. So, she has no right to be jealous of you dating someone else. However, she can’t help it.

Ogni volta che vi vede flirtare con un uomo o con una donna, vi diventa follemente geloso. She won’t tell you that, but it’s pretty obvious.

She is even ready to badmouth your dates. But know that she’s not doing it because she’s a bad person. She just wants you all to herself.

Naturalmente, lo fa con la scusa di darvi consigli sulle relazioni. A quanto pare, si sta solo comportando da buona amica e vuole evitarti di avere il cuore spezzato.

7. Interessato alla vostra vita sentimentale

One of the female-to-female attraction signs is also this woman’s interest in your relationship history. If this is the case, this woman doesn’t only have a sexual interest in you – she sees you as materiale per la fidanzata.

Non è interessata solo a uomini e donne che ci provano con lei in questo momento. She wants to know all about the people you’ve dated, and she is especially curious about your long-term relationships.

La prima cosa che vuole sapere è se ci sono donne nella vostra storia di appuntamenti. Poi vuole sapere che tipo di persone erano i vostri ex.

Cosa cercate in un potenziale partner? Quali sono i vostri maggiori ostacoli? Quanto sono alti i vostri standard?

Instead of asking you all of this directly, she’ll try finding out all the info she needs while getting you to open up to her. And the bonus is that it is also a great chance to get to know you better.

8. Flirt e prese in giro

When a woman is hitting on you, she won’t be doing it much differently than any straight man. Yes, that means that there will be a lot of flirting and teasing involved.

She starts acting like a little child. Besides the obvious body language signs, she’ll also play with you like you’re in middle school. Yes, I’m talking about chasing you around, playing with your hair, or even giving you cute, little insults.

And let’s not forget about the sexual innuendos. You never know if she’s joking or hitting on you, and that’s the charm of your relationship.

On the one hand, the physical attraction she feels for you is quite obvious to others. But on the other hand, you two are friends, and making jokes like this wouldn’t be anything strange – after all, you do it with all of your other friends as well.

But the key difference is in how she makes them. It’s in the way she looks or touches you while teasing you. That is exactly what differentiates flirtation from innocent, friendly behavior.

9. Diventare molto timidi

No matter how self-confident this woman usually is, she gets nervous when she is around you. If that isn’t a great sign of her feelings, I don’t know what is.

We’re talking about a strong, loud woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to get it. It looks like she isn’t afraid of anything.

But she is clearly afraid of you – in a good way. She is terrified to confess her feelings to you, and I think that’s kind of cute.

Ogni volta che ti presenti, si trasforma in una vera e propria ragazza timida. She gets tongue-tied. Her palms and knees start to shake, and she doesn’t know what to say. She blushes and avoids eye contact at all costs.

You know for a fact that she is not like this around other people. On the contrary, she is a real social butterfly – she only gets confused when you’re around.

If this is the case, it means that this woman has genuine feelings for you, and it’s much more than pure physical attraction.

10. Fiducia in voi

Quando una donna è innamorata di voi, dimenticherà immediatamente i suoi problemi di fiducia. Si sentirà a suo agio con voi, chiederà la vostra opinione e ascolterà i vostri consigli.

You’re the first person she calls when she’s in trouble or just needs someone to hear her out. No, this doesn’t mean that she has no friends or family. After all, what did she do before you came along?

Ma sente il desiderio di parlare con lei. Vuole sentire i vostri consigli e vuole parlarvi dei suoi segreti.

Of course, this alone can’t be seen as one of the female-to-female attraction signs. If she’s not doing anything else from this list, it’s possible that she just wants to be friends. However, if this sign is combined with all the others – there is no doubt that she is into you.

11. Vi ascolta

Questa donna ascolta davvero ciò che avete da dire. È sempre presente quando si ha bisogno di un consiglio o di una spalla su cui piangere.

When you come to think about it, you’ll realize that you could call her in the middle of the night and know she’d always pick up the phone. Non è mai troppo occupata quando avete bisogno di lei e vi fa spazio nella sua agenda ogni volta che ne avete bisogno.

È lì per confortarvi, darvi una mano e aiutarvi a superare i momenti difficili. È qualcuno che ti prende quando cadi e ti dà una spinta quando ti sembra che nulla vada bene.

12. Ricorda le piccole cose

Ma come puoi sapere se ti sta ascoltando davvero? Forse sta solo fingendo di essere lì per farti scopare?

Well, if she remembers the little things about you, she is definitely all in. We’re talking about someone who knows the name of your childhood pet, your favorite color, and other trivial stuff like that.

She is the first to notice that you’ve gotten a new haircut or that you’re using a new perfume.

Ma allo stesso tempo, chiede a tutti gli domande giuste and puts effort into getting to know the real you. She knows when you’re feeling down without you even having to tell her.

She is trying hard to know what you’re thinking and is doing a great job of reading your mind.

Does this mean that she is obsessed with you? Absolutely not – at least, not in a bad way. This woman is just hopelessly in love with you.

13. Fare i complimenti

One of the female-to-female attraction signs is, without a doubt, the compliments you’ve been getting from this woman. I know what you’ll tell me now: your friends and coworkers farvi i complimenti all the time, and they’re not hitting on you.

Ma sapete bene che questa volta è diverso. Questa ragazza ti sta decisamente squadrando. Ti fissa le tette e il sedere e ti fa i complimenti per il tuo aspetto.

However, if she’s interested in a real relationship, she’ll compliment your personality as well. Yes, she was initially attracted to your looks – nobody can argue against that.

Nevertheless, with time, she clearly fell in love with you. She is enchanted with every little detail about you, and she can’t help but tell you that.

To her, you’re the most beautiful, most intelligent, and most interesting woman in the world. She won’t tell you this directly, but her compliments are more than enough to realize that this is true.

14. Sorprese romantiche

Chi è stata la prima persona che le ha fatto gli auguri? buon compleanno, exactly at midnight? That’s right, it was her.

But she didn’t only wish you a happy birthday – she threw you a big surprise as well. Maybe she didn’t want to be too obvious, so she didn’t take you out for a romantic candlelit dinner at a fancy restaurant (trust me, that was what she actually wanted).

However, she did gather all of your friends together and buy you exactly what you’ve been talking about.

What about Valentine’s Day? I bet she made a joke about it and bought you a little something because you’re both two single girls and won’t get any presents from someone else.

Ma qual era il vero motivo? O in realtà stava cercando una scusa per comprarle qualcosa?

15. La sua vita sentimentale

For as long as you can remember, this woman hasn’t had a serious relationship. Even when she’s dating someone, she either hides it from you (which is unbelievably strange because she tells you everything else), or she rubs it in your face as if she’s trying to make you jealous.

A pensarci bene, la maggior parte delle volte è single. E quando glielo si chiede, dice che sta aspettando quello giusto.

Ironically, when she describes her perfect person, she talks about your qualities. Doesn’t this mean that you’re the one she’s been craving all along?

Una ragazza può avere una cotta per un'altra ragazza?

Yes, any girl can have a crush on another girl. That’s right – this includes straight women as well.

Just because you’ve only been attracted to and had relationships with straight men until now, it doesn’t mean that can’t change. One day, you could meet a woman who will make you fall in love like never before.

Maybe this will be a one-time thing, and you’ll go back to liking men. Or maybe you’ll find your place in the Comunità LGBTQ. Or you’ll realize that you’re actually a sapiosexual and that you couldn’t care less about the sex of your partner.

The possibilities are endless, and it’s up to you whether you’ll be open to them or not.

Quali sono i segni che le ragazze sono attratte da voi?

If other women are checking you out, paying you compliments, or even asking you out – they’re definitely attracted to you. Some of the other signs include jealousy, flirting, as well as putting you first, listening to what you have to say, and being there for you.

When a woman is into you, she’ll do everything she can to get near you and even become your friend (but she’ll be careful not to get trapped in the friend zone).

The first thing she is interested in is whether you’re into girls or not. If she thinks that you’re giving her the green light, she’ll continue hitting on you.

Quello che succede dopo dipende da voi.

Per concludere:

Let’s be clear about one thing: a woman doesn’t have to necessarily display all of these female-to-female attraction signs for you to understand that she has a romantic interest in you. However, the most important thing here is cosa vi dice l'intestino.

If you feel sexual tension and a special kind of vibe between you two, I’m sure that something more is going on. On the other hand, if you feel that she only sees you as a friend, you’re probably right as well.